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The Act Of Forgiveness -- The Ability To Forgive is it really that simple? *Edit first page*

#1 User is offline   LuCky_Se7eN 

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Posted 05 September 2008 - 06:23 PM

This is a general question, it's not specified to me but
do you forgive people easily?
and if you do, do you wish you didn't
and vice versa?


EDIT----
Let's keep this interesting --

Does the act of forgiveness have. if any, surge of revenge in it?
If you forgive easy, is it because you know deep down
you already have a plan to hurt that person that has hurt you?
can you simple forgive and forget (or not let if cross your mind)


--because i believe in karma, that if a person hurts me, they should get it back.
but after a few months ago, i went through a lot and i wouldn't want
anybody to go through what i went through, even those people
who put me in that state to begin with.
with me, i don't forgive people easily
which makes it easier for me to not plan a revenge,
inside my mind, in a way, i know who has hurt me, is a little guilty
and that's all i need to know, to keep my head high.

so what do you think?
revenge in your forgiveness?
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#2 User is offline   rectitude* 

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Posted 05 September 2008 - 06:40 PM

For me, I only forgive people easily if they didn't really do anything to really hurt me.
It's hard for me to forgive people if they really hurt me
because I just think they don't deserve it.
Someone who was supposed to be my best friend betrayed me
and I said I forgive her, but deep down, I know I don't mean what I said
and she knows it, too. I actually remember her apologizing to me again and I just told her "Whatever." and walked away.
But there's no point of feeling guilty unless you did something wrong.
It's just me though, I can't forgive people too easily.

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Posted 05 September 2008 - 06:42 PM

No. The way i look at it, people have to work for forgiveness.
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Posted 05 September 2008 - 08:35 PM

QUOTE (Harbl @ Sep 5 2008, 09:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
No. The way i look at it, people have to work for forgiveness.


Trust is hard to gain and easy to break eh? Yeah I agree with you though, if the person really wanted me to forgive them than they wouldn't be trying to find an easy way out.
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Posted 05 September 2008 - 08:37 PM

it sucks because i cant help but forgive people

even when i REALLY REALLY DONT WANT TO
... i dont know, its just a pain to have to worry about being mad at someone.
i forgive and forget. but after that we're usually arent as close as we used to.

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Posted 05 September 2008 - 08:46 PM

really depends on the situation.
sometimes i might forgive but add a little revenge tongue.gif
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Posted 05 September 2008 - 08:46 PM

I can forgive sometimes, but I'll never see them the same way again.
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Posted 06 September 2008 - 01:00 AM

Forgiveness is like... eh, I don't know how to explain it, really.

I forgive, but I don't forget. EVER.
When someone betrays me, I never forget or treat the person the same again.
I don't let her try to regain her/his trust.
You broke it once, & I don't want you to break it again.
Once it's gone, it's gone.

PERIOD.
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Posted 06 September 2008 - 01:02 AM

QUOTE (귀여워! @ Sep 6 2008, 08:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Forgiveness is like... eh, I don't know how to explain it, really.

I forgive, but I don't forget. EVER.
When someone betrays me, I never forget or treat the person the same again.
I don't let her try to regain her/his trust.
You broke it once, & I don't want you to break it again.
Once it's gone, it's gone.

PERIOD.
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oh my i would hate to cheat on you
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Posted 06 September 2008 - 01:05 AM

QUOTE (Harbl @ Sep 5 2008, 07:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
No. The way i look at it, people have to work for forgiveness.


So suppose I trip you by accident, and I apologize. How would I go about working for your forgiveness, provided I care enough about you to want forgiveness?
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Posted 06 September 2008 - 01:08 AM

QUOTE (EtherealEnigma @ Sep 6 2008, 08:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So suppose I trip you by accident, and I apologize. How would I go about working for your forgiveness, provided I care enough about you to want forgiveness?


suppose i sleep with your girlfriend, would i have to work for your forgiveness?
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Posted 06 September 2008 - 01:21 AM

^ You probably wouldn't get the opportunity to. You'd be well... 6 feet under.
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Posted 06 September 2008 - 01:23 AM

QUOTE (EtherealEnigma @ Sep 6 2008, 08:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^ You probably wouldn't get the opportunity to. You'd be well... 6 feet under.


how would you know, you might be the one dirt napping
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Posted 06 September 2008 - 01:25 AM

^ Quite doubtful.... and 20 characters.
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Posted 06 September 2008 - 01:27 AM

QUOTE (EtherealEnigma @ Sep 6 2008, 08:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^ Quite doubtful.... and 20 characters.


either way im fast, im sure with my clothes off ill run even faster


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Posted 06 September 2008 - 01:29 AM

^ Speed has no use, when I'm holding a shot gun.
I love how all issues in the mundane American daily rituals can be solved with guns.
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Posted 06 September 2008 - 01:33 AM

QUOTE (EtherealEnigma @ Sep 6 2008, 08:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^ Speed has no use, when I'm holding a shot gun.
I love how all issues in the mundane American daily rituals can be solved with guns.


thats where your wrong, i was born equipped with a mini pistol

are you sure you up for it?
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Posted 06 September 2008 - 01:36 AM

QUOTE (Villian @ Sep 6 2008, 02:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
thats where your wrong, i was born equipped with a mini pistol

are you sure you up for it?


Oh how I'd love to make a sexual innuendo but, I'll pass for now. I can't get zbanned just yet.
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Posted 06 September 2008 - 01:37 AM

QUOTE (EtherealEnigma @ Sep 6 2008, 09:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh how I'd love to make a sexual innuendo but, I'll pass for now. I can't get zbanned just yet.


thats what i thought, better back off and walk away

*pull pants back up and tuck pistol away*
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Posted 06 September 2008 - 01:54 AM

No, especially not after if someone made me mad.
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