[Linnsterr]

Lately a lot of my friends got abuse by their s/o & i have no clue on how to help them. So im asking you soompiers; especially the ladies

"What would you do if your s/o hits you? Would you leave them right away? or would you stay?"


& for the gentlemen

"Would you ever hit your girlfriend? OR Have you? if you did, why?


(Not hitting in a playful ways, its like hitting out of anger. )

[Sense91]

i never hit a girl period. yeah, there are times when they tick me off, i made gestures, but i never even thought of hitting one. my technique is ignoring them and trying to make them apologize muwahaha. i accidently smashed my friends finger between the table though. i felt so bad :[. i bet she wanted to bash my head open.

anyways if i was a girl i would really think about being with that person. i believe in chivalry >;[

[rectitude*]

I would leave them if they lay a hand on me.
If you stay with them, you never know what he may do to you next.
Happened to my cousin, he slapped her once, she stayed with him,
he hit her multiple times afterwards, but she still stayed with him.
and now they're married, he's an abusive husband.

[rachilde]

I've been hit by a guy before. I grabbed the nearest thing at hand--a coffee tin--and hit him on the temple with it (we had both been on the bed), then I punched him in the jaw and stormed out of his house. The other guy slapped me because I didn't want him to come home with me. I got pissed so I pulled out my switchblade and told him to stop (it's amazing how intimidating a switchblade is, even though I'd never stab someone unless my life truly depended on it). He sort of ran away.

[EtherealEnigma]

^ I'd definitely not hit you.

Now to the topic poster
I don't hit people... but, I'll hit you in a playful way! I hit it and hit it good.

[lolololitslight]

WOOOOAHHHHH, Noo wayyyy. Thats like against the unwritten code. If the girl is wailing on ya, you just take it like a beast that you are. & I would never hit someone I adoree, ahh the thought gives me shivers.

[ggangpae_sarang]

dunno...

i always used to think that it'd be so easy to fight back. or at least get out of an abusive relationship.... but it really isn't.

like.. when i get asked a question like that the thought that automatically comes up is, " ;alksjf kill that motherfcker!!! i'd sock him in the jaw and kick him in the balls!!"

but i know that if i actually got hit by my bf that's not what would happen. hopefully i'd be able to acknowledge the fact that it is an abusive relationship and admit to myself that i deserve better and then leave him

[chifuni]

-Hit them back.
-Cry.
-Leave.

Actually, it really depends on the situation.

I've been hit by a guy before. I grabbed the nearest thing at hand--a coffee tin--and hit him on the temple with it (we had both been on the bed), then I punched him in the jaw and stormed out of his house. The other guy slapped me because I didn't want him to come home with me. I got pissed so I pulled out my switchblade and told him to stop (it's amazing how intimidating a switchblade is, even though I'd never stab someone unless my life truly depended on it). He sort of ran away.

DAMN, GIRL. I applaud you.

[Villian]

I've been hit by a guy before. I grabbed the nearest thing at hand--a coffee tin--and hit him on the temple with it (we had both been on the bed), then I punched him in the jaw and stormed out of his house. The other guy slapped me because I didn't want him to come home with me. I got pissed so I pulled out my switchblade and told him to stop (it's amazing how intimidating a switchblade is, even though I'd never stab someone unless my life truly depended on it). He sort of ran away.

there something about you that is just so sexy like fox from wanted

[Laxntiga]

I would never hit a girl. I am a man, if my girl does something stupid... I would try to sit and talk to her, try to get her to think about what she did, reason with her, argue with her, teach her.

Never... hit girls, its just not fair.


If I was the girl, I'd give 1 swift kick to the balls and be out of the relationship.

[ashtee]

I'd dump his sorry ass immediately. plain and simple. I don't take mini cooper from noone..

[Sleepy213]

I'm so innocent that I can never hit girls.
Whenever we play any kinds of game..and we kinda slap thier hands for punishment..
I can never do it..lol

I would never hit a girl in anyway.
ESPECIALLY someone I like/love =(.
I guess you can call me nonviolence person.
if it comes to like murdering or abusing any of my close friends or family.
Then thats when you gotta be the lion in the jungle.

[phanda]

my first thought to this question was...
i'd leave right then and there..

but then i thought about it..
if my bf ever hit me....it would take a while to really get to me
i might not even say anything and just let it go.
but of course be traumatized by it.

read DREAMLAND by Sarah Dessen. it really gives some description on it..really heartbreaking and scary!

[michilatte]

rachilde: goodness. . . i need to start convincing my parents to let me carry around a switchblade. XD

I’ve thrown a chair at a guy once, but I was young and ill-tempered, and he pissed me off.

I don’t really know what I’d do, due to all of those books I’ve read about abuse, and the fact that none of my S/Os have hit me seriously before. But if they did, I’d probably grab a lamp and beat him across the head with it.

[_ATELIER]

they don't deserve to be with me.
a real man doesn't hit a woman anyways.
who would settle for a wifebeater?
your friends would be crazy if they stayed in a relationship with an abuser.
i wouldn't let it get to the point where he'd use violence and if he did...
i make a nice phone call to the popos =_=

[rachilde]

rachilde: goodness. . . i need to start convincing my parents to let me carry around a switchblade. XD

My girl friend got a knife for her birthday a couple of years ago. She worked as a waitress at a bar then, and would have to walk home late at night all the time, so she found it really reassuring to have it in her purse. She got really good at flicking the blade open and she loved to show her knife off to people haha. She's never had to use it, as far as I know, but she loved it enough that she bought all her close girlfriends knives for Christmas. I got my boyfriend to teach me how to flick it open dramatically, but I really haven't had to use it except for in that one situation. It usually just sits in the bottom of my purse haha...it wasn't as cool as it reads--it took a while for me to dig it out.

[Carmen.]

I'd leave.

He shouldn't be hitting me and I sure as hell am not gonna stick around for more.

[cheerydumdum]

well, right now, i would say that i'd dump him cuz who knows wut he'll do in the future...but iono. there's the chance that i'd stay with him just cuz i love him too much and lie to myself about how he'll never do it again. but maybe i'll eventually convince myself that i really don't deserve someone like that. hopefully.

[hae mee]

I'd hit back.

Some 40-year-old man at a club pushed me because I told him to quit being a bi*ch when my friend blew him off and he was all butt hurt. Yeah, I pushed him back and he came at me again, but my friend's guy friend was there to stop him. Not saying that I'm extremely tough because I probably would have cried if he hit me because I have a low pain tolerance, but that doesn't mean that I wouldn't kick his butt through my tears haha

I would tell him it's over and leave. I don't need an explanation.

My boyfriend had me carry a knife he gave me for a while and showed me how to use it. I don't have it anymore, but I guess he made me this stick thingy made of metal to beat people with haha He also wants me to invest in a bat for my car so if I get attacked, I can get it and beat people with it haha

[ihigh]

i have never, and will never hit a girl, or my gf..for that matter..
unless we're messin around in the car. playfully=X

well for me its easy, cuz im really patient..and i can control my anger well even when im pissed the F*** off...
im more of a talking...type if im mad ill yell..but im rarely mad so you'll rarely hear me yell..
if i want to hit something, there's a punching bag... but never take your anger out on someone, esp your s/o...there's no reason to >_>
i just feel bad for the women in the world that have been abused=T makes me sad...

and personally i'd be scared to hit certain girls..i know a few that hit damn hard..and they got an advantage on guys =T...damn our weakness!