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Dating people who smoke/do drugs what do you think??

#401 aybeedee

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Posted 16 April 2008 - 06:00 PM

smoking is a
big turn off for me

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#402 ShiaChewy

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Posted 16 April 2008 - 06:08 PM

Smoking is soo bad for your health so it's like slowly killing yourself. =/
Plus, it smells bad. D:
If they're like MAD addicted to it and have to have one every 10 minutes, it's even worse. D:
But I guess they can't help it?

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#403 Bourjois

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Posted 16 April 2008 - 06:10 PM

It's definitely a turn-off; I don't think I'd like to kiss a smoker. But it depends on the guy I guess. If I really really really like him then... I dunno, I guess I'd try to make him stop or just accept it.

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Posted 16 April 2008 - 06:21 PM

It's a turn off. I don't really like guys who smokes.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 01:06 AM

guys that smoke = complete turn-off...

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 04:39 AM

turn off. well, my dad doesn't smoke, so a guy smoking if esp. he's my friend or s/o, it'd would a total turnoff.

i just hate it when some guys think it's cool to smoke. well, certainly not, imo. :s

i don't mind if you have to smoke but respect your non-smoker friends. i would appreciate it if they walk off somewhere instead doing it infront of you.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 05:45 AM

yuck. seriously.

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#408 sweetREDEMPTION.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 06:27 AM

I use to say the things that the majority of the girls here said.
"It's a turn off. It's nasty. It's stupid. Blah blah blah."
But I think once you really really like someone, you start to look past things.
The guy that I talk to smokes. I let him. It's his life. I'd like for him to quit.
However, that's a choice that he's gonna have to make for himself. I'm not gonna force him.
You can't force anyone to do anything. They have to want to change for themselves.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 06:39 AM

it's ok, once in a while when he's stressed or feels like it, but if he's addictive to it than NOPE! although being a non-smoker is better for him, but like sweetredemption says it's his life. plus, i sort of find a sexienss to guys that smoke, well some...

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 06:45 AM

QUOTE (sweetREDEMPTION. @ Apr 17 2008, 10:27 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

You can turn what you said around, as well.
If he really really liked you, he would quickly try to stop smoking for you..

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 07:00 AM

definitely a turn off to me :X

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 07:02 AM

i don't like guys who smoke. especially if they smoke around me. i can talk to you, but i can't date you/kiss you/have make out sessions with you because it stinks and it makes me stink too.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 07:08 AM

QUOTE (HeartOfRose @ Apr 17 2008, 10:45 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

You can turn what you said around, as well.
If he really really liked you, he would quickly try to stop smoking for you..

But if you really really like him, then why would you want to change him?
Like I said... let him realize things & want to change for himself. Not change for you.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 07:10 AM

QUOTE (JJM @ Aug 24 2007, 05:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I disagree with the weed. All toxins you put into your body is bad. I just think pothead sounds worse than smoker.

i think you're confused. there are no toxins in weed. i mean, it's just well, weed. unless you smoke american spirits or roll your own, cigs are the ones with toxins.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 07:23 AM

QUOTE (sweetREDEMPTION. @ Apr 17 2008, 11:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

But if you really really like him, then why would you want to change him?
Like I said... let him realize things & want to change for himself. Not change for you.

My dad quit smoking for my mom. She has asthma so he couldn't smoke with her around (so he really had to change for her, not himself).
It depends on the person, I guess, if he really wanted to quit.

I wouldn't mind if the guy I liked smoked, just as long as he never did it with me.
I'll probably choke to death. :x

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 07:37 AM

If you know they do it before you get into the relationship then you shouldn't complain about it since you signed up for it.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 07:38 AM

I personally do not like it. I dislike the smell and it's not a comforting feeling to be with a guy who would smell like smoke instead of yummy cologne lol. plus, smoking kills.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 07:54 AM

QUOTE (shooting_stars @ Aug 23 2007, 02:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Smoking is a huge turn-off.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 08:13 AM

Second-hand smoking/ breathing in smoke from another smoker is more harmful than for the actual smoker. Smoking is addictive, pretty hard to quit not that i know since i've never smoked. If i had a boyfriend who smoked, i would'nt expect him to take care of me in the future if he can't take care of himself first.

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