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Jealousy do you like it when your s/o is jealous? or do you find it creepy

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Posted 04 June 2008 - 09:32 AM

I'm a person that gets VERY easily jealous, but i try to not show it, because i'm scared he might think i'm some kind of psychotic girlfriend that wants him all for myself, you know?

i want to hear your opinions, do you like it when your s/o gets jealous of you? do you show that you're jealous or do you hold it in and hope that its nothing?

and should you tell him/her about your jealousy?


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#2 User is offline   melona_ice 

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Posted 04 June 2008 - 10:02 AM

It's okay, i think alot of people are the same way. they just know how to control it more i guess..
And its normal to want your boyfriend all for yourself. i know i get mad or very jealous when other girls talk to my boyfriend.

i actually told my boyfriend. but he's kind of different, very understanding type of guy.. he says it's all attachment. And you shouldn't be worried about him thinking your a psychotic girlfriend or something. it's just your protective. but..haha idk, sorry i kinda just babbled on but yeah basically i think you should confront him or try and control your jealousy
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Posted 04 June 2008 - 01:11 PM

Jealousy can go both ways:

She likes me (positive)
She's obsessed with me (..........negative.....)
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Posted 04 June 2008 - 01:17 PM

I find it essential to be a little jealous, rather than not. My baby is the super dupercrazyjealous type. Everytime I get a text/call/msg he immeadiately asks who it is and how I know them. Then he made me cut off all the guys/friends that used to like me. He wanted me to change my number so that one of my dongsengs wouldn't be able to contact me. He got mad that I chatted with male customers at work... that's TOO MUCH. I'm sure you didn't mean it in this context.

Be a little jealous, just not like this. If you act apathetic than that can just kill the relationship. I drifted away from my exes because they gave me too much space. I also find it cute when he gets a little jealous, it just shows he still loves and cares about me. But I did approach him about going overboard and he tries hard to give me a little room to breathe.

We just got out of an intense fight and I told him he had a choice: I can pretend total indifference or I will be the psycho jealous girlfriend who will go through his phone and computer (I have every right after what he did and NO he didn't cheat on me). He demanded the latter. So it's ok to be jealous, it's like being concerned not just about him, but about you TWO together.


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Posted 04 June 2008 - 02:29 PM

i dont get jealous easily lol cause i can usually decipher between what we have and his socializing. but even when i'm jealous i might just act like nothing happened or talk to some other guy if i know he's doing it on purpose
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Posted 04 June 2008 - 02:31 PM

QUOTE (xTwilight @ Jun 4 2008, 02:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Jealousy can go both ways:

She likes me (positive)
She's obsessed with me (..........negative.....)


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Posted 04 June 2008 - 03:42 PM

omg . .
i get so jealous so easily too .
sometimes i feel like somethings gonna happen . .
i dont know why! i try not to , kus i know he loves me .
but i guess it's the girls i dont trust .
wouldn't you get jealous too if your boyfriend is about to high-five some girl , but before doing so asks you ? or before he plays a song for talent show for some other girl , he asks if you're okay with it . BUT , he freely pokes this one girl in the stomach constantly ?
the same girl that he ditched you to walk home with . .in the rain . .with him holding the umbrella for her ?
this was a while ago , but ever since those things ive been drifting away from her .
we were so close , wifeeys . but my jealousy got over me . .
however right now , me and him are so close . .
&its just amazing ,
but whenever he asks something like "oh where's ___? at soccer?" afterschool.. it feels like something really sharp just poked me in the heart .
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Posted 04 June 2008 - 03:45 PM

^ Wow you're a control freak..., obsessive and clingy. That's probably one of the most annoying things to deal with... ,a controlling s/o, I mean if I had that I'd probably just turn and walk out on her. Its alright to feel a little jealous... and you shouldn't go and tell him you get jealous about everything.. thats... weird.
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Posted 04 June 2008 - 03:47 PM

QUOTE (1LastBreath @ Jun 4 2008, 10:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm a person that gets VERY easily jealous, but i try to not show it, because i'm scared he might think i'm some kind of psychotic girlfriend that wants him all for myself, you know?

i want to hear your opinions, do you like it when your s/o gets jealous of you? do you show that you're jealous or do you hold it in and hope that its nothing?

and should you tell him/her about your jealousy?


read boldfaced print. intense jealousy is a sign of low self-esteem and/or high dependency issues. similarly stalkers tend to have these same issues.
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Posted 04 June 2008 - 04:07 PM

yeah i get jealous pretty easily too. i'm really trying not to b/c we're just friends. i don't really need to tell. apparently i can't hide my emotions and so he knows and apologizes. LOL. it's weird.

so i guess he's really careful not to mention her infront of me? like and when i see them around, i try not to be jealous or anything (although it feelsl ike something just stabbed my heart) and turn away b/c i mean, i know that if I have guy friends and i hang out with them, he's allowed to have his share of girlfriends too.

i guess it's just weird b/c i don't see him with other girls except me and this one other girl. xp.


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Posted 04 June 2008 - 05:09 PM

QUOTE (1LastBreath @ Jun 4 2008, 10:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm a person that gets VERY easily jealous, but i try to not show it, because i'm scared he might think i'm some kind of psychotic girlfriend that wants him all for myself, you know?

i want to hear your opinions, do you like it when your s/o gets jealous of you? do you show that you're jealous or do you hold it in and hope that its nothing?

and should you tell him/her about your jealousy?



I think its creepy and very psycotic as you stated.


But hey, at least you KNOW that you easily get jealous and aren't in Denial.


nice one! you're one step ahead of all the other easily jealous people.
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Posted 04 June 2008 - 06:07 PM

I hardly ever get jealous=] but my bf get jealous all the time...& I hate it a lot, because i'm a friendly person so I talk to everyone.

I don't find it scary or anything...scary is when your partner threaten you.
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Posted 04 June 2008 - 06:09 PM

QUOTE (xTwilight @ Jun 4 2008, 03:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Jealousy can go both ways:

She likes me (positive)
She's obsessed with me (..........negative.....)


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Posted 04 June 2008 - 06:10 PM

I think I get jealous pretty easily .
My boyfriend knows it too ><"
So whenever I'm about to get jealous over something very little,
he'd hug me really tight & say "HEY I LOVE YOU ! No one else .."


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Posted 04 June 2008 - 06:40 PM

i like it better when they're not jealous. i feel less restricted that way.


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Posted 04 June 2008 - 07:54 PM

jealousy can ruin the relationship. I was always very jealous and always get mad over lil things and now thinking about it i feel selfish the girls liked me but i had issue with that..
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Posted 04 June 2008 - 08:07 PM

it should be normal to get jealous o.0
well, I get jealous but..I don't really show it or talk about it
but if it REALLY bothers me/ is big then I guess I talk about it..
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Posted 04 June 2008 - 08:17 PM

I find it funny ? biggrin.gif Cause they tend to over-react alot, and it cracks me up, but in the end .. I feel bad biggrin.gif
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Posted 04 June 2008 - 08:23 PM

I get pretty jealous easily, but I keep it to a minimum. My boyfriend tells me he gets jealous sometimes too.

A little jealousy is always nice because it goes to show that somebody's afraid to lose you.
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Posted 04 June 2008 - 08:31 PM

i find it cute when he gets jealous cause he oftens looks off somewhere and pouts haha
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