[kyung mi]

i get jealous if my s/o starts getting close and closer to another girl

but its cute when he's jealous because it shows that he loves me?

but sometimes it gets scary because he stays quiet anf makes a face ..

[insanelyCRAZY]

I think I get jealous pretty easily .
My boyfriend knows it too ><"
So whenever I'm about to get jealous over something very little,
he'd hug me really tight & say "HEY I LOVE YOU ! No one else .."

Thats really cute. [:

[Desda]

WOW this topic is so for me:

do you like it when your s/o gets jealous of you?
no i don't. it's depressing for me. I think, "what have i done wrong to make you feel like that ? i'm sorry! tell me what I did that made you think that so i never do it again." Well, this is how you think if you care.

do you show that you're jealous or do you hold it in and hope that its nothing?
depends on what is, right? a small thing, well, you know it deep down inside. You konw that soon enough he/she'll show you that You're their only one. Learn to look farther than the norm, it's much easier to breath that way. If it's a bothersome thing, but relatively small, shake it off with a joke to him/her. if it's a bigger thing, in your opinion (and that's after some thought and judgment), then confront him/her about it fo sho.

and should you tell him/her about your jealousy?
like i said, you should confront him [= in a relationship, it's very important to talk things through. esp. these kind of things that could potentially damage your relationship. tell him you're jealous when he does ___ or when he says ___ to these people. now, if he cares enough, he should put the effort in to assure you. what you need is his reassurance. and be sure it's not nonsense jealousy. those are just annoying

[ly*chee]

I giggle whenever my boyfriend gets jealous.
And tell him he's so silly xD;

But it makes me happy he's willing to voice his jealousy, but he usually does it playfully like,
OHOH SO YOU'RE TALKING TO ____ NOW huh, fine D< But I bet he can't do this! -kiss-
xD It's kinda cute.

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I get jealous very easily...
and I often tell my boyfriend how I feel.
He just goes "WHAT?! You're so funny. You know I love you, and only you!"
Sadly sometimes my jealousy goes a bit overboard >.o

[nancxy]

I'm not the jealous type, since there's no point stressing out over nothing.
My boyfriend used to be the jealous type, but he's fine now (:
Of course it's always good that your s/o is a little jealous because
we all want some lovin' right? lol but just know your limit.

[taste-tea]

It can be cute sometimes, when she asks shy questions about who i'm with or who just messaged me,
but when it becomes a huge mood-changer, i find myself abandoning close friends because i know it'll
make her worry and think too much. It's kinda straining sometimes, though i know she's trying hard to
stop. Hope she works it out.

[o0s0phia0o]

no i dont like it when my s/o gets jealous but once in a while is good.
although it does depend on the situation too. yeah i hide my jealousy 0.0
but i dont really get jealous. sometimes i even talk alond about the girl being hot lmao

[dbskthebest]

im a so so kind of jealous.
and i like it SOMETIMES when my bf is jealous. it depends, either its cute or stupid. i wouldnt like somone who got jealous all the time but you should definitley tell about your jealousy

[chopstick^^]

Yeah, its normal to be jealous.. esp because hes yours!! U do have the right to be jealous! So if other girls talk to him & they seem pretty close.. i think its v normal to b scare that she mite take him away from u!

its normal to even feel a tinsy winsy bit jealous!

Its a common feeling amongst couple!

But to be jealous for like if your boyfriend talking to her cousin, sister, mum.. is not normal! its weird.. since i know someone who is like that.. weirdo!

[-bebeh0n3y.]

if ure s/o is jealous of you, it means that he cares bout u. if he wasnt jealous then that wouldnt be good.
it depends what it is that ure jealous of, if it reallly bugs you, then you should tell him. that would be the only way to stop the way ure feeeling.

[EchoOff]

if it's reasonable, then it's okay to be jealous.
a little bit of jealous can do a relationship some good, imo,
cause it shows that he cares.

[mo.NeMo81]

hmm not really. since we known each other and dated each other for a long time now(almost 4years), its doesnt really come up. i encourage him to dance with girls and even laugh when i found out he was hugging a girl from behind because she was too drunk. iono i guess we have a pretty good trust

[A-Jaey]

Hmm i sorta enjoy it if I know she's jealous?
From if it's my friends making crack up laughing, or meeting like exes or girls that have liked me?
It makes me feel wanted? needed?
I wouldn't want too much of it, wouldnt want her to be upset or anything?
But yeah, I hate and like it when i get jealous?
but it all really depends really?

[IaMsEo]

i find it cute as well..
it just means that they're afraid to lose you.
=)

[hirotoki]

i find it really cute when my bf gets a lil jealous but he never been REALYL REALLY jealous neither have i which i think is a positive thing for the both of it , he's quite the lady's man and has a lot of good girl friends but im not jealous at all cuz hes together with me because he likes me in a way he'll never like any of his girl friends XD

[xcindyloooo]

I think it's good for there to be jealousy, in moderation, in a relationship.
just reminds your s/o that you care about them.

