[sunshine60]

00. relationship (I don't like to consider it an actual one)

Ended after like a week, after we mutually knew. I was just dumb.

First real relationship is still going strong!! It'll be 8 months soon and I can imagine it continuing.

[kei_kei]

It was really rushed.. we broke up 3 months ago after our 5 months . He broke up with me giving me the reason that he'd miss me too much in uni , now he keeps changing the reason to, i don't feel like your the one and i will never go out with you again. He Loves another girl.. who is his childhood friend, i know her too. It hurt me inside when he told me this, it made me think did he actully break up because of missing me too much ? 3 months ??? is that a long enough time period ??? somehow i feel betrayed. She also told me that she loved him before he asked me out ... somehow i feel that theres was something going on when i was with him. Not sure.

I always thought that he was a 'nice guy', but i didn't notice all his flaws until after the break up, he can be really mean sometimes and really nice to u sometimes... it really confuses me. I did try to stay together with him after the break up, i don't think i took the break up well at all, i was constanly clingy and wanted to talk to him even after the break up. I should have stayed away, i probably would heal faster this way.

I still miss him, still love him , but he can be a real jerk sometimes..
Overall i still remember the good memories we had together even if he doesn't. I've learnt from all the mistakes i did after the break up and during the relationship and i hope he can forgive and forget me for being so clingy, and not hold that bad image of me.

p.s advice for break up , stay away from them for a while, talking to them immediately after break up will cause more hurt and damage for both of you and may damage your friendship long term.


wow that was long T_T

[nancypha]

Mines was like a puppy love to a boring relationship afterwards.
We were young, and naive plus still in Elementary. Lol.
But it lasted for about a good 7months and 8 days. LOL

[kei_kei]

i don't know why i ended up with him
but i know that i really really liked him. first love always such an emotional memory for me.
we never fought, i felt burdensome for always wanting to break up with him because of little things
i was young, didn't really understand or know much, i feel guilty for not trusting him.
he always put up with it, did and said things to make me happier.
but he always had feelings for my friend, who he liked before me.
i still think that's the reason he broke up with me was her.
i don't hate her, she's a flirt but really kind hearted towards me.
though none of us are talking or catching up today
i matured a lot, cried a lot from being with him.
i still wonder what it would be like if we were still together,
it would be cool if we could go back in time, when i wouldn't be such a little naggy girl
after breaking up, i've never gone out with anyone else.
i just wish i could see him again and say sorry.

Same story... *Sighs... I was super naggy, and regret being soo... I said sorry so many times, i don't think he will accept it though. We will get throught this ^_~ Gambatte!!!

[Angxizzle]

we rushed into it too fast. i didn't see it coming, and it hit me like a train. the kind you wanna jump off but are too scared to jump off. i should have gotten to know him better. then i would have knew how clingy he was. i was surprised we lasted as long as we did. i don't regret though.

[hwanji]

started off great but i was too much of an airhead to see how great of a person he was and i turned it into a complete disaster but that was the past I'm sorry! and i hope your life is filled with the happiness you deserve!

[A-choo]

it was okai ;P

it was long distance relationship, lasted for about 3 years ;x

we're still uber good fwends rite now :]

[dagni]

lasted for almost two years.

i think we're still friends but he has a too much paranoid of a gf hahahha! so yea. we seldom talk and meet up

[mularice]

First relationship was 6months. In high school. We broke up cuz he got annoyed that I couldn't see him as often as he wanted. We went to different schools and lived a fair distance away from each other. Our parents objected to our relationship too >.< Looking back it was so juvenile lol

But I guess my first proper relationship was from when I was 17 to 20. He was older than me (6yrs). It was ok in the beginning but spiralled out of control in the end. He was kinda controlling and I tried to do everything and anything to please him. I was like an obedient puppy. None of my friends understood why I went out with him, they thought I could do so much better, that he wasn't suitable educated, didn't have similar interests, socially we had different types of friends. But I was "in love". We used to be really coupley but it broke down and he'd end up spending his free time with his friends, getting stoned whilst I waited for him at home. When we argued it'd be terrible, he actually picked me up by my throat and threw me across the room once. He'd shout at me in front of his friends and family, even his Dad told me I shouldn't put up with it and said he was ashamed he'd witnessed his son behave like that. All the time I'd just think it was something I'd done, it was my fault and try to be the perfect gf again. Pathetic I know.
He broke up with me saying I was too fat, that he didn't fancy me anymore, that he couldn't trust me at Uni and thought I'd cheated on him (which I honestly never did; I was too blindly in love with him and had no self confidence anyway!). It broke my heart. But the break up did me good. I made myself mentally strong to cope with the heartache. I got confident. Now I'm happy with my current bf and he is totally different to all other bf's. I think I've learnt my lesson going for the same types of guys!

