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Friend's Opinions Abt The Way You Look. Are they for real? or not?

#1 User is offline   her_heart 

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 06:40 PM

well i hear i look the same or even better in person from pictures but i think they're just saying it cause they're my friends tears.gif
what do you think? when you ask your friends opinion do you think they are telling the truth or just being nice!

oct 6 . 08 edit:
well im a brutally honest person my self so sometimes i come off as a b with an itch if im being too honest. but for me when i ask my friends i have an intention to not believe them sometimes because i don't really think i look good or anything at all.

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 06:46 PM

well, when my friends tell me im ugly in certain clothing and when i change, they tell me i look better, then obviously i would believe that.

but i usually think they're lying to me because they would take a fast glance at me and then say, yea that looks good. ....

it just doesnt sound .... honest you know?
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Posted 06 August 2008 - 07:10 PM

I rarely ask anyone for an opinion.
My friends have a habit of complimenting everyone and putting down themselves at the same time.
So, if it's something you like, then wear it.
As long as you're happy, it shouldn't matter what they say.
Unless you're going out in a paper bag...then you should definitely check twice in the mirror for rips or holes xP

But do I believe what they say? Not really.
I know my place, and it's definitely not at the rank of a celebrity.

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#4 User is offline   kwamesan42 

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 07:13 PM

i always think that as well..
a lot of friends are nice enough to tell you the truth.
but other friends are nice enough to consider your feelings.
depends on the people and how they are i guess.
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#5 User is offline   pocketsoul 

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Posted 06 August 2008 - 07:42 PM

I don't think my close friends can objectively judge my appearance.
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Posted 06 August 2008 - 07:47 PM

Depends on the person. I think most would be pretty straightforward.
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Posted 06 August 2008 - 08:21 PM

If I think that a friend of mine is truly pretty/cute, I tell them.
But if I really don't think they're the cutest/prettiest person around, I wouldn't say anything.
I don't like to lie, especially to my friends.


But if they asked, I'd be honest.
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Posted 04 October 2008 - 02:42 PM

u look cute enough to me smile.gif

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Posted 04 October 2008 - 03:27 PM

my friends always comment ; u'll look better if "______________"
has been hanging there from many friends, but i dun really wanna do anything to myself to look much better.
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Posted 04 October 2008 - 03:42 PM

I'm usually pretty blunt when it comes to how my friends dress, so they usually ask me what's good on them and whatnot.
They say I'm really useful lol :x If I think you look stupid, I'll say so. If I think you look cute, I'll say so as well, and etc etc (:
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Posted 04 October 2008 - 04:24 PM

My friends are pretty straight-forward and so am I. If a certain outfit on me is making me look fat then they tell me so without even putting their words better and I'm glad to have those friends cuz' they tell you the truth. You don't hear the truth from everyone, some girls say this 'cute' that 'hot' when they don't even mean it. It's always good to have honest people around you.
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Posted 04 October 2008 - 04:25 PM

my friends and i all agree on absolute honesty.

so when one looks like a frog, we say that mini cooper makes you look like a frog.

it works.
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Posted 04 October 2008 - 05:19 PM

I do that. And I make them tell the truth. Usually, it's not the answers that I expect. smile.gif


Which is a good thing for me.
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Posted 04 October 2008 - 05:35 PM

i'm pretty honest/blunt, i wouldn't let a friend walk around looking like a fool =P
my friends think like that too i suppose, well, some like to sugar coat and some don't.
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Posted 04 October 2008 - 05:42 PM

my friends are all usually honest about telling me how I look
and it's usually everyday they see me they'll tell me.


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Posted 04 October 2008 - 05:57 PM

the way some friends compliment,
what they say & what they really mean...

"ohhh, it makes you look like a *hore." (DAME, it looks nice!)
"it looks really nice on you." (OMG, u gotta be kidding?)
"you're looking thin." (what have u been eating?)
"you're really pretty." (but, i'm still prettier!)
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Posted 06 October 2008 - 07:56 AM

^ wow, that's uplifting

With my friends, we rarely ask each other things like this. We just express our opinions at that moment, I think it has lots of truth that way.
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Posted 06 October 2008 - 08:11 AM

Depends on who. I know this girl that always say this and that of mine is ugly, yet goes out and by the same thing the next day. So no; I don't take her words for it. But my best friend will tell me straight up when I look bad/good. At times, she's brutally honest... and it actually hurts me feeling. I don't mind her opinion; but she comes off rude at time... And even though I think she's completely honest with me, a lot of people think that she's doing it intentionally to put me down. Shrug.
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Posted 06 October 2008 - 08:18 AM

QUOTE (lostieee @ Oct 4 2008, 08:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
My friends are pretty straight-forward and so am I. If a certain outfit on me is making me look fat then they tell me so without even putting their words better and I'm glad to have those friends cuz' they tell you the truth. You don't hear the truth from everyone, some girls say this 'cute' that 'hot' when they don't even mean it. It's always good to have honest people around you.
Yeah, same here. My friends and I are like that too. I love them like that. :D <3
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Posted 06 October 2008 - 08:28 AM

I think most of the time my friends are actually lying...but then i have this one particular friend that's really straightforward. im pretty straightforward myself ...which some people actually don't like
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