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Dating people who smoke/do drugs what do you think??

#1001 User is offline   xstarBURST 

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Posted 06 June 2009 - 07:38 PM

People who smoke cigarettes/ pot i have nothing against, as long as they have the respect not to pass it on or offer it to me...I have a close friend who smokes pot, only because its for her stomach conditions.

I would personally not date a guy who smokes cigarettes, but if he has a great personality and i guess we click i'll make a sacrifice and try to suck it up. Just hope he doesn't kiss me after he had just smoked.
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 07:44 PM

Turn off.
Ughh. I can't stand the smoke. Blechhhhh.
Bad breath, too. ):
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 07:54 PM

I would think most ppl would say it is a TURN OFF.

But honestly, if you liked a guy and he smoked yet you two really get along I don't think that him smoking would be the factor that would make you go "NO, I won't go out with you." You know what I mean? It's like we can all sit here and say that it turns us off and that we wouldn't date a guy who smokes but in reality it's not that simple.

So if my bf smoked I would be okay with it as long as he is polite about it (goes outside to smoke, makes sure to be careful where he is blowing the smoke). Obviously I would like him to stop since it is bad for his health and the health of ppl around him but it wouldn't stop me from dating him.

Stuff like doing hard drugs are a definite turn off and a no to dating though. vicx.gif

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Posted 06 June 2009 - 08:23 PM

Total turnoff. I can't stand the smell of smoke, and I don't like being around people who is high all the time. sleep.gif
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 08:31 PM

Turnoff. Get that smell out of my hair !


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Posted 06 June 2009 - 08:50 PM

QUOTE (xoxoknlove @ Jun 6 2009, 07:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i'm not sure if this have ever been posted before but....

what do you think about dating people who smoke or do drugs??

is it a turn on or a turn off?
does it even really matter?


^^you know, incase anyone likes the badass kind XDDD LOL! jk!




honestly, i wouldnt care
its neither a turn off or on for me
i guess cuz ive been there done that
so if they wanna smoke or do drugs then its fine by me
free country you know?
pple should do w/e the john tesh they want
and if im dating a druggie then i guess as long as theyre not addicted to it or u know give up eveything they have just for drugs then its no prob
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 08:55 PM

QUOTE (boba666 @ Jun 7 2009, 12:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
honestly, i wouldnt care
its neither a turn off or on for me
i guess cuz ive been there done that
so if they wanna smoke or do drugs then its fine by me
free country you know?
pple should do w/e the john tesh they want
and if im dating a druggie then i guess as long as theyre not addicted to it or u know give up eveything they have just for drugs then its no prob


Agreed!
Though, I've never done drugs myself, I honestly don't have a problem with it unless it's done to an extreme.
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 08:55 PM

It doesn't really matter to me o__o as long as they're not high or it's not a major problem.
I like the badass type.. to a point hahaha
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 09:01 PM

It's a turn off. It's a bigger turn off if the person didn't do drugs before but started after you two started dating. It's even worse if the person doing drugs let it affect the relationship in the long run. For instance, some people let drugs control their life- they do stupid things, not care about anything else but drugs, etc. In conclusion, I'd rather not be with someone who smoke or do drugs.
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 09:01 PM

The action of smoking is a total turn on. tongue.gif
Now of course there's the smell and it kills you blablabla...

I prefer social smokers and drinkers and druggies(?), you get the point, right?
So basically it's more of a turn off if a guy has never tried any of that.
I'd see that as more of a problem. Weird? Maybe.

But in the end, it all comes down to who the guy is.
Whether he smokes/does drugs or doesn't do either, does not define him or stop me or attract me to him.
There are more important things to consider.
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 09:04 PM

complete turn off.

pot is okay. but not when they let it take over there life.
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 09:13 PM

its a turnoff o:
though, one time i dated a smoker,
and he 'tried' to stop smoking for me.
cause i dont usually go for smokers o_o;
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 09:27 PM

i've always thought it was a turn off...but he smokes, he's trying to quit, but he still does...:/
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 09:41 PM

Smoking & drugs are a BIG turn off for me because for one, i hate being around smokers; I can't stand the smell of the smokes and for two, well, i just dont like being around those people. I honestly would never date a guy who do those craps.

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Posted 06 June 2009 - 09:58 PM

I don't mind.
Probably because I've been around different kinds of people who do this or that.

I got used to it in a way.
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 10:45 PM

It's a major turnoff for me!
I can't stand the smell of smoke D:
And it really puts me off seeing young people smoking just to look cool~ >___>''
My boyfriend used to smoke but he stopped when I told him I didn't like people who smoked~
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 10:47 PM

A few of my friends smoke, one time I went over to play poker and all of them smoked around me. The next day I felt like throwing up the entire time. I can't even stand my friends doing it. Turn off. Not even turn off, health off. Unable to exist beside off. Don't physically want to be with off.
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 10:50 PM



Prancing around with drugs (hardcore or not) and ciggs is not cool. Its smells, its unhealthy and its addictive!
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 11:10 PM

Ugh....definitely a turn OFF. I really can't stand the smell of smoke....
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 11:21 PM

Turn OFF.
When I was with my ex, I was fine with it at first... but then he got more and more addicted to pot.
He would "forget" about spending time with me/calling me, etc...
After we broke up, he got someone pregnant while he was high.
Yuck. Now, he does more serious drugs... -.-"
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