[可愛い]

do you? i do. its been 9 months. and i still think about him. but then i think of how much of a jerk he was and i start to feel vindicated.... until i think about him. and the sex. oh god the sex.

i cant even go out on a date w/o talking bout my ex. its like i look at my date & think "who the eff are u? why arent u my ex? why dont u look like him?"

i think about my ex a lot & the worse part is he texts me on weekends. wtf? i thought he already had a girl? why's he callin me?

but i refuse to take his calls, reply thru text, or messengers. i feel like burning an effigy of him just to get closure but then the fire alarm would go off & that would piss my roommate off.

the only sure thing in my life is my work & health. id die if i didnt have that. work & gym are such good distractions for a broken heart.

so my question is: do you miss your ex? why'd y'all break up? and most importantly, how do feel about yourself now?

discuss.

[Villian]

do you? i do. its been 9 months. and i still think about him. but then i think of how much of a jerk he was and i start to feel vindicated.... until i think about him. and the sex. oh god the sex.

i cant even go out on a date w/o talking bout my ex. its like i look at my date & think "who the eff are u? why arent u my ex? why dont u look like him?"

i think about my ex a lot & the worse part is he texts me on weekends. wtf? i thought he already had a girl? why's he callin me?

but i refuse to take his calls, reply thru text, or messengers. i feel like burning an effigy of him just to get closure but then the fire alarm would go off & that would piss my roommate off.

the only sure thing in my life is my work & health. id die if i didnt have that. work & gym are such good distractions for a broken heart.

so my question is: do you miss your ex? why'd y'all break up? and most importantly, how do feel about yourself now?

discuss.

oh my some how when you mention the sex part

it kinda turned me on

[可愛い]

oh my some how when you mention the sex part

it kinda turned me on

lmao. dude ur hilarious.

[aznshordy]

yes i terribly miss my ex
i haven't eaten a few days straight
and i still text/call/im/comment him the same as when we were going out.

it's AWFUL

[flyxme.]

no
he got on my nerves, horrible bf
or maybe i just expected too much
but im happy now :]

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

He left me for another girl, who used him for his money. She dumped him after Prom, after making him pay for everything.
I missed him for a year and a half, and god, he was cocky about it. He would go around telling his friends about how I was still so in love with him and that I called him all the time.
I found a new guy and got over it like it was nothing, and I couldn't be any happier.

[eximius]

I missed one of my exs for 2 years. I did horrible things to him and I hurt him a lot... the way he treated me was wonderful. No one had ever been so caring to me before, and I took that for granted. Some other guy started sweet talking me, and I thought it would be a mistake to keep seeing my ex... So I left him for this new guy who completely treated me like crap. We eventually broke up after almost a year... why I went through it for that long? Hell if I know.

I still missed him while with the guy I left him for. I missed his affection and how tenderly he treated me, totally antiasshole towards me. The pain I felt in the two years he and I've been apart was agonizing. The amount it sucked is beyond words.
We're together now, though... but the guilt and pain in those two years still hang around.

How do I feel about myself now?
I feel like a prick, still yet. Not so bad as before, but my mistake still haunts me.

[Fui]

I do miss one ex in particular. Only him though. I often wonder what he's doing this very moment.
Other than him, I don't miss any other ex'es of mine. I'm better off without them. I'm happy with whom I'm with at the moment.

[可愛い]

He left me for another girl, who used him for his money. She dumped him after Prom, after making him pay for everything.
I missed him for a year and a half, and god, he was cocky about it. He would go around telling his friends about how I was still so in love with him and that I called him all the time.
I found a new guy and got over it like it was nothing, and I couldn't be any happier.

i want your strength & pride. brava. u came out the winner in the end.

I missed one of my exs for 2 years. I did horrible things to him and I hurt him a lot... the way he treated me was wonderful. No one had ever been so caring to me before, and I took that for granted. Some other guy started sweet talking me, and I thought it would be a mistake to keep seeing my ex... So I left him for this new guy who completely treated me like crap. We eventually broke up after almost a year... why I went through it for that long? Hell if I know.

I still missed him while with the guy I left him for. I missed his affection and how tenderly he treated me, totally antiasshole towards me. The pain I felt in the two years he and I've been apart was agonizing. The amount it sucked is beyond words.
We're together now, though... but the guilt and pain in those two years still hang around.

How do I feel about myself now?
I feel like a prick, still yet. Not so bad as before, but my mistake still haunts me.

i freakin cried when i read this. because its so painfully true. i mean its like some days are ok and then other days its like everything reminds me of him. and its not like he was the most awesome bf. but he was very kind, very sweet, and tender to me. i miss that.

honestly i dont think id ever wanna fall in love again. its like so much energy & drama.

[nicorobin]

do you? i do. its been 9 months. and i still think about him. but then i think of how much of a jerk he was and i start to feel vindicated.... until i think about him. and the sex. oh god the sex.

so my question is: do you miss your ex? why'd y'all break up? and most importantly, how do feel about yourself now?

Oh same here. My ex was GREAT in the sack. He was also one of the sweetest, kindest, most honest guys I know. But, big fat BUT - he lacked the qualities to be (imo) a good husband and father - at least for me and my future kids. He was a great bf - that was it. However his family life was nonexistent (parents were not warm and welcoming, brother is estranged).

