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Dating people who smoke/do drugs what do you think??

#651 User is offline   영원한 사랑 

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Posted 15 August 2008 - 10:25 AM

If I happened to like a guy who smoked, I would bothered by it but it wouldn't stop me from liking him. I'd make him quit once I get to know him. dry.gif

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Posted 15 August 2008 - 01:51 PM

My bf doesn't smoke, but it's really sexy when he does have a lit cigarette in his mouth. Though I don't want him smoking, cos in the long run it's definately a turn off. It's like saying guys with tattoos, it's hot now, but in the long run.. it's bleh...
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Posted 15 August 2008 - 02:08 PM

I'm dating a smoker, but I really don't care. He NEVER smokes around me (if he REALLY needs a smoke, he leaves and goes outside for like 2 minutes), and if I casually mention that he smells like smoke or ask him "were you smoking?"...he runs off and gargles his mouth with mouthwash HAHAH

it's just really different in Korea, because EVERYONE there smokes...so I'm less picky about it with. I'd rather he didn't smoke though because I worry about his health!



....I secretly kind of find it hott when I see him with a cigarette though....I have NO idea why.
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Posted 15 August 2008 - 05:45 PM

aww man everytime my gf finds ciggarettes in my bag or sumfin she takes it and throws it away >_< my $10AU ahh

and yeah she doesnt like it lol but im trying to cut down =P

haha i reckon its alright for a guy to smoke just not too much =)
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Posted 15 August 2008 - 07:08 PM

for me, smoking = major deal breaker, so no, I'd never date a smoker.
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Posted 15 August 2008 - 08:10 PM

I dont knw, i dont like smokers but a guy who smokes seems really sexy to me....hypocritical much?
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Posted 16 August 2008 - 07:18 PM

my bf is a smoker and he doesn't like me smoking =.= im a social smoker... heh so only at parties etc but he still doesnt like it
he doesnt smoke a pack a day and im not TOO bothered about him smoking but i do tell him to cut down or at least not to smoke in front of me...
he told me the other day he was trying to quit ^^ so it's all good but whether he does it is a different matter!
i remember he kissed me once not long after having a cig, and then i stopped him and said i could taste the kool-aids!!
so the next time we kissed he used mouth wash before hand LOL but then it tasted wierd o.O!
oh yeah another thing is that he has a little asthma... and i asked him 'so smoking helps, right?' then he had nothing to say
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Posted 16 August 2008 - 07:45 PM

My boyfriend smokes... He did quit for about 3 months or so, but after I left school for summer and he stayed there... he went back to his old habits. A lot of his friends smoke so it's constantly around him. Guess he couldn't handle the pressure. I think he's even MORE addicted now. I tell him to stop, but I know it's a lot more difficult to actually do it. When I'm back at school, I'm going to try my best to make him stop.
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Posted 16 August 2008 - 08:01 PM

Smoking? Bad. Doing mary j? I'm cool with it.
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Posted 16 August 2008 - 08:08 PM

I don't think I could go out with a smoker.
I just wouldn't be able to stand it >.>
maybe if he didn;t smoke around me it would be okay.
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Posted 16 August 2008 - 11:42 PM

i dont really care cause i smoke tooo. when i started dating my current bf, i tried to quit and i wanted him to quit too. but he's my boyfriend, i gottaa accept him for the smoker he is, i dont wanna change his wayss:] but we bothh smoke less now.
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Posted 17 August 2008 - 12:43 AM

hell no. A smoker doesn't treasure his own life.. simply just wasting his own life/body away!!
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Posted 17 August 2008 - 01:58 AM

Truthfully I find guys that smoke and have earrings are hot but that's just me. I know that's kind of weird for me to think that, but if I had a bf that smoked, I guess I wouldn't like his health to get ruined. But if smoking was good for you, I wouldn't mind x.x
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Posted 17 August 2008 - 02:04 AM

Guys who smoke look cool for a while...but I'm not gonna touch any of them. How could you kiss someone who smokes? that's nasty.
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Posted 17 August 2008 - 02:07 AM

I honestly don't mind a guy who smokes, especially if it's just after having a few drinks and everyone's smoking and having a good time. In my experience drinking and smoking sort of do go hand-in-hand and I certainly crave a cigarette after getting toasty drunk. I'd like to have my man come with me when I'm out on the town, so of course I don't mind if he smokes a couple (or half a pack, depends on how drunk everyone is), while we're out. I dislike, however, the type of smoker who can't go through a mall without having to rush out for a smoke. I'm not personally addicted to cigarettes (I have a surprising ability to resist addiction; I can go months without a smoke or craving...so long as I stay sober haha) so it's troubling to know someone I care about has his or her life ruled by an addiction. On that note, I do find smoking sort of hot. Perhaps it's just the fact that I idolize hard-boiled detective novels and film noir, but I do get turned on when I see a well-dressed guy with a cigarette and an old-fashioned glass of bourbon.
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Posted 17 August 2008 - 06:24 AM

a total huge turn-off.
sicko. they shouldn't risk their life for nothing but smoke.

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Posted 17 August 2008 - 08:00 AM

I hate guys who smoke, such a turn-off.



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Posted 17 August 2008 - 08:17 AM

A BIG NO FOR ME!!!
i dunno i juz lose my interest with guys if i found out that they're smoker...cuz if they dun think abt their health at least think abt us whose near him..i dun liek the smell..arghh cant breath
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Posted 17 August 2008 - 08:53 AM

honestly, it's a big no no for me
first question pops in my head when i see them, "why did u start in the first place?" i mean, c'mon when you were a kid, EVERYBODY told you not to do it because it's unhealthy and you can die from it in the future....did you not listen?

it makes me think they weren't smart enough to think of the consequences, EVEN THOUGH the guy could be a genius. well, if you were smart enough, you could've said no.

and the excuse saying, "i was being pressured into doing it" doesn't work. at the end of the day, it was YOU who chose to take the cig. that was one wrong thing before even talking to me -.-
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Posted 17 August 2008 - 11:21 AM

^ usually when we're told NOT to do something the total opposite happens, especially when we're angry or feel like rebelling ^^;;
but i get what you mean.

& i wouldnt really want a bf who smoked.
it's kinda a turn off for me. i start coughing like mad anyways lol


they choose to smoke, fine but as long as im not anywhere near them.



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