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#1 User is offline   boobies 

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Posted 20 June 2008 - 09:19 PM

Hate being single?
jealousy over couples?

and why?

feels that you deserve one but dont know why juz no one are interested in u/cant understand?

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Posted 20 June 2008 - 09:27 PM

meh, i do envy alot of couples amongst my circle of friends.
they're very lovey dovey and cute, but i don't feel sad or anything,
i'm just not interested in finding a s/o,
being single means no commitments =]
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 09:27 PM

i don't hate it..
but sometimes i think a change would be nice happy.gif haha

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Posted 20 June 2008 - 09:31 PM

I don't hate it.
But I'd love to be part of a couple.
I used to be able to shop alone.
But now I'm suddenly conscious of the large amount of unbelievably stylish, beautiful Asian couples in the mall.
And sweet things that my friends' boyfriend's tell them.
Those can make me jealous.
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 09:34 PM

Crying over being single is truly desperate.
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 09:35 PM

there was a time where i wanted a guy,just so that i wouldn't be alone

then i had my friends,best things in the world.

then i wished i could have a guy+my friends.

and now i don't want a boyfriend,thats for sure....and hopefully i can refrain myself from looking for guys to like just because i want to heal my broken heart.

to sum it all up,I LOVE BEING SINGLE smile.gif
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 09:37 PM

I don't hate it either.
But sometimes those lovey-dovey couples make me jealous.
But I'm not anti-single or anything (damn anti-singles day tongue.gif).
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 09:46 PM

Like the person above, I don't hate it either, but once in a while I do wish I had a bf. Just someone you can cuddle with, confide in, etc. When I see couples I am more like "aw" when I see them do couple things, and less envious. But yeah I do admit sometimes I have been jealous. Do I ever question why is no one interested or why am I single?? Well I know that answer very well. I tend to distance myself when guys get close to me. I like keeping males as acquaintances and nothing more. If it gets to the point where it's uncomfortable, I will distance myself. I am just weird like that. Fixing this is taking along time and it's hard for me =/ If one day an opportunity comes by, I'm going to make sure I don't jump into a relationship because of desperation. I'm going to make sure that I'm going into it for the right reasons, and I hope you do too when the time comes. Lets all just take it easy and focus on more important things in life =)

ah I didn't expect to write this much XD
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 09:48 PM

I don't hate it. I sometimes get jealous when I see some couples, but at times, I find them annoying, lol. I do want someone, but at the same time I don't so! I'm just going to continue sticking to being single and just let nature take its course. Besides, I have my friends so whatever. smile.gif
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 09:50 PM

QUOTE (Lovely_Stranger @ Jun 21 2008, 01:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't hate it either, but once in a while I do wish I had a bf. Just someone you can cuddle with, confide in, etc. When I see couples I am more like "aw" when I see them do couple things and less envious. But yeah I do admit, sometimes I have been jealous. Do I ever question why is no one interested or why am I single?? Well I know that answer very well. I tend to distance myself when guys get close to me. I like keeping males as acquaintances and nothing more. If it gets to the point where it's uncomfortable, I will distance myself. I am just weird like that. Fixing this is taking along time and it's hard for me =/ If one day an opportunity comes by, I'm going to make sure I don't jump into a relationship because of desperation. I'm going to make sure that I'm going into it for the right reasons, and I hope you do to when the time comes. Let's all just take it easy and focus on more important things in life =)

ah I didn't expect to write this much XD

I'm with ya sistah xD
only, I have trust issues with men...and I kind of grew up without a prominent father figure so I get paranoid around guys & other issues~ lol
but o well, I don't mind being single. more me time haha.

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Posted 20 June 2008 - 09:54 PM

yes finally some one feels me

omg, i hate itt

when will i find a cute nice caring gf

ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

im so tired of dressin up and goin places expectin to meet my soul mate


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Posted 20 June 2008 - 10:13 PM

I don't hate being single but I hate that I get a crush on every other girl that talks to me =_=;
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 10:20 PM

I've actually learned A LOT about myself from being single.
I don't hate being single. I've been single all my life, so what the heck?
It would be a nice change.
But if no one feels the same for me as how i feel for them,
then it's best for me to stay single until that someone comes around. I'll accept it.
I've never liked anyone in a serious way before until a few months ago, and after that-- i feel really good for the rejection. Haha.
I've learned a whole lot about myself and my capabilities.
Now, i just want to remind myself to "Don't expect. Not even a little."
I feel strongly about it. I've grown so much by being single all my life so far.
I envy couples, of course.
But i know myself best. And i know what's best for me.
I'm embracing my growing process while being single. smile.gif
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 10:24 PM

no hate..but sometimes when i'm sick or something...=/ or have spontaneous moments to go somewhere, anywhere, at 3 AM with someone. hahahaha. but iono, i think i like being single more. i kinda suck at taking care of people most closest to me.
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 10:42 PM

QUOTE (Gofishus @ Jun 21 2008, 12:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't hate being single but I hate that I get a crush on every other girl that talks to me =_=;



awwwww blush.gif ur sooo cute rolleyes.gif that kinda happens to me,with guys though lol. but its way less than a crush tehhehehe
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 10:49 PM

QUOTE (forum-love @ Jun 21 2008, 12:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
awwwww blush.gif ur sooo cute rolleyes.gif that kinda happens to me,with guys though lol. but its way less than a crush tehhehehe



^lol this happens to me too sweatingbullets.gif

meh, i'm pretty happy being single. but i admit there are moments when i go out by myself and i see couples everywhere, and i feel a little jealous. especially the asian couples... the girl always seems to be thin and gorgeous =.="

but whatever. the moment passes, and then i'm happy being single again. our times will come, people =] just gotta wait it out. rushing things never works out.
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 10:51 PM

QUOTE (kayara<3 @ Jun 21 2008, 12:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^lol this happens to me too sweatingbullets.gif

meh, i'm pretty happy being single. but i admit there are moments when i go out by myself and i see couples everywhere, and i feel a little jealous. especially the asian couples... the girl always seems to be thin and gorgeous =.="

but whatever. the moment passes, and then i'm happy being single again. our times will come, people =] just gotta wait it out. rushing things never works out.


do u happen to be a shy person? i am pretty shy/rather timid.i think thats why i'm like that lol
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 10:55 PM

I don't hate being single, I actually like it sometimes, but there are times where I wished I had a boyfriend. Then again, I'm happy being single at the moment. I'm not like 50 haha, I still have a life ahead of me.
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 10:53 PM

not single, but when i WAS, i wanted a boyfriend because i wanted that loveydovey thing.. its so cute
and i wanted that romantic drama crap. i guess i didnt hate it, but i wanted that.. you know.
but now that im in a relationship, honestly, i miss being single o_o i don't want anything serious as of now..
and i liked being single so i had the freedom to talk to any guy ;] yaknow. no serious commitment is fun.
so.. i guess it's a hate/love thing.
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Posted 20 June 2008 - 10:57 PM

I'm not hating being single .. but I don't envy couples either! I'm fine with being single.
At least when I naturally 'flirts' people don't go around spreading rumors about me being
a slut or something (:
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