Hard Time Saying Thank-you do you have a hard time?
#1
Posted 09 August 2008 - 04:16 PM
#2
Posted 09 August 2008 - 04:17 PM
It depends on the situation. Can you give an example where it's difficult for you to say it?
#3
Posted 09 August 2008 - 04:20 PM
Well when someone buys me something I say thank-you but it doesn't sound like I am and other times people tell me to say it which makes me build up pressure, that makes me not wanna say it.
#4
Posted 09 August 2008 - 04:21 PM
#5
Posted 09 August 2008 - 04:30 PM
#6
Posted 09 August 2008 - 04:36 PM
Oh I see. Well how do u feel like when people give you presents that you really wanted but didn't expect them to buy it for you? like surprise gifts.
I get what you're saying with the pressure. It reminds me of when people tell me about their religion, where it seems forced onto them rather than having their own deep faith and choice in choosing that religion.
#7
Posted 09 August 2008 - 04:41 PM
#8
Posted 09 August 2008 - 04:50 PM
I say "sometimes" because, sometimes I forced myself to say thank you and theres sometimes where I just sit/stand there stunned smiling and I really want to say thank you to that person, but the word just won't come out of my mouth. That's why when I was a little, my mom used to hit me a lot because I never say thank you after an elder gave me something.
#9
Posted 09 August 2008 - 04:53 PM

#10
Posted 09 August 2008 - 04:54 PM
but i usually go with thank you and thanx here and there. kinda depends on the situation as well.
#11
Posted 09 August 2008 - 06:42 PM
#12
Posted 09 August 2008 - 07:04 PM
internet is not as hard but in eal life...er...
i want to be polite and to say thank you
but sometimes i feel sooo nervous xD
and then sometimes,i wonder if i should or not...
now im getting use to it =PP
i should~
#13
Posted 09 August 2008 - 07:07 PM
i will say it to like aunts n uncles or w/e if they did something for me but it feels weird and i just CANT say it to my immediate family. so weird!!
#15
Posted 09 August 2008 - 08:02 PM
i will say it to like aunts n uncles or w/e if they did something for me but it feels weird and i just CANT say it to my immediate family. so weird!!
Yeah same here.
Well I guess for me it's because my family has never been that close so we don't share our inner thoughts, feelings, and stuff like that to each other.
It's like how we don't hug each other or say "i love you mum/dad".
I find it harder to "sorry" though.
#17
Posted 09 August 2008 - 08:31 PM
#18
Posted 09 August 2008 - 08:41 PM
i get mad when people dont say it when youre suppose to..
sometimes i say it at the wrong times or like when im suppose to say ur welcomei say thank you by accident lol
#20
Posted 09 August 2008 - 10:38 PM
I was thankful, but I felt awkward/shy saying it for some weird reason.
Now I almost always say it if I want/need to.
I think I started saying it more & more when I actually heard a few people [my mom especially] saying that I wasn't thankful & it hurt/annoyed them..






