[KOGEPANN;)]

I was 14, an over indulged brat who had too much time on her hands watching dramas, creating drama and being stupid. But despite all that that, I had an amazing boyfriend who put up with that and treated me like a princess for a month and a bit before I broke it up with him. I was too immature to reciprocate or understand his feelings, I just wasn't ready.

[bonjour tristesse.]

he was my bestfriend. we were each other's first kiss but was over after 3 months. after about a year or so, we developed a sibling relationship where i always called him oppa and he would call me dongseang. we're not as close as we use to be, but when we see each other in the hallway, we always talk and laugh and kid around.

[lil_mystic]

my first relationship wasn't much either
we didn't do anything
it was just a "title" thing or something x]
he hugged once but it was from force
and sat next to each other a few times awkwardly
lols. this was in year 4. i had no idea what we were thinking
we were sooooo young and stupid back then to even KNOW what a relationship was
it lasted a few months and ended when i left to another school
puppy love ~ but it was cute at the time though. i still remember his first "love" xmas card to me ahahs x]

~ betty

[daasianguy]

my first (and only) relationship was only for a day...she says that she has a pact she needs to honor about not having a boyfriend this year and she wasnt thinking when she said yes to me...but now she's saying she likes me *and* some other dude she's liked for 2 years...i dont know how to get her back...help? haha

[xiahdreams]

Haha, first & last was in 5th grade.
A friend asked him if he liked me, he said yes, ba-bam.
Our official 'date' was a class field trip to the zoo ...
We held hands~ and he bought me lunch~
and we took pictures in those photobooth things.
But then it only lasted for a week.
One day in music class I suddenly got sick of him.
So they same friend broke it off for me :] AHAA.

[ECCENTRIC?]

a little over 8 months. he's like my bestfriend =)

[aimeelinluvyunhojung]

my first relationship was AWFUL ughh
but i dont really regret it though cause now that i think of it.. i learned alot about wut to do and wut not to do in a relationship.
but it was STILL the worst relationship everrrr LOl~
we only lasted for a month =\
we wanted to break up with each other, (we never mentioned it though), since we were both inexperienced and didnt know how to break up lol... but after a week or so, he finally ended it LOL DURING ART CLASS (where we met) and it was 4 days before valentines day... lol oh well at least i wasnt in love with him anymore at that time xD

[WinterFlake]

In it right now.

I have no idea what is going on. God, someone help me.

[killjadeskye]

My first one was with my senior, back when I was 14. We didn't know each other much, we broke up a week after. Haha. It was awkward. I felt REALLY guilty, every time I think about it, I feel like banging my head to the wall to try to forget it. Yeah, it was that bad. We didn't do anything, not even a date. It was like, a title. I avoid him every time I see him. It was pathetic.

But for a real relationship...errmm...it was during early June last year. It was ok I guess....other than the fact that he cheated on me twice..haha... It was really hard on me, it felt like I've lost all my pride, and l just wanted him back. It wasn't love, it's just that I wanted it to work so badly. My BFF was so mad at me for being so miserable over him. LOL l'm glad we broke up, coz now I found my current bf, I like him a lot.

[IntangiblyYours]

My first real relationship lasted a year. It seemed like we were really good together on the outside, and even we thought we were great together, but when it came down to it, we had huge communication problems. We would argue, but we couldn't solve any of our problems.

We tried to stay friends...haha, Well, let's just say we don't talk anymore. :]

[Cakee`]

it lasted for almost two years. but we took a very very long break in between. it was about a 7 month break? but we did get back together and lets just say i'm so glad that we're over. lol