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How Did Your S/o Change You? Good?Bad?Both?

#1 User is offline   joongielove 

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Posted 25 July 2008 - 03:14 PM

Just curiouss! :]

My boyfriend made me more patient, caring, and an overall happier person. <3 He's the calm to my storm. wub.gif

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#2 User is offline   babii_gurl 

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Posted 27 July 2008 - 08:49 AM

^ me too
i used to be all hard and mean

and sadly i was mean to him when i frst met him =[
he said i hurt his feelings a lot and thought i didnt like him >.<"
lol
but yea..im jus not an emotional personal..

but now i kinda am...lol
and more understanding affectionate, caring and way way nicer
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Posted 27 July 2008 - 11:59 AM

.. he made me more touchy...?
ahahaha

i'm not a touchy person but he kind of is.. so his habits of arm and back stroking kinda rubbed off on me. plus kissing and hugging. ahaha .. plus i felt bad if he was always the one initiating everything so i kinda forced myself to do that.. and then i found myself liking doing that stuff so it's become part of my nature.. at least, around him, i'm more touchy. ahaha

i've also gotten to be a bit more outspoken.
i'm not one to say what i want very often.. i generally just go with the flow to keep things easier and happier. but i've learned to tell him if he's doing things that make me unhappy. it's hard for me since i tend to keep my feelings to myself.. but .. yup. he can be kinda frustrating since we're very different in how we think so.. communication is good and necessary for us ^__^ ahaha
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Posted 27 July 2008 - 12:00 PM

Not really a S/O but .. a very very special person to me..
I think..since I've met him..he's changed me both ways haha
In the good way, I think I've learned some patience from him as well as being optimistic about the future. I think I'm more able to sort out my priorities..cuz he's like the type of guy that wants whats best for the future and I think that rubbed off on me haha
I've become a lot happier since I met him..He cheers me up, I cheer him up =D

In the bad way, some of the things that I think about go against my parents' guidelines that they've set out for me haha..I mean I have big plans that I think are beneficial for myself in the future...but they don't really agree with them..for the time being since I'm still young and all..

But yeah .. he's changed me in a good way more than a bad way smile.gif
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Posted 27 July 2008 - 12:15 PM

Hmm well he wasn't my boyfriend but for a while he was special to me

GOOD: Sort made me learn to be more optimistic, open, and speak my mind rather than just keep everything to myself. One of the reason why i lost him was because i care too much about myself to care about others...if that made sense

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Posted 27 July 2008 - 01:34 PM


he made me nicer. (:
he always tell me 'good night' before i sign off on aim or hung up the phone
and now i find myself saying 'good night' every time i sign off/hung up the phone with someone
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Posted 27 July 2008 - 04:05 PM

Let's see, I was super innocent, naive, and rather friendly when we first met.
Now I've changed into a bitter, cynical, and extremely disillusioned skeleton.

I like the change. Or at least I'm convincing myself to.
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Posted 27 July 2008 - 04:19 PM


I'm pretty sure there's a thread like this somewhere, I'm too lazy to dig for it, though.

Before I was dating my boyfriend, I ripped through guys like wet toilet paper >>; I always had a boyfriend, but not the same one (at different times, of course). I couldn't really put my faith in them long-term and relationships altogether continued to disappoint me. I was somewhat psychotic, ie. I'd b-slap my friends for the hell of it... Did really stupid stuff without second thought, etc.
When I started dating my current boyfriend, he basically whipped me into shape. I'm not too crazy anymore, and I've learned to entrust him with everything I thought I couldn't trust anyone with. He's made me more trusting, less crazy, and given me motivation to make my life better than it is.
Soo overall, good change, aside from my new-found co-dependency.

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Posted 27 July 2008 - 04:27 PM

Those of you who changed into a better person, great. I changed from better to mood swings up the ass, and I don't like it.
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Posted 27 July 2008 - 04:50 PM

AWW=]

Hmm...my boyfriend, doesn't really change me...but open my eyes to different things, takes me to places that I haven't been, & really made me appreciate and happy with how I my body.
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Posted 27 July 2008 - 04:51 PM

sometimes good and sometimes bad?
well i dont know he made me more lazier
 

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Posted 09 August 2008 - 11:03 PM

the only reason u fell in love was cuz of ME! xD lol...

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Posted 09 August 2008 - 11:31 PM

LOL stupid question? but what does S/o mean? Obviously boyfriend.. but what does it stand for? like.. bffl = best friend for life xD. But anyways..

My boyfriend..
1) made me more confident about myself
2) More naggy? (mostly/all towards him LOL)
3) More demanding towards people? (I feel a little bit more rude when it comes to asking for something >.<)(but I'm still a nice person biggrin.gif)
4) Not as focused in school >.< ...needs to be changed

Yeah, there are a lot more.. just can't remember n__n"
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Posted 09 August 2008 - 11:44 PM

Hmm i don't know...my gf has kinda focused more on my grades and kinda my arrogant attitude...shes too smart wahh need to study...so much more...which is kinda gud and bad...
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Posted 09 August 2008 - 11:46 PM

My ex fattened me up
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Posted 09 August 2008 - 11:48 PM

he made me realise how important love was.
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Posted 09 August 2008 - 11:48 PM

my boyfriend changed me for the better... in so many ways

he's made me realize that i can achieve so much if i try ex/ in school, life
he's made me closer then ever to my mom and brother (i've always ignored them)
he's made me not as insecure about myself
he's made me not depressed all the time
he's made me more blunt so people don't walk all over me and take advantage
he's made me trust in guys again after many failures
he's made me mature in a year faster then what i have in my whole almost 23 yrs

last but not least
he's made me find out the true meaning of love for the first time

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Posted 10 August 2008 - 12:39 AM

I'm pickier, less sensetive, grouchier, less optimistic and a lot fatter.

[I'll edit this later when I think of something to put under the good list]
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Posted 10 August 2008 - 01:44 AM

I used to have money in my bank account.
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Posted 10 August 2008 - 01:50 AM

QUOTE (Sanada Yukimura @ Aug 10 2008, 04:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I used to have money in my bank account.


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