[Torento <3]

so two people can't fall in love unless they "get together"?

So you're telling me that you can fall in love with someone before you even start a relationship?

[SiMPLY PiNk*]

So you're telling me that you can fall in love with someone before you even start a relationship?

people don't need to officially name & announce themselves as couple in order to fall in love.
the way you phrased your sentence & replied to the user who said she'll get with a man of any age
as long as she loved him, you're basically saying people can't love each other unless they're a couple.

[san-ni-ichi]

I would personally date girls who are between the age ranges of:
3 years younger all the way to
1 year older than me
Love is unpredictable though, so i dunno o_O

[Torento <3]

people don't need to officially name & announce themselves as couple in order to fall in love.
the way you phrased your sentence & replied to the user who said she'll get with a man of any age
as long as she loved him, you're basically saying people can't love each other unless they're a couple.

What are you going on about?

Officially naming and announcing themselves as a couple? I never mentioned anything at all about that. You don't need that to be in a 'relationship', believe me, I know. A relationship doesn't mean you have to be 'dating' by the way, it could be dating without the seriousness of it. Nevertheless, I don't know why you care so much about this.

I fail to see how someone can fall in love if they haven't been in a relationship together, gone through struggles, had the unique individual bonds and the like.

[kissez*]

I would never date a minor because that's just... ick. (Sadly enough, I get hit on by kids 18 and under because they think we're the same age lol, I'm reeeally young looking - even for an Asian) and I can't see myself dating anyone older than 30 at this point in my life.

[Flicksityy]

What are you going on about?

Officially naming and announcing themselves as a couple? I never mentioned anything at all about that. You don't need that to be in a 'relationship', believe me, I know. A relationship doesn't mean you have to be 'dating' by the way, it could be dating without the seriousness of it. Nevertheless, I don't know why you care so much about this.

I fail to see how someone can fall in love if they haven't been in a relationship together, gone through struggles, had the unique individual bonds and the like.

You're a special type of guy who is good with messing with people's heads. It takes so many brain cells and analyzing to understand what you are officially implying, your speeches are so deep, so sensitive and well structured like a puzzle...

My head hurts. ROFL.

[mus90]

I'm 18. Right now I would say one year younger, same age or one year older.

[lido0l_zen]

Ummms....
i would date anyone before 40-ish. I kind of think older girls suits me the best. =0

And your likke...
WTF this guy i weird. LOLS. But its just me i guess.

[Rainyraven]

I think it's differs in every age "group" if you get what I mean.

I don't think a 15 year old should date a 20 year old

But I do think that a 18 year old can date a 23 year old

Am I making any sense?

[amarynthis]

Up to 5 years younger (when I'm older of course)
Up to 7-8 years older

Pretty flexible. Cos I know that people's maturity levels are not related to age.

[XxLiLaZnBo1pC5xX]

Standard deviation of +-3 years of age maximum. I am currently 19 years old. However I prefer a woman I date to be legal which is the age of 18 years old or older.

[fuuko-chan]

4 years older as the max. xD My boyfriend is 3 1/2 years older than me. :]
And I just don't want younger people since it'd make me feel old LOL.

[yellowfishieee]

My first boyfriend was 4 years older than me. My current boyfriend is 1 year younger than me.

That being said, I think I'd only go up to 5 years older than me and 2 years younger than me. (I'm 20, I don't want to be fishing in jailbait territory)

[joongielove]

My ex was..well, he's 19 now, turning 20 son, and my current boyfriend is 18, and I'm 17.

There was this one creepy guy though who liked me...he was a complete creeper. And he was 23. So b/c of that, I'd have to say my max is 5 years older. As for younger....hmm. I prefer not to date younger guys, but if I do, I wouldn't want him to be more than 2 years younger. Of course, by the time I find 'the one' if I ever do, all this will go out the window. xD

[SiMPLY PiNk*]

What are you going on about?

Officially naming and announcing themselves as a couple? I never mentioned anything at all about that. You don't need that to be in a 'relationship', believe me, I know. A relationship doesn't mean you have to be 'dating' by the way, it could be dating without the seriousness of it. Nevertheless, I don't know why you care so much about this.

I fail to see how someone can fall in love if they haven't been in a relationship together, gone through struggles, had the unique individual bonds and the like.

you responded to a girl that said she'll "get with" a man (as in officially date the man) of any age as long as she loved him
& you said it was impossible to do so. by that i assumed you meant people can't fall in love unless they're officially dating
because that's what the girl meant (she can love him before she "gets with" him) & you were responding back to her.

[CWISTINE]

i always had a thing for older men.
i mean, i was always, always attracted to older men by means of either 4, to even 9 years older.
i'm 15 right now, and i really like a guy that is in his early 20's.

it's how i was raised though, not really "raised" in that manner, but i am the youngest in my family by up to 20 years, so i was always surrounded by siblings that were older than me, and were always considered as "adults with a family" while i was still - and am still, a teengaer.

[resa_massu]

I think after you turn 18, age isn't that big of a deal anymore.
I use to be really concerned about age until I started college.
Since then, I usually end up liking guys at least 2 years told then me~
It comes down to maturity level and their level of understanding life.

[TDKSJ]

From my point of view, age doesn't really matter ^^ my parents have like, a more than 10 years age gap ^^
If your s/o is older than you, you would kind of feel a lot more secure ans stuff and well, he/she would be pretty darn mature ^^
and if he/she is younger, well, you'll have a more childish side of you coming out ^^ so there's advantages both ways ^^ no problem with age~!

[jjashik]

people says age doesn't matter much in love.
but to some people it does.
i mean i wouldn't want to go out with a guy
thats younger than me D:
i'll feel kind of awkward. >.<
but i dont know.
i'm 16 and my boy friends 20. >.>;

[Babii3x]

well i'm ... ALMOST 14 .... and i like someone whos 16
i don't know .... <3