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[Lie]

Ughhh, that's so rough. I'm kind of going through a similar thing at the moment, where I've sort of realized that I'm kind of the only one in my relationship that wants it, needs it, etc. It's heartbreaking to be with someone that long and to suddenly realize (whether they've had a sudden change of heart, as your boyfriend has, or they just weren't as committed to it as you were, as is the case with my relationship) that you're the only one holding the relationship together.

I don't feel that you're being too hasty. As much as you may love him, you can't convince someone to stay in a relationship (even if it was an amazing relationship up until a week or so) if they just aren't committed to it any longer. It's tough letting go, but sometimes you have to. That said though, if you can, I'd stick it out for a little while longer and see if things get any better. I mean, you've been in the relationship for 10 months, what's another couple of weeks? Perhaps he's having a rough time accommodating to the new realities of his life. I know that after I went to my college orientation I was silently scared out of my mind at the monumental change my life was taking, and the weight of the new responsibilities I was putting on my shoulders. Maybe give him a little room and time, and see if he doesn't come out of this funk?

[jimsayskabloh]

It's time to move on. It'd be better for you to break up if he's not entirely committed. Both of you are still young, and I can sense that he wants to be free& expirence new things.

[andersennavy]

i dont htink its worth it to stay w him if, like u said, 3 days made 10 months look like it was nothing
im really sry =(

[Saeria]

I admire and respect you for being able to do that.
I actually just came out of a relationship that ended because of distance & time.
I'm not coping anywhere near as well as you are, so kudos to you.

I think you did the right thing. He seems to be having a lot of doubts, and he's going off to college. Chances are he loves/still likes you, but he feels extremely conflicted. He isn't sure if he'll be able to stay faithful because he'll be in college, meeting new people, going to parties, and NYC is a huge place.

It's better that you guys end on a good note (I wish I was able to do that). You guys can still be friends, and if it was meant to be, maybe in the future you guys will get back together.

[ANJEE<3]

i'd do the same
chop it off before he leaves because when he does, it's going to be 100x more difficult to contact him and to get anything straight out of him