[sh1neweare]

i don't think there's a topic for this idea yet so feel free if you find a page with something like this on.

so how long was it before you and your bf/gf got physical? because mine was a little soon. 3 weeks i would say. and asking other people they said it was pretty soon. so i would just like to ask you guys how you guys think. and yes i was comfortable. okay by physical i don't mean make out sessions.b More of a third base kind of deal if you guys know what that is. Third base is i guess, sexually stimulating the other person.

i hope this is appropriate and if not please take it off.

thank you!

oops so okay i messed up on the poll - my bad. u guys can just post up how long

[honeylove]

Mm, we sorta fooled around after we got together. Like within the first week, but nothing too big. Then I had like a one year kinda thing to myself where I don't wanna do anything more until 1 year passes. But uhm, yeaaah, LOL. I would say about 6 months and a half. Not too bad.

[RawrRawr]

Let's see.
1 bf- never
2 bf - never
3 bf - 5 months
4 bf - 1 month
5 bf - 1 year
6 bf - 2 nights



It doesn't matter, whenever you are ready.
But if you play too hard too soon the guy might take it the wrong way.

[rachilde]

Hm...my currently boyfriend and I had sex with each other before we decided to see each other exclusively (become 'boyfriend-girlfriend'). But, from the point we showed interest in each other to having sex was three days--and that was only because I was involved in a bet where I wouldn't be able to have sex with anyone for a month; of course I lost, but I gave it a good fight haha. In fact, most of my friends have sex with a person before they start dating that person because dating is quite a strong commitment.

[sh1neweare]

hrmm okay thhhank you for your replies. yea i was just thinking is it a little soon? but it's over and yeah i was comfortable so it's a okay!

[hishari]

er...we moved pretty fast too. We had an unofficial period and an official period so I don't really know how to calculate everything, but hey, we're still together soo who cares what everyone else says!

[addicted2you]

Becoming physical = sex? or as in anything 2nd base and after?

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

With the current boyfriend, about 2 weeks after we started dating.

[Swtess]

Around 2-3 weeks. Pretty fast but who cares.
We're together for two years already

[honey.2kiss@hotmail.com]

around 2 months? started fooling around then.

[GOOMBA]

Haha, less than a month.

[eximius]

A month for my current relationship, give or take a few days. o_o;;

[predator]

Around four months or so for my relationship.

[vikkay]

i dont think it really matters.
its all on you guys, whatever pace you guys are going at.

[Chanellas]

WINNER RIGHT HERE!
It took me 2 whole years to put out. LOL my poor boyfriend
Together 16, did it when we were 18. Now we're both 20.
I agree, it doesn't matter as long as you both are ready and responsible. =]

But this thread is so intriguing.

EDIT/ Too fast? FOR ME? CHEH it was more like too slow!

[ddalgi]

to the topic starter:
can you also ask how old soompiers were when they first got physical?
cause this is something im debating with myself ><

and obviously from that ^, i havent had sex with him yet