john frieda has a night serum that supposedly repairs your split ends.
i think the best thing to do is so trim it though AND deep condition, concentrating at the ends.
i have dry and poofy hair and when i use serum + chi straightner, it all goes away

for two years my friends all though i had naturally straight hair. i use to straighten my hair everyday, though i don't recommend that.
i was actually considering a straight perm like yourself had done but i always hear horrendous stories about it T_T
also lshluvr said tresemme's moisture shampoo made her hair oily.
everybody has different hair types and as of right now i'm actually using tresemme's moisture shampoo & i like it.
if you really want your hair conditioned, i recommend the brand ion. you can get it at sally's beauty supply. i use to use it, but since i change my shampoo like every month or so, yeah i don't use it as of right now. but i loved it <33 esp. their conditioner. check it out

oh i really dont wanna touch straightener every again,lol
really? how will your hair be if you don't straighten it for a day?
i think many asians straighten their hair everyday,and i always think they DO have straight hair,like really really straight,and i envy them
but i started thinking that they might just straighten their hair
i'm too lazy to do that though

i'd better go out with my "broom" hair rather than heat my hair for half and hour
i used tresemme,my hair felt so soft,but it was getting dirty so fast,like my scalp felt so itchy everyday
ok i'll try

Yeah i heard brushing your hair when its wet is bad.

You should use a wide tooth comb if your going to brush ur hair when its wet. i think i heard that when its wet and u brush it..like its easier to damange/break or something
ohh really??!! dammit,that's why
i don't have the tooth comb,i always brush my hair
i never knew that
ok now i know,lol
thanks,that's my worst mistake i think
Ahh, yes, it sounds fried then. I don't know if anything can be done about fried hair besides getting it cut and letting it grow out. Your hair sounds like it's lacking moisture though.
As preventative measures though, don't use any chemicals (dying, straightening, etc) on your hair, use a conditioner, and as others have said, don't brush wet hair, comb it instead.
yea,i hate chemicals on my hair,but i never used any i swear,lol
ok thank you

oh and about trimming everymonth..
i dont think i can,i dont even know any good saloon around here in canada
i will trim my hair once i get back to my country,which is next year,lol