What's Your Ideal Age For Marriage And Kids?

#1 kimmyb07

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Posted 05 June 2008 - 11:36 PM

First off, a good question is do you even want to get married? Have kids?

If so, what age do you think you'd like to get married and have kids?

And if you're already married and/or have kids, what age did that happen? Do you think that was a good age for you?

Obviously this is all ideal and given you meet the right person..

I definitely want to get married and raise a family in the future. I think 23/24 would actually be a good age for me to get married.. it's coming up pretty soon so I may have to change that. I do want to get married fairly young though so I can have a few years with my husband before we start a family. I want to be done having kids by the time I'm 30 so I'm not worrying about getting kids through college when I'm getting up there. I'm hoping for 2 or 3 kids... Maybe my first around the age of 26, next one 2 or 3 years later, and if I have a third, probably 1 or 2 years after that.. I really want a close family when I grow up. It's pretty much the one thing that I want out of life

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Posted 05 June 2008 - 11:42 PM

i want to get married at 30, hopefully i have a successful career by then.

I sorta want to have kids asap when i get married because i want to see my grandkids before i die. My dad's pretty old and i dont think he'll be alive when i have kids. I dont want to have that happen to me.

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#3 lilmzwhoa

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Posted 05 June 2008 - 11:46 PM

hell yes!!
i wanna get married as soon as my boyfriend and i are financially stabled.
then hurry up and have kids.
lol.
my mom's already telling me to have a kid!
my mom's getting old really fast and she wants to see her grandkids before....--you know what.

i'd want 5 kids at the most.

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by the way, i'm only 21.
turning 22 on november.
i'm already done with experiencing the "drunken" life,
so now i just wanna save money and be stable.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 12:49 AM

When i was younger and know little about life, i said to myself, i wanted to get married when i turn 21-23 coz i thought i will be old by then since most of my older cousins got married before the age of 21... well 4 yrs ago i turned 21 but was stuck in college life where i have to balance school, work and bills... it was a time where i was struggling hard to reach my goals in life... so the thought of getting married at that age was erased....hehehe

In my situation, i don't base it on age .. i base it on financial stability and emotional maturity... marriage is a serious thing and in my opinion you and your partner have to be ready on all aspect of life ... i got engaged dec 07 and my fiancee and i both decided that we're paying for our own wedding... hence, our wedding is set for june 09, 2 yrs of waiting ... we carefully planned everything, from saving for the wedding and saving for our house... im happy to say that we're in the process of looking for a house ;p ...

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 01:13 AM

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 01:20 AM

If its come to me, i will say to marry at 25 :]

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 02:08 AM

When I am financially stable so I can provide a good life for my kiddies. Hopefully that'll be mid to late 20s.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 02:19 AM

all i want is to be financially stable first. and honestly i'm in no rush for children right now.. i wouldn't mind being 30 and having a kid then.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 04:33 AM

As soon as I finish college. Just three more years. lol So I guess I will be 23 by then.
I also want to start having kids asap.
My bf already has a stable job and doing well so I don't have to worry that much on finances.
I want to have kids young so by the time I'm 40 they would be around their late teens.

Plus after 30, there's a larger chance for babies to be born not as healthy.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 04:36 AM

when i'm financially stable..
hopefully around 28.. or before i reach 30..
but i really wanna get married by the time i'm 24..
iono, i just wanna get married early.. xD....

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 04:37 AM

30 to 40. I guess I'll be rich enough to buy a house at that time

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 04:56 AM

yeah I definitely want to get married and have kids later.. well, my perfect age would be around 24/25ish.. but yeah i'm 21 now and I don't know if I could hadle that.. it's just I don't want to be an 'old' mother and have a big age gap between me and my kids : )

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 05:03 AM

Yes I do want to get married and have kids someday, although it's not a requirement for my life.
I think I would get married when I'm nearing 30's and have kids in my 30's. It seems late but there's a lot else I want to do in life, and I only want to have kids when I'm ready to have them.
Who knows, this may all happen earlier if things go well, or never, if I start to focus more on my career.
I'm not too keen on marrying too early.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 05:06 AM

I was hoping late 20s, but my boyfriend was like earlier tonight
"i wanna have kids when im 20"
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Posted 06 June 2008 - 06:43 AM

23's a good time. Right out of college and ready to be a guy's b**** while he's off working.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 07:19 AM

I want to get married when I'm 24. Have kids after two years of marriage.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 08:08 AM

I want to get married at age 26-28ish, then have kids at age 30 =PP
hopefully ill have a stable career/ financial problems too, and having the baby wit HIM. =]

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 08:52 AM

I'd like to be married from mid-twenties to late -twenties. As for kids, hopefully around 30 to early- thirties. I don't really want to have kids too late.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 08:56 AM

I want to get married at the age 23/24 and have kids after a year of marriage I don't want to be an old mom ^^ and I guess thats for me the perfect age =D

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 08:58 AM

I want to wait a year after I graduate and find a stable job to get married.
Being stable with a secure income would be best for my future.
So I am guessing around 27ish is my ideal age to married and then...
a year after I am married I want to have my frst child. I want at least 2 kids.
No more then 4 though, at least one boy and one girl.

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