[badgirl]

Sorry, I'm kind of new at starting new topic...if you don't understand sorry my english is limited.

I need some help, Ive got a problem!! So here is my story:

My sister and her boyfriend (called XXX) broke up 2 weeks ago and now XXX is hitting on me since a week.... While XXX was with my sister, we didn't talk a lot to each other and my sister couldn't stop saying that XXX was staring at my boobs,ass,...that when they break up, he'll be with me...

Since he broke up with her, I didn't talk a lot with my sister (because she's angry at everyone about that love ending and her return with her ex boyfriend (called YYY) that everyone didn't want to happened) and I am hiding the fact that I am seeing him from her... and he's talking to me like there wasn't a love story between him and my sister.

He's not the kind of guys to play with girls and I'm confused!
It is so weird for me to be his girlfriend , after my sister!!!

I need some advice, something to make my conscience good !

Someone has been in the same case???

[rokky123]

r u seeing YYY or XXX ?? got a bit confused there..


I dont think its right for u to date ur sister's ex
and u should tell ur sister but i guess she wont be likin it too much so be prepared.

and if u find it so weird why date him?

[Tr710]

Stay away. There will be a lot of dramas. Totally not worth it.

[WendiiV]

I hope you don't think i'm rude when I say this but...why are you dating your sister's ex boyfriend? That's your SISTER. It's one thing if it were your friend, but she's your flesh and blood. Even if he was the hottest guy on earth, I cold never do that to my sister. It's kinda mean. =[

[jimsayskabloh]

That wasn't a smart move. Why would you date your sister's ex? He doesn't seem like a good person at all: he was checking you out while he was with your sister. Break up with him&forget about him.

[doomunleashed]

That wasn't a smart move. Why would you date your sister's ex? He doesn't seem like a good person at all: he was checking you out while he was with your sister. Break up with him&forget about him.

Agreed.

[kirstie_s]

i dont want to seem mean, and this might be a bit harsh >.< but WHOA NELLYY you do not date your sisters ex

just like you shouldnt date your friends ex. but sisters even worse >.<
thats just a no-go.
think of the things youd do with him that your sister already has [kissing, sex, etc]
thats just nasty.

prepare for drama drama drama

[Strawberii]

I'm not in a position to be judging you, XXX, or your sister; but from what i can tell he doesn't seem like such a great guy. It's not right that he was checking you out while he was still dating your sister and if you involve yourself with him it would only lead to tears, anger, fights, and total drama.

Plus, you said it yourself that it's awkward around him so just don't associate with him.

[Rekidai]

stay away its not good for you to date XXX even if they broke up. if you really really like XXX than you have to tell your sister first and ask her. I don't think its right though.

[Ayuu~]

u barely talked to him before..
so u barely know him then..
so how would u know hez not the type to play with gurls?
dont date him... it will break the relationship between u and ur sister

[Rtistique]

uh wth are u dating him for? you said that guy was only staring at ur boobs and ass, so he was only going for u for your looks OBVIOUSLY, since u guys didnt talk to each other at all while he went out with your sister. so wtf.

[GOOMBA]

uh wth are u dating him for? you said that guy was only staring at ur boobs and ass, so he was only going for u for your looks OBVIOUSLY, since u guys didnt talk to each other at all while he went out with your sister. so wtf.

agreeed & not only that but he was disrespecting your sister. i mean, she was his gf.... he should not be looking at YOU in front of her

[¥ēllόЩ]

Well, if you really love the guy, I'd say go for it. But if you love your sister and cherish your relationship with her more, you should stay away.

[BEBE_AN]

it's his penis that likes you. not worth it.

[Altaire]

Since mostly everyone is going one way, I'll go the other way just for some perspective.

If you truly like him and vice versa, then I think it's alright. True, he was your sister's ex, but just because they're not compatible doesn't mean you aren't. It's like saying "It didn't work out for us, and I don't like him, so you can't either." It seems somewhat unreasonable to say that since different people get along with, well, different people. It could create a barrier in your relationship with your sister, but depending on the situation and your personalities, maybe she could try to be a little more understanding.

Besides getting along, people bring up his sincerity. True, it was bad that he was eyeing you while still with your sister. However, who's to say their relationship was going well anyway? The relationship could have been dying, which is why it makes sense for his mind to start wandering elsewhere.

[KickTheCan]

i'd say do not do it. not worth it.
family comes first, dont want to end up doing something you will regret.

[AsianL0ve]

wow im speechless.
what kind of sister are you?
If my sister dated my ex boyfriend id be heart broken.
esp since i notice him starin at ya boobs or aRrse.
Wow i feel horrible for your sister.
AND PLUS you never talked to him before ? woooooooooooooooooow
Teen relationship usually dont last... but ya know sisters are FOREVER.
?

oh yeah and to that person saying if you really like him go for it
well.. you guys didnt even talk when your sister and him was going out
and NOW that they broke up you guys are soul mates..?
please save yourself the pain and your sisters and just back off

[AL_NT_ATT]

wtf? you're dating your sister's ex? i would never in my right mind do that to my friend or my family EVER.

what you're doing is a form of extreme disrespect because it's out of the question disloyal. if i was your sister, oh man, we would never have a relationship again 'cause lord knows you might date the next guy behind my back. i know my words are harsh but you want a reality check? okay, straight to you: you have officially soiled your sister's trust for you.

[babybuggyY2K]

damn .. break up with him .. the thought shouldn't even have gone close to your head.

let along sister's ex-bf , i wouldnt even think once about dating a friend's ex-bf

[L.FOR.LOVE]

he could be trying to get back at your sister by using you
thats what happeend to one of my friends