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Your Very First Relationship how did it go ?

#51 User is offline   blueokami 

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Posted 25 June 2008 - 09:42 AM

hmm well I've got to admit I was infatuated with the guy.

Goodlooking, good drawer (I like drawing too xD) and kinda same interests as me...
So I started talking to him a lot and we went to formal together.
Didn't last long, got bored after a while, I guess I liked being single and not having to worry about the guy that was waiting for me every time I got out of class. Lol he was sweet, but I'm just not that kind of person. I feel kind of slack for dumping him now ^^;
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#52 User is offline   sujinny 

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Posted 25 June 2008 - 02:16 PM

Very.. awkward. Like jaeners said, we were really close friends and after we went out.. it was so.. quiet and awkward and basically, worse than our friendship. So I broke up with him and now we're friends again =)
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#53 User is offline   unplug16 

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Posted 25 June 2008 - 03:07 PM

I'm in my first relationship right now... And I started dating my best guy friend, we've known each other for like 8 years...
But... ever since we started going out, he's changed dramatically... He's.... so clingy to me and he won't give me my space.
And it's really awkward, we don't talk at all... I wanna talk to him about just being friends...
But I don't wanna hurt his feelings... sigh....
What am I going do to~~ T^T
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#54 User is offline   ミ★♫윤아♫☆ミ 

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Posted 25 June 2008 - 03:20 PM

I'm still in my first relationship~ <3
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Posted 25 June 2008 - 05:51 PM

6/7 months?..kinda lost track of time...ended before 9th grade and started during 8th grade
...blan, she was there for the first half, then she moved. then this and that and yea broke up =) couldnt have been happier.
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Posted 25 June 2008 - 05:58 PM

It was stupid and a waste of my time (4 months).
We were best friends and I liked him for a year during 8th grade. We finally got together during Freshmen year in high school. I never knew that he was so irrational, emotional, and clingy. He picked fights with me almost everyday and he was jealous of every single guy friend I had. I totally missed out on making friends during my Freshmen year because he wouldn't let me hang out with anyone besides him. In the end, I dumped him and I haven't said a single word to him in 4 years.
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Posted 25 June 2008 - 07:23 PM

lasted for a month, err..turned out tht i didnt rlly like him. rofl. i didnt want to hurt his feelingss and wanted to see how did it feel to have a bf. and my parents found out and got spazzed at. and i putted my frds before him and yea..its wasnt a very good experience. XD

oh and to add on, he was such a jerk. when we saw eachother agn. he pretended tht he didnt know me and then after that day he blocked me on msn.. and he was my frd's ex. and he got pissed off at my frd cause he thought my frd keep talking bad things abt him. he also knew my frd's mom and he kept telling my frd's mom abt our relationship and i got mad at him and tell him to stop doing tht. He said tht he'll stop and the next thing you know, my frd tells me tht he still talks to her mom. He also did a lot of other things after we broke up, he is such a b****. i think i'll stop, cause if i continue on, i can write an essay.
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Posted 25 June 2008 - 07:54 PM

umm.... 2 years?
elementary....

thats all
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Posted 25 June 2008 - 08:02 PM

dang. these are long relationships. sadly i have never experienced a relationship over a month. sleep.gif
my first and only relationship so far was an on and off thing. all his fault though. he kept on jumping from girl to girl and as long as he had me to talk to, he'd be fine. we tried going out again, but he screwed up.. again. then when i thought we were gonna try again, it was ME who found someone else in the end. sadly, i only did that to spite him. he blamed me for why he's so effed up. uh.. let's just say he's an emotional piece of crap.
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Posted 25 June 2008 - 08:12 PM

I'm still with him. =D

4 years next month.

