[RiderKamen]

Do you have a problem in being too open? Too honest?
Does your intentions in your words become the opposite?
Do you have stories about your mishaps in being blunt?



Honestly, I believe I do.
I just got a realization right now that I have always said the wrong things at the wrong time.
Personally I think it comes from people being blunt to me and wanting me to get straight to the point (in other words mean).
Since I've been dealing with that, I developed a retaliation method and it has made people eyes pop like this lol .
Being too blunt, straight to the point, and etc. has become a bad habit over and its definitely evident when I type on the computer lol.
Sometimes I can be joking about something real and since I'm so direct that it becomes mean, obnoxious, or unappropiate.

[belle_kd1413]

Sometimes.
Like i say something i don't think is RUDE and they go like (o_0).
and i'm like "HAHAHAHAhaha..ha..HUH?"
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[KAITOU KID.]

I don't think I am.

I think if anything, I may beat around the bush around to much (in general). But if it has to be said, I suppose I'll say it. But I don't think I'm overly too blunt or anything :X

[tofu plushie]

Sometimes I can, but only with close friends and family because they can take it and dish it back.

[mintcracker]

yah, and being a girl, that's a bad thing right?

Some ppl prefer girls to giggle and stuff, not speak their minds o_O

I'm trying to keep it more under wraps lol

[bea555]

I'll be honest if the person ask for my opinion, however I try not to come off as mean or harsh. If it's a person who I know won't get offended , I'll just go right out and say what I feel. Some people are more sensitive than others, and I try to respect that.

[charzzy]

I TRY to be honest at times...... Even if it means being blunt.. Sorry, I'm just trying to voice out my thoughts..
However sometimes I might just keep quiet about certain stuff if I know its gonna hurt one really bad. :x

[-aimeex]

I don't think so. Maybe I'm blunt every now and then really depending on my mood or how the person is treating me I guess?
If my friend wore an outfit that didn't look all that nice on her, I'd just be like 'Yea that looks nice, but that other one looks better on you.'.

[Courtknee]

I sometimes get a little too honest and people go 'Wth... O.o'
Sometimes when I say something, and it's meant to be a joke,
some people take it seriously, and think I'm a... really mean person.

I think I say stuff... without thinking.
Like this one time, a guy was using a pickup line on me.
And he said 'I can't find my cell phone, would you mind calling it for me?'
and me without thinking, automatically said 'Uhm. Call it yourself? :|'
And he got... so hurt. :|

[tray songz!]

sometimes.
I don't eve realize when I do it though.
I see the look on the person's face and I'm like, " oh ummm.. "

[Terazu]

LOL. Im naturally blunt.

One of my friends say its the "zomg I cant believe she just said it" paired with OMG SHE DID! - HAHAHAHA!


XDDDD;;; and they've known me awhile so by now they're just like "yeah..we've just sorta come to expect it.."

im so blunt, but its usually paired with funny observations x commentary. =3. Being blunt is ok, but you hafta remember to think before you speak, especially if what you meant to not be an insult could be taken as such.

[Angelic_illusions]

I'm blunt every now and then, if not most of the time. That's why a lot of people think I'm mean but oh well. Some people go quiet at first when i say something and then they laugh because its so random but rude as well. I'm trying to be nicer but its not my fault i have a sharp tongue.

[lvff_]

yess im too blunt .___."

one time in class my friend was at the front of the room and i said to my other friend, omg she looks pregant/that top makes her look pregnant..along those lines because she's overweight and was wearing a babydoll top. it was a rude thing to say.

[Harbl]

Nope, but i won't tell people what they want to hear either. It must be mini cooper trying to get answers out of me.

[mkayimcherry]

Sometimes because I try to be honest.
I will be blunt when I need to be but I also think before I speak as well.

There is one friend in particular who I am ALWAYS blunt towards. Mostly because I tell him what he NEEDS to hear because he doesn't have much of a "backbone" in my opinion and he needs to be mentally stronger instead of complaining all the time and being depressed

I believe that no matter what your personal situation is, you are in charge of your own happiness.

[Antz]

kinda. haha. i learn to control my mouth sometimes though.
but i know even more blunt people o_o they are annoying at times =_=

[<3 Kim]

Yeah I'm blunt.
I mean, if a friend is going to ask me for an opinion on how she looks in an outfit or something, I wouldn't say she would look good for the sake of it, if she looks bad I would tell her that. I don't like lying and prefer to hear the truth from people too.

[Mandu]

Sometimes P:

Usually it happens when I don't even realize it. I hate sugarcoating things </3

[emma_fifth]

actually yeah. i'm quite bad at lying.
and also yeah, i'm not good at talking either, so sometimes the words i said doesn't match the things in my mind.
gaaahh!!!

[yooniceland]

yes. i'm too blunt.
my friends always want to hear what they want to hear,
but i never really say it. and honestly, they need to learn to deal with it.

but one friend really likes it because she says i always have an opinion on something and it's better to shop with me
since i'm so honest?