[dongbang.suju.bigbang]

I doesnt really matter if he smoke.
but drugs?!?! A BIG NO NO!

[infinite*]

A turn off, specially if it's drugs.
If it's smoking and is not a habit, then that's fine.

[MRLEE]

turn off.
but im dating a smoker =-= and i can't seem to get her to quit. so im just letting it go
but i wont allow her to kiss me if she smells like smokes.

It's never bothered me. I've been with a stoner before, and it's not that bad (maybe because I used to smoke but not anymore). And my last bf used to smoke pot occasionally, and I'm fine with it. So either way is fine.

ah same here. used to smoke :[ lol or more like ate brownies.

[Eja]

Turn off.

If he realises that he puts others' lives in danger too (second-hand smoke), then okay.

Drugs? NO NO NO!

[xMYOOx]

i actually don't mind at all as long as it's not excessive..
my boyfriend is really strict about both ;;;;
he used to smoke, drink, do weed.. everything in high school.. but now that he's done with school/college.. he's like.. super straight edge
he wont even let me drink a little bit and im in college!
its kinda annoying..

[JooLee]

no... it didnt work out with this guy because im too "good" and hes not. eh im better off anyways =)
i totally cant stand smokers and ppl that does weed. drinking i dont mind much haha

[eternal_bliss]

I don't mind a guy drinking as long as he's not extremely annoying when drunk or an alcoholic.
For smoking, I hate the smell and smokers have terrible breath. Which equals to a bad kisser.

As for drugs? Guys with holes in their brains don't exactly turn me on.

[hsin531]

How can anyone taking drugs be a turn on? Personally, I think anyone high on drugs is a huge turn off.

[Photogeek]

i had a bf like that. he did drugs.. That was the only thing i didnt like about him.

but now i think its a total turnoff.

[DiMpLzz_**so N love**]

i'm not sure if this have ever been posted before but....

what do you think about dating people who smoke or do drugs??
is it a turn on or a turn off?
does it even really matter?


^^you know, incase anyone likes the badass kind XDDD LOL! jk!

Well my bf smoked wen we first started goin out...and I'll admit it was that badass ttendency that drew me 2 him but as time went by and we became serious I hated it and he quit but then we broke up and got back 2gether and he does it again, and he wnt stop and it's a complete turn off.

[I Cook With A Flashlight]

I would love a girl who smokes. It adds a nice flavor to my meat.

[polka_dotts]

I don't mind. Unless it's preventing him from being active in our relationship, like forgetting to call me cus he's high or something!

[xspringrollsx]

turn off.
as well as piercings and tattoos. :/

[am747]

If by smoking, you mean smoking hot, then yes.
Weed is fine too, since it's not addictive (and can be immensely entertaining)

Otherwise, I'm not very much attracted to people who like to kill themselves slowly.

[dbSk iS k00l]

Having a boyfriend that smokes is fine with me.
But NOT one that does hardcore drugs. That is such a turn off.

[S0URPATCH--]

Smoking...I guess I don't mind but for some reason when I hear that they do drugs I get soooo turned off. But one of my best guy friends always tells me not to judge someone just because they do drugs (probably because he's one of the greatest friends I've ever had, despite being a druggy himself ;P)

[Gofishus]

LOL why would ever date someone who did hardcore drugs? They could wake up dead one day at any time. Do you really think dating someone with a life expectancy half that of yours is a good idea? nope.

[joogrlpekaun]

It's a turn-off for me if a guy smokes because of the smell and the ashtray taste that my mom said my dad's kisses used to have for a while after each cigarette, and I really don't enjoy being anywhere in the vicinity when people are smoking. I hate the feeling of seeing someone I care about visibly harm himself, too. The addiction part is actually also a major part of why smoking is a turn-off to me. I know that being a smoker doesn't mean you're a horrible person and it's not easy to quit, though, so I would consider dating a smoker if he didn't smoke like a chimney and he were pretty considerate about when and where he smoked.

As for other drugs, that's a turn-off for sure, too. Again, not all people who do drugs are horrible, but I don't have a lot of interest in a guy whose number one source of stimulation is taking drugs and checking out for hours at a time, especially using potentially fatal hardcore drugs. Why, people, why is it considered worth the risk?! Non-addictive drugs only taken on the weekends are definitely less of a turn-off than addictive ones taken on a really regular basis, though. I wouldn't reject a guy out of hand for smoking pot, in particular, unless he did it so often it was all he wanted to do with his friends. I'm sorry, guys, but can't you find anything better to do for fun? Taking drugs recreationally has just never held any appeal for me. I won't tell anyone not to do it, but it doesn't earn any points with me at all when guys talk loudly about the stupid things they did with their buddies last weekend when they were high.

I have another issue with smokers that I want to mention, though: the COST! Dating is one thing, but I wouldn't want to marry someone while thinking of years and years of wasting our joint funds on expensive cigarettes that might not only take up a lot of income that could have been spent on something else (or saved for retirement) but also eventually cost us more in medical bills and heartache later if my husband ended up with lung cancer. I'll pass.

[dandelionx]

i think a little drinking would be okay.
but if he's addicted or whatever, then uh oh.
no smoking and definitely no drugs.
though i do love the bad boy types. but no.

[stardust.]

Total turn off no matter how you look at it. I can't stand being around someone that
smokes. The smell is just horrible, and I hate to have to breathe the same air they
exhaled after taking a drag. And the smell of alcohol and whatever other drugs is
just beyond unappealing.