I was a bit jealous since my s/o is best friends with his ex and I confronted him about it.
Now whenever she passes by to talk to him, he'll hold my hand extra hard or wrap his arms around me

[mybbh]

3 years in the relationship and my gf still can't get over the jealousy part. I guess its particularly an issue for females but other than that shes perfect. kind of makes me wonder if she overly possessive sometimes. For example, I have a tendency to glance at everybody or anyone who walks in a room (resturaunt), and she nothing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, NO MUG, NO FUSSING, or anything when its a old man, little children, an older couple, an old female, granny, teenage boy, a guy around our age, BUT when its a attractive female similar as herself between the age of (18-25) she gives me this stare or MUG I like to call it without saying anything. Then I ask, "what?"...she goes on and say "NOTHING, IT OKAY"..In my mind it frustrates me when she does that. Its not like I know who was going walk in; she makes it seem like I deliberately glance or (look according to her) when they walk in. CAN ANY GIRL EXPLAIN THIS. You girls have this instant radar in your peripherals waiting for your bfs to unintentionally glance at a girl so you can get jealous..haha. I kid but seriously, do all girl do this? Don't get me wrong, my gf is extremely attractive and pretty and gets hit on when I'm not around but can't predict who walks in. However, I can keep my head down and not at anyone but that would be sad, just sad.
On the other hand, I shouldn't be talking because she recently started hanging out with this new gay male friend, who goes to the same school as she does. I bugs me b/c they see each other everyday and I only get to see her on the weekends. i TRY NOT to think much about it.

[vanEIK]

I find it essential to be a little jealous, rather than not. My baby is the super dupercrazyjealous type.

Be a little jealous, just not like this. If you act apathetic than that can just kill the relationship. I drifted away from my exes because they gave me too much space. I also find it cute when he gets a little jealous, it just shows he still loves and cares about me. But I did approach him about going overboard and he tries hard to give me a little room to breathe.

So it's ok to be jealous, it's like being concerned not just about him, but about you TWO together.

Agreed^

On another note, my baby's also like this {superdupercrazyjealous type} but I do know that he tries to give me space, so as long as I know he's trying, then, I try not to get too bothered by it (when it gets extreme). Other than that, I try to understand his viewpoint, and I'm usually very tolerant of his jealousy, haha.

Usually, jealousy is kind of cute(almost always, but don't tell him that, he'll pout!), it's the guys' way of showing that they care about, and are protective of you.

So .. yeah, it is okay

edit: I, myself, am naturally jealous at times (who isn't?), but it's more in the terms of a playful jealousy, because if I am jealous, I confront him about it, but I'm never too serious about it unless it's deeply affecting our relationship.

[vanEIK]

3 years in the relationship and my gf still can't get over the jealousy part. I guess its particularly an issue for females but other than that shes perfect. kind of makes me wonder if she overly possessive sometimes. For example, I have a tendency to glance at everybody or anyone who walks in a room (resturaunt), and she nothing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, NO MUG, NO FUSSING, or anything when its a old man, little children, an older couple, an old female, granny, teenage boy, a guy around our age, BUT when its a attractive female similar as herself between the age of (18-25) she gives me this stare or MUG I like to call it without saying anything. Then I ask, "what?"...she goes on and say "NOTHING, IT OKAY"..In my mind it frustrates me when she does that. Its not like I know who was going walk in; she makes it seem like I deliberately glance or (look according to her) when they walk in. CAN ANY GIRL EXPLAIN THIS. You girls have this instant radar in your peripherals waiting for your bfs to unintentionally glance at a girl so you can get jealous..haha. I kid but seriously, do all girl do this? Don't get me wrong, my gf is extremely attractive and pretty and gets hit on when I'm not around but can't predict who walks in. However, I can keep my head down and not at anyone but that would be sad, just sad.
On the other hand, I shouldn't be talking because she recently started hanging out with this new gay male friend, who goes to the same school as she does. I bugs me b/c they see each other everyday and I only get to see her on the weekends. i TRY NOT to think much about it.

Well, I'm of the female specimen, so I might be able to vouch an opinion.

Uhh. In explaining her sudden hostility, it's like .. when an attractive woman comes into your visual, and you acknowledge her, it's pretty much, an instinctual reaction to see them as a rival. Or comparison, whatever. Hey, don't take my word for it though, this is just my opinion in generality x; I won't say all females are like this, or that you can't expect them to think like that(lest I get lynched or bashed by some hardcore feminists), but it's my guess, and my also own instincts (at times).

Because, well, I'm like you. I do have the tendency to look at everything (especially visually appealing things/people), I think it's more of me being fascinated (like being distracted by shiny things) more so than actually finding them as sexually compatible (which, don't deny, a lot of gf/bf's think of when they find their others looking at the opposite sex). So .. I understand your viewpoint, and I pat you on the back for even trying to understand the complex that is your girlfriend.



So uh, with me refraining from saying "sucks to be you", I'll just say goodluck

[ZWD]

Yeah, I get easily jealous.

I think there's both pros and cons to it.

You show that you actually care and like/love her but you're also not giving her space at the same time.