Jealousy do you like it when your s/o is jealous? or do you find it creepy
#1
Posted 04 June 2008 - 09:32 AM
i want to hear your opinions, do you like it when your s/o gets jealous of you? do you show that you're jealous or do you hold it in and hope that its nothing?
and should you tell him/her about your jealousy?
#2
Posted 04 June 2008 - 10:02 AM
And its normal to want your boyfriend all for yourself. i know i get mad or very jealous when other girls talk to my boyfriend.
i actually told my boyfriend. but he's kind of different, very understanding type of guy.. he says it's all attachment. And you shouldn't be worried about him thinking your a psychotic girlfriend or something. it's just your protective. but..haha idk, sorry i kinda just babbled on but yeah basically i think you should confront him or try and control your jealousy
#3
Posted 04 June 2008 - 01:11 PM
She likes me (positive)
She's obsessed with me (..........negative.....)
#4
Posted 04 June 2008 - 01:17 PM
Be a little jealous, just not like this. If you act apathetic than that can just kill the relationship. I drifted away from my exes because they gave me too much space. I also find it cute when he gets a little jealous, it just shows he still loves and cares about me. But I did approach him about going overboard and he tries hard to give me a little room to breathe.
We just got out of an intense fight and I told him he had a choice: I can pretend total indifference or I will be the psycho jealous girlfriend who will go through his phone and computer (I have every right after what he did and NO he didn't cheat on me). He demanded the latter. So it's ok to be jealous, it's like being concerned not just about him, but about you TWO together.
#5
Posted 04 June 2008 - 02:29 PM
"life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. if you get a chance, take it. if it changes your life, let it. nobody said it'd be easy, they just promised it'd be worth it."
#6
Posted 04 June 2008 - 02:31 PM
She likes me (positive)
She's obsessed with me (..........negative.....)
I like this answer
#7
Posted 04 June 2008 - 03:42 PM
i get so jealous so easily too .
sometimes i feel like somethings gonna happen . .
i dont know why! i try not to , kus i know he loves me .
but i guess it's the girls i dont trust .
wouldn't you get jealous too if your boyfriend is about to high-five some girl , but before doing so asks you ? or before he plays a song for talent show for some other girl , he asks if you're okay with it . BUT , he freely pokes this one girl in the stomach constantly ?
the same girl that he ditched you to walk home with . .in the rain . .with him holding the umbrella for her ?
this was a while ago , but ever since those things ive been drifting away from her .
we were so close , wifeeys . but my jealousy got over me . .
however right now , me and him are so close . .
&its just amazing ,
but whenever he asks something like "oh where's ___? at soccer?" afterschool.. it feels like something really sharp just poked me in the heart .
):
#8
Posted 04 June 2008 - 03:45 PM
#9
Posted 04 June 2008 - 03:47 PM
i want to hear your opinions, do you like it when your s/o gets jealous of you? do you show that you're jealous or do you hold it in and hope that its nothing?
and should you tell him/her about your jealousy?
read boldfaced print. intense jealousy is a sign of low self-esteem and/or high dependency issues. similarly stalkers tend to have these same issues.
#10
Posted 04 June 2008 - 04:07 PM
so i guess he's really careful not to mention her infront of me? like and when i see them around, i try not to be jealous or anything (although it feelsl ike something just stabbed my heart) and turn away b/c i mean, i know that if I have guy friends and i hang out with them, he's allowed to have his share of girlfriends too.
i guess it's just weird b/c i don't see him with other girls except me and this one other girl. xp.
#11
Posted 04 June 2008 - 05:09 PM
i want to hear your opinions, do you like it when your s/o gets jealous of you? do you show that you're jealous or do you hold it in and hope that its nothing?
and should you tell him/her about your jealousy?
I think its creepy and very psycotic as you stated.
But hey, at least you KNOW that you easily get jealous and aren't in Denial.
nice one! you're one step ahead of all the other easily jealous people.
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#12
Posted 04 June 2008 - 06:07 PM
I don't find it scary or anything...scary is when your partner threaten you.
#13
Posted 04 June 2008 - 06:09 PM
She likes me (positive)
She's obsessed with me (..........negative.....)

W I T N E S S .T H E .W O N D E R
#14
Posted 04 June 2008 - 06:10 PM
My boyfriend knows it too ><"
So whenever I'm about to get jealous over something very little,
he'd hug me really tight & say "HEY I LOVE YOU ! No one else .."
#15
Posted 04 June 2008 - 06:40 PM
God's last name isn't "Dammit!"
#16
Posted 04 June 2008 - 07:54 PM
#17
Posted 04 June 2008 - 08:07 PM
well, I get jealous but..I don't really show it or talk about it
but if it REALLY bothers me/ is big then I guess I talk about it..
#18
Posted 04 June 2008 - 08:17 PM
15 - taken - employed - summmer 2008
The hardest thing about growing up
is that you have to do what's best for you,
even if it means breaking someone's heart ..
including your own
#19
Posted 04 June 2008 - 08:23 PM
A little jealousy is always nice because it goes to show that somebody's afraid to lose you.
































