[ikay]

for the past few days, i've been denying the fact that i don't like this guy friend of mine as that.
we've recently become close because we have all the same classes and we'd have talks while we wait for our friends after class and even end up chatting..
it all started with random weird chats and talks then it became a little more serious..
and since i've never been taken care of by any guy (except my dad and my guy cousins), with him taking care of me, it's like all new to me..
and he'd say sweet stuff but i'm pretty sure he's just like that
he's been too good that i end up falling for him..
i'm sure i like him but why don't i get all tingly inside..?
i only smile when i see him but when i see his pictures, i don't get all tingly..
and i'm pretty sure i'm not trying to suppress it..
all the while i thought he's just like a brother since i don't get tingly but no..
and, he likes someone else, so i'm trying not to fall hard for him..
but i can't stop thinking about him.. if i try, he randomly pops into my head..
and he's been hurting me indirectly, like he doesn't know it, but he does..
how can i forget him? it seems like he's finally noticing that i sort of like him since he's been asking me q's that's like he's using reverse psychology towards me..
and i'm pretty sure he likes that someone so much..
please help, i'm going bonkers because of him..

[Mardi09]

If you don't feel tingly when you see him
then you don't really like him.
You're telling yourself you like him...
Trust me, I've done this before.
It's sort of like you're exaggerating that you like him...
It might be a little crush...
but honestly, I think it's nothing much.
When you think you like someone, and you tell yourself you like them...
and yet you don't feel all mushy and tingly inside...
chances are you're just thinking too much into this all...
but I don't know...I could be wrong...
good luck anywho!~

[songssiissii]

maybe you think u like him or u want to like him cuz u wanna like someone.
honestly i don't think u like him. when you get all tingly and stuff by just hearing his voice or his picture..thats when u like someone.
but .. *shrugs* i dont know

[addicted2you]

You don't need to feel tingly when you like someone. It just means your comfortable with them. I used to never get tingly when I saw my girlfriend, but after we broke up I get that "butterfly" feeling. You know, its not exactly a happy butterfly feeling but more like nervous.

But I'm sure I liked her.

[rectitude*]

^ I have to agree that you don't need to get that tingling feeling when you like someone.
Most of the time when you get that tingling feeling though, that's when you know you like them a lot.
But maybe you don't like him as much since you know he likes someone else,
or you just think you like him since he's different, I guess.
I have a guy friend now, too, I don't think I like him that much
because he's always talking to other girls, too.

[小甜密]

The best way to handle your situation is to tell him how you feel. You'll feel so much better afterwards, trust me on this. Keeping the feelings in will never do the trick. If he denys your feelings but still see you as a friend, please don't go bawling and not be his friend anymore. From the way you describe him, he seem like a decent friend. Just continue to be his friend. If you guys don't make it awkward, then everything will be fine.

[Sleepy213]

Maybe you just like the feelings when he protects you.
It's more of a friendship then a relationship sort of thing.
If you want to move on, keep yourself busy and try to
only see him as a friend. Nothing more.

[ikay]

thanks for all your replies, i appreciate it.. ^^
i plan on telling him on christmas break..
now's not the right time for it..
especially he's been going through a tough time these past few days.
and i don't wanna add to that.. > <;;
also, he's been asking me q's that's the most possible answer is telling him how i feel about him..
but i don't really think now's the time, so i guess on christmas break, i prolly will..
my friend suggested me to do that..
anyways, thanks a lot you guys.. ^^

[Villian]

stop beatin around the bushes

ask him out already

[L.FOR.LOVE]

maybe ou like the feeling of like " him " but you dont like " like like HIM "
if you get it o__"
confusing

[chipao]

um, if you want...

...do the talk with him so that you can settle things out already.

but i suggest, do it soon...so that it won't bother you (and maybe him too?) anymore.

good luck^^

[ikay]

thanks you guys again.. ^^
i really think i should go talk to him fast after he recovers..
cause lately..
i've been getting these weird dreams and i've asked him (he's the only one i know who can interpret dreams well) and my other friend about those dreams of mine..
and i've noticed, after they interpreted it, they're all connected, that i really need to tell him soon..
so yeah, i will after he recovers..
thanks..

[ikay]

hehe, a little update, i told him how i felt for him..
then i told him that i don't like him as much as before cause, really, that's the truth..
i just lost it when i realized i really don't have a chance at him..
so anyways..
today i saw him in school.. we didn't talk about the awkwardness that's quite inevitable last night but he said nothing's gonna change..
but when we, our group of friends, were talking, he can't even look at my direction or even in my eyes..
but i can at least, and talk to him casually..
i did my best to act normal, and my friends told me i did, except he didn't..
guess that can't really be avoided..
thanks again, you guys.. ^^