[siyeon]

My boyfriend used to smoke... but I forced him to quit.
I don't think it makes me a control freak or anything.
I just told him that if he smokes around me or EVER, then we couldn't date.
So he quit.

But smoking and doing drugs are such a turn off, for real.
It might look "cool" when you're young, but once you get to a certain age (and I'm not even that old) you just realize how stupid and gross it is.

[elaynurr]

turn off. disgusting blegh

[Takeru]

its a turn off for most ppl but when you really like the person can you actually say its a turn off and make yourself stop liking them?

[munto]

the majority of guy in asia smokes unfortunately. I find it sexy at times but not when you are kissing them afterward.

The drug is a no no for me now. I used to date a hardcore druggie and it pretty much messed up my life. If you are dating a person who does drug, you are always going to come after the drug.

[mickeylovers24]

It's a real turn off.
I would hate to be around a smoker, and kissing them....
Also I don't want a boyfriend that might die early of cancer or something
smoking related diease.

Addiction....

[&rea]

Turn off. I hate the smell of cigarettes and I cannot stand being with someone who is rarely sober or needs to take drugs/drink to have fun. So glad my boyfriend doesn't do anything of the sort

[DeeIsRadicalYeah]

on the surface, some guys look really good when they smoke LOL. i don't mind if they're a social smoker, but i'd prefer if they didn't smoke.

drugs, on the other hand, it's ok to take party drugs on the rare occasion. just don't make it a habit.

[yimster900]

i don't really mind if strangers and some friends smoke but wouldn't like it in a boyfriend specifically because i'd have to kiss them and i dislike the taste of cigarettes. it also makes them reek and i just think why are you wasting your money on things that make your breath stink of tar? i'm not into druggies either, but i'd overlook it if they only have a spliff here and there (like few times a year).

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

Smoking and drugs are both TURN-OFFS for me. Even smoking pot is a huge turn-off to me.
The most I would let slide is drinking.

[binjoo]

Others who do it, it's tolerable cause it's what they want to do.

For an SO, it would be ideal if he didn't do those things.

I don't mind if he like, smoked pot or something, once every couple months. It's those every day/every weekend type ones that I don't like.
Alcohol is fine, like above ^.
Cigarettes are just gross.
Hardcore drugs are a no-no.

[meatloaf]

honestly it depends for me lol...usually I dun like it when ppl smoke...with my current bf..if he smokes it would be a total turn off...but when my ex smokes..it's a turn on lol

[eggball]

Definately a turn off,
can't stand people who smokes.

[seafood]

both are big turn off for me , i really dislike the smell of cigarettes it just ugh.

[hmong_lubpaj]

no way. if my bf smoked or did drugs, i wouldn't want to be with him.

[sleepismytherapy]

... tuurn off... he would be high, and have this stinky smell whenever
he smokes pot... plus it makes his lifestyle seems a bit all over the place...
that was the reason why we broke up, because he woudn't stop...

[kimchiilover]

Dating a smoker? its gross, who would want to even go near someone with smokers breath, none the less kiss them
and dating a drug addict? they always end up in bad situations like money and stuff, plus doing drugs just gives them bad health!

TURN OFFS! LOL )

[Yukita]

whoa, i remember this exact topic being posted like a year or two ago LOL

i'd date that person. i smoke and partake in some recreational illegal activities
not just weezy, i go to a lot of raves and hang out with like... crazy (awesome) people
i guess for a lot of soompi's audience you'd just have to be one to date one, ahaha

i mean, in the end
it's not about the fact that he DOES the drugs or smokes,
it's about the fact that he's taking an active role in being a positive part of my life, amirite ahah

[selvaspeedy]

total turn off!! are you kidding! I HATE the smell of smoke and I don't like people doing drugs and high and stoned all the time! how can anyone find them appealing? (I mean people doing drugs! they look out of this world seriously! but I guess that lot of guys do smoke these days, so I have no comment on that!) my cutie smokes and how I wish if he quits

[belarus*]

complete turn off.

[screamxlove]

Others who do it, it's tolerable cause it's what they want to do.

For an SO, it would be ideal if he didn't do those things.

I don't mind if he like, smoked pot or something, once every couple months. It's those every day/every weekend type ones that I don't like.
Alcohol is fine, like above ^.
Cigarettes are just gross.
Hardcore drugs are a no-no.

I pretty much agree with everything you said here.