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1st Gf, 1st Gift help

#1 User is offline   cheesedoodless 

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Posted 02 September 2008 - 08:09 AM

hey i've been going out with this girl for 3 weeks and things are great she's my 1st gf and im her 1st bf.
so we dont have any experience and we're both 18 lol.
anyways her birthday is coming up around october and idk what to get her.
i was thinking about going to the mall and get a couple ring with her.
i don't work so i dont have that much money to spend.
so is this a good idea gift for her birthday?
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Posted 02 September 2008 - 08:12 AM

first birthday with my gf, i gave her a certificate for all day at the spa (massage/facial)
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Posted 02 September 2008 - 08:16 AM

please go to this link for great gift ideas:

http://www.soompi.com/forums/index.php?sho...0&start=580
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Posted 02 September 2008 - 08:18 AM

^shes so mean isn't she...

get her what fits your budget.
i think couple rings are cute but it's kinda bleh if its gonna be like just "silver" unless its Tiffanys tongue.gif
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Posted 02 September 2008 - 08:20 AM

QUOTE (GO!zilla @ Sep 2 2008, 10:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^shes so mean isn't she...

get her what fits your budget.
i think couple rings are cute but it's kinda bleh if its gonna be like just "silver" unless its Tiffanys tongue.gif



well someone had to say it tongue2.gif
plus, thread will be closed involving gifts sooner or later~ happy.gif

i think you should wait on the couple rings idea though, it hasn't even been a month... or a 100 days or what not.


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Posted 02 September 2008 - 08:36 AM

I would get her a music box
...lol I want one too.
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#7 User is offline   [babii3Śchiink] ~♥ 

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Posted 02 September 2008 - 09:09 AM

a necklace .. maybe ..?
depending on your girlfrend.
if she is that type of person that can be into jewelry.
you should pay attention to what she says or talks about
there's usually some great "hint hints" in em
maybe. ?
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Posted 02 September 2008 - 09:20 AM

Since it has only been three weeks in, I'm not sure if getting promise jewelry would be a good idea, considering how special the meaning usually is. For me, at least, it was somewhat of a milestone to materialize our promises into the form of rings. I think since it is a birthday present for her, it should be something that focuses on, well, her. Perhaps the promise ring idea can be saved for an anniversary when the focus is on the relationship.
For gift ideas, as [babii3Śchiink] ~♥ said, look into what she tends to like. Some girls/guys prefer handmade things, while others like jewelry, etc.


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Posted 02 September 2008 - 09:24 AM

aww this is so cute, ur both each others' firsts. anyway, i think since its only been no more than a month, u should get her something simple and cute, like a cute stuffed animal and out to eat or something. =)
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Posted 02 September 2008 - 09:59 AM

i understand the need to give her something "special", but this has only been 3 weeks. i'd invest on jewelry after you know she's the right one. otherwise, just give her something that fits your budget. your first gift should set the standard of what you will spend later on. so don't go out extravagant (even though she's special), because if you can't keep it up, then you can be viewed as someone who became less interested in her.

so something that is of significance - start of a great relationship. i like music box idea. maybe you can say something like "as we grow together, we can fill this box with our special memories". mini cooper i'm' gonna steal my own idea tongue.gif

i would avoid promise rings before the first year. way too early.
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