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Jealousy do you like it when your s/o is jealous? or do you find it creepy

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Posted 16 June 2008 - 04:03 PM

I hate it when he gets jealous he doesnt show any emotion and will even leave me with a guy friend ...=/ and just walk off he knows ill be right after him argh
as for me i do get a bit jealous sometimes but i keep it in and trust that he wont get a big head when all my friends are going on about how cute he is....=/
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Posted 16 June 2008 - 04:18 PM

sometimes i think its cute, but then if he constantly then i htink that will be a bit annoying...but most of the time he always jokes around that hes mad because im such a net catcher or something...lol...meaning i get guys to like me too much...lol....
i dont get jealous as much because its not like he is actually gonna go do something with a girl...because i trust him....lol...
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Posted 16 June 2008 - 04:44 PM

a little bit of jealousy makes me feel loved and its cutee X)
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Posted 16 June 2008 - 05:05 PM

QUOTE (1LastBreath @ Jun 4 2008, 01:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i want to hear your opinions, do you like it when your s/o gets jealous of you? do you show that you're jealous or do you hold it in and hope that its nothing?

and should you tell him/her about your jealousy?

It's cute to a point. I like it when she says things like "I'll beat those girls up if they look at you" in jest. But I HAVE had gf's in the past that were jealous to the point of paranoia, and they basically had zero trust in me despite the fact that I've never cheated on a gf. That gets to be too much.

I personally don't get too jealous. Although admittedly I prefer her female friends to her male friends. dry.gif
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Posted 16 June 2008 - 05:52 PM


aha, jealousy is something
i don't really have xD
but when a bf of mine gets jealous
i reassure them that i like them
by being extra loveable towards them (:

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Posted 16 June 2008 - 05:57 PM

QUOTE (KristyS @ Jun 16 2008, 07:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well, I dun really observe. He doesn't want to admit it either, but I have a friend that's my 3rd eye and 3 ear^^. A recent event would be when I hugged this other guy and my friend was like... Didn't you see his expression? O.O! unfortunately, I didn't... Then few moments after he asked for a hug too.lol. I think that's it's kinda of cute blush.gif



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Anyways, well, I don't really get jealous. I don't mind if my boyfriend is around other girls, if he hugs (as in greeting) them or talks to them. As long as he's being honest with me it's fine. Also, it'd be nice if he introduced his girl friends to me, that's really respectful =].
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Posted 16 June 2008 - 06:10 PM

can someone please tell me what s/o stands for.


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Posted 16 June 2008 - 06:11 PM

QUOTE (cherri82crystal @ Jun 16 2008, 10:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
can someone please tell me what s/o stands for.

Significant other, I believe.
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Posted 18 June 2008 - 12:41 PM

QUOTE (flyxme. @ Jun 16 2008, 07:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
a little bit of jealousy makes me feel loved and its cutee X)


EXACTLY!! my best guy friend once told me that the more jealous you get over ur s/o. The more you love that person


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Posted 18 June 2008 - 01:24 PM

Jealousy, to a certain extent, is a good bonding mechanism. People make others jealous because they're testing how committed the other person is to the relationship. However, if one partner is too jealous, it induces a variety of other problems, including trust. That's a good theory, but sometimes jealousy seems like an innate character flaw in certain people. It seems like it's not about commitment, but posession.

I'd rather hold my jealousy in than to express it. Guys love making girls jealous when they're doing it on purpose, but when they're not, they get super annoyed by how jealous their gfs are. Why? Don't ask me.
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 06:20 PM

My bf is super jealous of me dry.gif
I find it really cute but sometimes, it makes
me wanna yell at him to stop being so lame lol xD

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Posted 20 June 2008 - 06:57 PM

uhmm... i remember this one time i got a text from my senior friend...
but the name was "N.M"

so my ex got really jealous and refused to talk to me until i showed him the text...
=_________= now i think about it, it was really annoying.
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Posted 30 September 2008 - 02:23 AM

I've got a few questions on jealousy, because 1, I'm curious and 2, I'm feeling pretty jealous at the moment. unsure.gif I've dwelled in my insecurities for far too long and jealousy is starting to consumer my persona and I'm doing things that I really don't support. I'm not sure how questioning others will help this problem, but I'd like your insight on the jealousy matter.

1. How does it make you feel when your s/o is jealous?
To be honest, I sometimes intentionally try to make him jealous... especially when I'm feeling insecure. It makes me feel wanted and more secure, it's a bit of a self esteem booster...

2. If you do try to make your s/o jealous - how?
Talk to other guys, talk about other guys.

3. Are you suspicious when your s/o is very close with a member of the opposite sex?
This is really driving me insane. I'm doubtful that his feelings are completely platonic. The girl who he is close with has a boyfriend so I can't stop it crossing my mind, that if she didn't, he'd be with her.