I can't believe I was so loyal for this long. xD
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Posted 25 June 2008 - 11:17 PM

a complete disaster. I ended up hurt and in tears.
Will never forget it and how his thoughtless actions caused such pain.
I wish it never happened. =(

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Posted 25 June 2008 - 11:24 PM

short and sweet, but lots of playful memories.

when we broke up i examined myself and figured that, there was this feeling of loss, but it really wasnt so bad unless i pushed myself to make myself feel worse, i simply choose not to do that and find another girl.

i still talk to her sometimes, we get a long fine, we were both pretty mature for our ages back then, we didnt let our emotions make up reasons for hating eachother cuz neither of us did anything wrong really.
Think about all the things in this life that hurts you... do not do those things.

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Posted 26 June 2008 - 02:04 AM

wow, 1st relationship: sr. year of high school, lasted about three months, was never really THAT into the guy to begin with, horrible breakup, and yea....really really stupid. ugh, what a waste of time.
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Posted 26 June 2008 - 02:38 AM

mine was pretty horrible. ph34r.gif i was the one who confessed to the guy, but then for some reason, as soon as we started "going out", he turned really really weird. like, he became a different person. and he became really... physical, even after we'd only been official for a day. like, he'd ALWAYS be really, really close, touching my arm or putting his arm around my shoulder or playing with my hair... it didn't take long before i got a little creeped out. and he'd always try to have deep and meaningful discussions about "us", and where we were headed etc etc. i wasn't looking for a lifelong relationship, but he was talking like we were gonna get married or something >< don't get me wrong, i like deep and meaningfuls. i just don't like them every day, about the same thing.

so yeh... and it was a messy breakup, too. he kept following me around for ages, trying to catch me on my own so that he could talk to me about getting back together. i really regretted starting the whole thing...
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Posted 29 July 2008 - 10:55 PM

QUOTE (xojiang @ Jun 24 2008, 03:21 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
it lasted... about half a year?? lol

went down the toilet in the last month we were together. too much drama.


we're on our 6th month and i'm ready to end it. i totally feel like this month has been a really draining one...


QUOTE (Yashi @ Jun 24 2008, 02:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hmm. lasted for about, 8 months.

i guess you can say it was okay in the beginning? despite myself feeling neglected all the time. he had kind of a wuss personality, and i didn't realize this until AFTER he broke up with me. i managed to overlook all the weird and stupid things he did because i thought i "loved" him, which i kind of did, and kind of didn't...i kind of hated how he said "i love you" so fast into the relationship -- i remember i said it back to him, but i didn't really mean it at that point in time.

i tried breaking up with him twice before he finally broke up with me. the end was..ugly. fighting, silent treatments, etc.

but, whatever, i'm over him. i kind of wish he wasn't my first "love", but, i gotta start somewhere.


same here... i feel like i luv him but at the same time i can't deal with the neglect and bad hygiene. he's a cool friend, but not boyfriend...
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Posted 30 July 2008 - 12:52 AM

My first real relationship with a guy was more of a fling,
considering i somehow refused to make it official...lasted
about 6 months. It was a EXTREMELY bittersweet ending.
As corny as this sounds, it's a experience that i'll have to
live with for all my life...
absence makes the heart grow fonder




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Posted 30 July 2008 - 01:28 AM

Haha well, It wasn't serious and it lasted 2 months or less?
He had to move back to Japan so we never had the chance to fight or feel bad about it.
I guess I was lucky?
Didn't get hurt and it was a good experiance. cool.gif

Short and sweet <3
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Posted 30 July 2008 - 05:06 AM

I was young, naive and believed this was how love should be.
It just makes me laugh now.
Goodbye to you. Goodbye to everything that I thought I knew...
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Posted 30 July 2008 - 05:35 AM

lasted about 2 months~

just puppy love, infatuation if you will. tongue.gif
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Posted 30 July 2008 - 06:03 AM

my first relationship lasted a little bit more than two years. it was serious and stuff, but mostly negative. as in, the cons outweighed the pros. but i don't regret it so much, i learned a lot of stuff about loyalty, honesty, respect... all of which my ex-boyfriend lacked. mellow.gif
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