[The Legend]

Sorry if this is long..but please read.

So, I�m on myspace (alert, alert!) and this guy messages me and wants to talk. So I�m like, sure why not? He found me on one of my friend�s pages. So he�s like, �I wanna finish this conversation shawty, hit me up *enter number here*� And I�m thinking, why would I do that for? And I tell him about that and we msg back and forth.

So (here comes the alert) I call him. (I blocked my number though!) So we have a really good get to know each other conversation which lasted about 2 hours and we hang up. Now I�ll let you in on this: He�s already talkin about how �I think you�re cool and I can see you with me in the future blah blah� and I�m thinking�when the *bleep* did I say anything about a relationship?

So, this past day he�s messaged me (more than once!) to call him. I�m thinking oh great�I really don�t wanna talk to you. But I call him anyway (i always blocked my number when I called him) and the past two times I called he usually says �hey call me back in *minutes*� then hangs up. But i don't. He also asked why I call with a blocked number, in which I replied �I dunno�. So now, I�ve decided to ignore him. I always ask my self "why did i even bother responding to that message?"

Soooo, what I�m asking is what should I do? Keep ignoring him? Tell him I don�t wanna talk anymore? I was actually
thinking about lieing to him telling him that i have a girlfriend or boyfriend (yes girlfriend, i'm bisexual) but lieing would be bad so i chose not to..

The thing is about my option number two, is that I�m kind of nervous to tell him? I guess it�s because I don�t know what the outcome will be or what he will say�

(I just realized I used the word �so� a lot, sorry about that. I tend to use it when I tell personal stories haha)

Also i never, i repeat NEVER give or will give my number out like what he did (what if i wasn't who he thought was?!) Honestly i don't know why i called him (buut i blocked my number so it's all good.)

[mz_imperfect]

I think you should just be straight-up and tell him that you don't want to talk to him...

or haha that you're really busy =P etc.

[masturyan]

"I don't want to talk to you anymore." THE END. It's just a guy from myspace.

[_ATELIER]

i really can't tolerate annoying, clingy people
(he sounds like one)...they make me uncomfortable.
i'm assuming you feel the same way,
if i were you i'd call him, and...tell him to john tesh off.
he should get it afterwards, if not continue to ignore him.
i don't think a person could be so persistent.

[DovesFlock]

I went through the same thing, the guy knew nothing about me and already wanted to think of me as some future wife!

I wanted to say 'f off', but I don't really know the guys temperament so I tried my best to be firm, but polite.

I told him clearly that I wasn't really interested in speaking with him any longer, because I didn't have those feelings for him that he was obviously wanting.

He replied back, by saying why not and so an so? I told him that I have no reason or obligation to him to explain myself further. Afterwards he started pulling out the 'then why can't we be friends?' card, I again said I don't need to explain myself any further.

I don't know if cussing is the right way to go about it, but being firm and standing your ground is your right. You choose your own friends not him, and you don't really need to answer him on why you block his calls...its none of his damn business!

[KAITOU KID.]

Wait, it's just a random guy on myspace?
lol.

But if you're not interested, blah blah, just don't call. And tell him (in a 'final' call/or messages) that you don't want to know him yada yada ^__^

[Yasunori Shiono]

clingy= desperate and its hella annoying. I am glad I am not clingy, I just have a weird tendency to stalk on interesting people or cutie pies.

[xTwilight]

Call the authorities for harassment. Look how much power people have these days.

[muissick]

block him. ignore him. tell him to eff off. easybreezy.

[EHNerJI]

lol uh.. he's weird o.o
if he keeps asking, just keep rejecting him or stop talking to him o.o (ignore him)

[spiral_flare]

Since you talk to him ONLINE, which is way easier than face-to-face, I think it would be a good idea to tell him straight up that you don't want to talk to him. I know how you feel, it's like you don't want to be mean to him and you don't want him to think you're rude because he's only nice to you and obviously likes you. But he can't force you to like him, you just don't. You have no idea how many people I've had to push away from me because I just simply didn't like them and felt they were annoying because they wouldn't get the hint and back off. It's hard and kinda awkward when I see them at school and stuff but it gets better. Plus, you don't even know him in real life so, it should be a little better. Good luck.

[FFDk]

Delete ur Myspace n make a New One???

[EtherealEnigma]

OMG MYSPACE?! ZOMG THAT MAKES IT SUPER DANGEROUS!!! OH MAN!!! BLOCKZOR HIM B4 HE L337 STALKS YOU AND PWNZ YOU UP! ZOMG!

[DovesFlock]

^I know people make think she is being silly since its on Myspace, but it easy to stalk a person then people think on Myspace without any l337 hacker skillz.

Thats not a bad idea FFdk.
You should maybe delete your myspace and put a new one private and refriend all your friends if you want to stay safe, or maybe just unfriend him and put it in private.

[sushigirl.]

"It's not me, it's you."

Just tell him straight up he's not your type and you're not interested. If babycakes can't handle it, block him off of myspace.

[spiral_flare]

You don't actually have to delete your myspace (plus, it would take so long to request all your friends all over again). You just block him.

[The Legend]

Oh...wow i didn't expect this much help haha.
THANKS EVERYONE!

so this is how it went:
i called him up and told him that i'm not interested in talking with him anymore because i don't share
the same feelings that he has, sorry. *click* i didn't really wanna hear what he had to say.

I actually forgot that he is infact a guy on myspace.
So i'm just gonna block him and all that because that's a lot to do if i delete my whole page

so thanks everyone for helping me out!

[Aziraphale]

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