At any rate, we're still friends and even though on occasion I still want to jump his bones, I remind myself that there is no forseeable future with this guy, plus, I'm in a serious relationship with my current beau.

Sooooo ... my point is ... of course you will miss certain aspects of your ex or even your ex himself, but if you broke up with him for a reason, especially if it's a GOOD reason - remind yourself why you guys split in the first place because sometimes the good does not outweigh the bad.

[.Jooyy]

I miss my ex terribly = =
we broke up because he met this girl and told me that he likes that girl and stuff ._____.
right now, I have a boyfriend and I think I am pretty happy.
I really don't know if I still like my ex boyfriend or not ;-;

[Rocio08]

For the longest time I missed my ex, even after we'd been together a year and some change- I got a phone call at one in the morning from a drunk girl telling me to "leave him alone" and this and that, he apologized the next day. Come to find out.... he was seeing her, he got her pregnant... I left. It was hard because he was the only person I had trusted and Im extremely loyal. Its haaaard, but with enough time..... it starts to get easier

[Meenuh]

no i don't miss my ex at all. i do miss the money he borrowed from me though. i think the next time i actually get to see him ... my fist will want to meet his face.

[tinyvietpeach]

my first ex..he was my "first love," so after we broke up, i missed him a lot. we had a mutual break up...and then he said he wanted to get back together, but i felt like things never changed..they would change temporarily, but then it would go back to how it was. we just fought a lot. with him, it was like, when we were happy, we were HAPPY, really happy. but when we were mad, we were REALLY mad. we missed each other for a longgg time after that, like a year + we would still call/text each other...but i guess we kind of just accepted that we weren't right for each other. now when we talk, (it's been 3 years), we kind of laugh and realize that we've become too different for each other. i wish we were still good friends, but both of us have become too busy for each other.

then there's my second ex...broke up earlier this year....oh man. i do not miss him AT ALL. he broke up with me because he said "he didn't feel the same" about me and that was because i changed..i became an insecure person, blah blah..cuz we never used to fight until our mutual friend started to hang out with him A LOT. i told him i was uncomfortable about it (i have never complained about him hanging out with his female friends before), but he said i was trippin and being dumb. we break up and he starts dating her. -_____- and then he comes back to me telling me he thought he was over me, but he wasn't. so i stupidly take him back, and nothing has changed. he tells me like 2 months later he doesn't see a future for us, and we should be friends. i basically say eff you, i don't want to be friends, and i put an end to it once and for all. i spoke to him a few months later (like in june) and told him we should be civil...and we're civil now i guess, but i do not miss him at all because he was an indecisive person that always brought me down. even though he told me he loved me a few times, i never gave him my love because i never felt that he deserved it. now when i think about it, i don't think i really liked him that much, i liked the idea of a relationship.

i'm with someone else now, and he makes me happy. he's better than my ex in every way. better looking, sweeter, more well liked by my friends, spoils me instead of himself lol...i came up! hehe

[Incise Soul]

I miss my last ex. He was kind of my first love and you know how that goes. I'm almost afraid that I'll never fall in love with anyone else. I have guys who asked me out, but I just reject them. Not because I'm not over my ex. I just got couldn't picture myself with any of them. Maybe it was because I kept comparing them to my ex. They couldn't compare, not even a little bit, to him. It's been over a year and I STILL think about him. But of course I don't feel anymore pain or agony.. just sometimes I wonder how he's doing.. who he's with now.. etc. I guess he was more than just a boyfriend to me.. he was my best friend. Someone who knew I was sad even by just talking to me on AIM. Someone who I couldn't get tired of. But I think we've both changed; things could never be the same again. That we both knew. Sometimes no matter how much you love and care for someone, you just have to learn to let go. Let them be happy with someone else.

[Apple.Mint]

I miss my ex a lot.

We broke up about two months ago and everyday seeing him is a pain. [the sex part got me laughing a bit xD] yeah i missed the sex too . We had to part because...he didn't felt like we were good together anymore and omg i think i'm so unhealthy right now. I'm naturally a happy person but with him around, i become like...not me. It's uncomfortable, sad, depressing, and I can't seem to focus Lol. If i could, I would transfer school T.T

[heheimawesome]

Your picture. Nice Boobs. =)

HAAHAHAHAH dont call me a pervert, you put it up! HAHHAHA

[lilobaybee]

My first ex was what i believed to be my first love. This was like 6 to 7 years ago He was always there for me. There were plenty of girls who wanted him too. The other girls would always try to pick a fight with me. And there was my ex to back me up and tell them girls to back off cause he don't like them or don't want to be with them. My ex loved me very much. And i did too. There were many memories, but sadly we broke it off because of my parents. I guess our love was not strong enough and it lasted a year or so.. I still missed him very much until i met someone else who became the one that i wanted to spend my life with. The feelings started to fade three years ago and then two years ago was the year that he passed away. I don't love or miss him anymore, but he will always be remember.

[seryberry]

my ex was the biggest j@ckass. he still tries to get at me, even though he has a gf. ugh.

[LOVE&FREEDOM_beautyofX]

um all my exes hate(?) me.. ive always been the one to dump.. so yeah and my current one, im happier than ever... if youre that into sex, go get a one nighter maybe itll ease the pain?? you should move on, really. i think that most relationships that break up are broken up for good.. gluck girly!