I get jealous easily. I've let it ruin relationships before. I'm never openly jealous, and I pretend it doesn't let it get to me. In the end, it's me who ends the relationship because my jealousy is too hard to deal with. I end up giving the guy the sort of break up line that is synonymous to: 'it's not you...it's me....' and however ingenuine that sounds, for once it's used with uttermost sincerity - which is really, pretty unfortunate.
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Posted 30 September 2008 - 02:40 AM

1. How does it make you feel when your s/o is jealous?
happy. o_O' but i realise i should feel guilty for making 'em feel like that.

2. If you do try to make your s/o jealous - how?
i don't try.
i just don't hold back on talking about people, even if they're girls.
..unfortunately. that still isn't a great reason to do so. if you know they'll get jealous.

3. Are you suspicious when your s/o is very close with a member of the opposite sex?

the first time. john tesh yeah...
but. i was surprised at myself for feeling that way. so the next time i saw her with a guy, i just let it go and looked away. smiling that she was laughing away, enjoying herself.

knowing that she's not going to do something i wouldn't like .

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heh.. i'd tell people to 'voice out their concerns to their loved ones'
but.. i don't. o_O' i just return the favour... -sighs-

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 02:46 AM

1. How does it make you feel when your s/o is jealous?
in a really weird way....kinda happy cause at least i know he cares and take notice of me ;)

2. If you do try to make your s/o jealous - how?
ermmm.....i'll probably talk to guys

3. Are you suspicious when your s/o is very close with a member of the opposite sex?
well....to be honest.... i would be kinda suspicious actually. especially when that person wasnt really close to him initially
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Posted 30 September 2008 - 04:54 AM

1. How does it make you feel when your s/o is jealous?
Depends on why he's jealous. Sometimes it's cute and I like it... usually I get irritated because I think he has no reason to be jealous.

2. If you do try to make your s/o jealous - how?
I don't. I find this to be a very risky thing to do just for a little boost of self-esteem, no matter how badly I may need it at the time.
One of my exs purposely made me jealous all the time and it just made me feel like crap about myself and my relationship with him. It pretty much set off the fuse towards the break-up... and all he wanted was some attention from me.

Besides... I'm pretty sure my current boyfriend would be really upset if I purposely made him jealous. We're honest about our issues and whatnot and to use this tactic would certainly piss him off.

3. Are you suspicious when your s/o is very close with a member of the opposite sex?
Well, yeah. My self-esteem is pretty far gone, and I get jealous easily. Sucks.
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Posted 30 September 2008 - 07:35 AM

1. How does it make you feel when your s/o is jealous?
i guess it makes me feel good to know that he wants me all to himself. it's frustrating sometimes though when he gets upset over guys i've known longer than him and he should know that i wouldn't be talking to them if they showed any sign of interest.

2. If you do try to make your s/o jealous - how?
i don't. i try my hardest not to. i don't want him to feel anything but happy. i don't hang out with new guys and i don't really go out with other guys unless it's a group of people.

3. Are you suspicious when your s/o is very close with a member of the opposite sex?
not really. he doesn't talk to any girls except like once in a blue moon he talks to people from his old school. also, there's this one girl that txts my bf and calls him randomly. i just think it's annoying. lol. if she knows he has a gf and all why does she call him? i should ask for her bf's number so i can call him when she's with him. dry.gif
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Posted 30 September 2008 - 12:17 PM

1. How does it make you feel when your s/o is jealous?
i have no idea >< he's easy going

2. If you do try to make your s/o jealous - how?
i dont know how to make him jealous in the first place xD i trust him and he trusts me..more likely he toitaly understands my personality xD


3. Are you suspicious when your s/o is very close with a member of the opposite sex?
well .-. i dont see anything suspicious..if they're close ah wellz he'll tell me when we'll break up and etc
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Posted 30 September 2008 - 01:28 PM

er.. a little jealousy is okay XD
but when you're jealous over EVERYTHING ..
like, "ZOMGZ THAT GIRL/GUY JUST SMILED AT HIM/HER!!!"
then it's sorta like.. o.o
i'm not a fan of mind games, so i don't really try to make others jealous haha. =/

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Posted 01 October 2008 - 03:22 PM

honestly speaking, i find it really irritating...

i don't get jealous that easily unless my bf makes out with some girl infront of me but that's not going to happen, but by now if it does.. i don't care.. lols

but anyway, my bf gets jealous wayyy easily it's really annoying. i hate it. i always yell at him for being like that. i just can't take it. it's just adding to the clingyness. :| annoying
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