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Dating people who smoke/do drugs what do you think??

#601 touchthesky

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Posted 05 August 2008 - 08:49 PM

i would not be able to stand it. it's not the habit that i hate... like i can care less if a guy smokes. but the smell is nauseating. how am i supposed to cuddle/hug/kiss him without holding my breath? ugh

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Posted 05 August 2008 - 09:34 PM

i hate smokers period.
if it is like...ummm...once a every 2 weeks maybe.
and it's really addicted even though they don't know they are addicted
but still i hate smokers.

WOW i smell smoke outside my window
interesting how i smell that just now
ahhh grosss, i'm seriously going to blame them if i die LOL
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Posted 06 August 2008 - 05:27 AM

i don't mind as long as he doesn't smoke in front of me

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 05:43 AM

guys who smoke are some of the coolest in the world.
if we smoke, it means we've got an oral fixation.
so you know we're good at certain things down under. =]

who cares if we live 5-10 years less. driving a car around all the retarded drivers in the world is more dangerous.

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#605 AlyM37

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 06:12 AM

ewww, smokers r a totally TURN OFF

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 06:14 AM

It looks hot- but let's keep it at a level.
You can only smoke when you're not near me. And you have to smell nice afterwards. lol.

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#607 Babysoul

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 06:22 AM

Yes, it is a turn off. I have a friend who smokes, who happens to be a guy. He tells me alot of the time, he wants to quit smoking. He has tried to quit many times as well. I feel so bad for him because he always fails.

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#608 x_TaintedLove

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 07:02 AM

I wouldn't be turned off. The smell wouldn't bother me that much because I've somehow gotten used to it over the years. (Which is a bad thing, I know)
The guys I tend to like and befriend usually smoke or hang out with smokers. I wouldn't be surprised if I end up with a smoker for a boyfriend if I ever did.

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 07:05 AM

definitely no. My dad was a smoker, and I have such a bad impression of it :\

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 07:47 AM

if i liked or was going out with someone that smoked.. i would make them quit immediately.. smoking is really digusting especially when the person is near you.. can't stand the smell ><

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#611 hippiehop

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 08:34 AM

Automatically turned off.

If he were amazing in every other aspect then I might consider it but I really can't stand it.

#612 babiloveyoo

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 08:49 AM

I hate it when guys smoke ugh XP I can't stand the smell of it makes me cough like crazy and I'm not the one even smoking lols.

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 09:49 PM

I'm perfectly fine with smokers. My ex is a smoker, when we meet up, I can smell the cigarette from his breath. I'm totally cool with it. As long as he doesn't smoke when he's with me.

I think some guys look hot when they smoke. Like there's this guy back in high school, he was really cute, but when he smokes, he looks HPT! And also macho...

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 09:54 PM

dont mind, dont care cuhz i also smoke but not like thatttt
it depends tho, if they try to quit, total support. but if started up again i would def be upset

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 09:58 PM

I don't like smokers but if I had a bf who smokes
I'd ask him to quit for me
Maybe it wouldn't bug me that much because I love him ?

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 10:05 PM

Yes.. a total turn off for me.
I'd probably do the samething you would..
If he doesnt try... it's kind of telling me he's not willing to change for the sake of the relationship...

#617 JASON;

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 10:23 PM

i think they're hot.
ashtray breath. mmmm

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 10:30 PM

QUOTE (JASON; @ Aug 6 2008, 11:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

i think they're hot.
ashtray breath. mmmm

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 10:36 PM

My ex-boyfriend smoked.
Honestly, it didn't really bother me
but that doesn't mean i liked it.
When he smoked i just walked away.
But he used to eat gum after to get rid of the smell.
He said he was trying to quit but,
I guess that never happened. : )

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 10:39 PM

Wow; smoking is my biggest turn off... next to drinking.

I like my guy to be clean and educated; and seeing someone smoke or drink makes me think of them as a trailer trash idiot who lacks any form of education. See; in my opinion... no one with a decent level of intelligent would intentionally harm their body.

When I was young; around 14 years old...I dated a guy who drinks, smoke and does drug... and at that age; I thought it was cool that he did those things. Cause it made me feel like I'm such a grown up for dating a guy like that. But the older I grew; the more I realize that it's not something a grown up does; it's something only a fool does.

Dating someone who drink and smoke is like finding a person who is about to die to date. Why waste my time on a dipmini cooper when I can get myself a guy who respect his body?