[jasontransays]

Just yesterday I was out with a friend and when we sat down. He told me to turn around. When I did I saw this girl. I have to admit she was cute and from the looks of her personality, it was outgoing and warm. Anyways my friend told me to go talk to her and I did and was able to get her number. The day after I wanted to call her, but for some odd reason I thought to myself for a bit and I didn't feel the need to call her anymore. I'm not asking for help or anything, I just needed to get this down in writing or something. Anyways getting back to the point. I have found that I have lost trust for girls. Not enough to completely stop talking to girls, but enough to make me want to stay away from relationships. The reason why is because about a month and a half to two months ago, I did have a girlfriend. Everything was going great, I was super happy to have met her. She would say things that would just make me melt like, " I can't get enough of the way you stare back at me...". Then I introduce her to my best friend and BAM He likes her in two days and kisses her behind my back. I'm pretty much over it, but the fact that she made me feel like no other and then suddenly " boy hopping". Sorry for the long read. I have so many things going in my family and it's just overwhelming. This actually made me feel better =]. Thanks for reading.

[eximius]

Ooookaaaaay?

[blissfulmoments.]

woah your story sucks. dont worry you'll find that trust once again.

[ShadowMax76]

check up Eminem's song "Spend Some Time"

_ as long as you're still laughing the days away man.

you can still stick friends with the chick ya know. o_O'

[L.FOR.LOVE]

i think you'll find trust soon enough
a monthj or two isn't too long so yeah
maybe give it some time yeah (;

[palacequeen11]

Not all girls are the same you know?.. It was a bad experience but it's not fair that you've applied it to all girls..

[blueokami]

lol in that case, if your ex did that with ur friend, then you should have lost hope in guys and girls.
hm
that's pretty much everyone in the world.

That really sucks for you. Not everyone's like that =] they don't she doesn't deserve you, and that guy's just an ass.
You trust yourself not to do what they did yea? then there should be others that think that too.

Cheer up and goodluck =]

[danni3x_p]

awww cheer up, hate to be in ur shoes.

however not every girls the same,

you never noe this girl, you have the number of

could actually be different

give u faith to trust again =] ...or maybe u just need abit more time

[jN x3 sK]

just give it some time, it will come back to you. Just wait until you meet that one girl that is going to blow you away again.

[love_fate&destiny]

hmm...
i have a somewhat similar problem? like that too...with guys.
after reading all the wrong signs and confessing, and then getting rejected (sincerely), i don't think i could ever trust a guy if it seems like he's giving me signs. never ever again.

but maybe it'll build up again. don't worry, not all girls are like your ex. >.<
she makes us girls look bad. :/

[Gofishus]

Just yesterday I was out with a friend and when we sat down. He told me to turn around. When I did I saw this girl. I have to admit she was cute and from the looks of her personality, it was outgoing and warm. Anyways my friend told me to go talk to her and I did and was able to get her number. The day after I wanted to call her, but for some odd reason I thought to myself for a bit and I didn't feel the need to call her anymore. I'm not asking for help or anything, I just needed to get this down in writing or something. Anyways getting back to the point. I have found that I have lost trust for girls. Not enough to completely stop talking to girls, but enough to make me want to stay away from relationships. The reason why is because about a month and a half to two months ago, I did have a girlfriend. Everything was going great, I was super happy to have met her. She would say things that would just make me melt like, " I can't get enough of the way you stare back at me...". Then I introduce her to my best friend and BAM He likes her in two days and kisses her behind my back. I'm pretty much over it, but the fact that she made me feel like no other and then suddenly " boy hopping". Sorry for the long read. I have so many things going in my family and it's just overwhelming. This actually made me feel better =]. Thanks for reading.

Yup well people are like that in general. Thats why I don't trust people, they are unreliable and unforgiving.
Doesn't matter if its a guy or a girl, the fact that they are human means that they are weakened by emotions and conscience and those things
will cause trouble, because humans are flawed creatures just like any other creature. They give in to temptation, they deceive without knowing,
and in general you should never put too much faith inside a certain individual.

[yuwing]

Just yesterday I was out with a friend and when we sat down. He told me to turn around. When I did I saw this girl. I have to admit she was cute and from the looks of her personality, it was outgoing and warm. Anyways my friend told me to go talk to her and I did and was able to get her number. The day after I wanted to call her, but for some odd reason I thought to myself for a bit and I didn't feel the need to call her anymore. I'm not asking for help or anything, I just needed to get this down in writing or something. Anyways getting back to the point. I have found that I have lost trust for girls. Not enough to completely stop talking to girls, but enough to make me want to stay away from relationships. The reason why is because about a month and a half to two months ago, I did have a girlfriend. Everything was going great, I was super happy to have met her. She would say things that would just make me melt like, " I can't get enough of the way you stare back at me...". Then I introduce her to my best friend and BAM He likes her in two days and kisses her behind my back. I'm pretty much over it, but the fact that she made me feel like no other and then suddenly " boy hopping". Sorry for the long read. I have so many things going in my family and it's just overwhelming. This actually made me feel better =]. Thanks for reading.

Both genders are at fault here. Not only women. Good for you though, you learned something people rarely get to experience.

[demoipourvous]

Sorry to hear about what happened to you. I have to agree yuwing, both your best friend and your ex are at fault...not just your ex. What you're feeling right now is quite natural given what happened. *hugs* It'll pass in time.

[dontstopdamusiq]

guys are the same way. so u shouldn't feel like its only girls. anyways, soon u'll find someone that u can trust again. alot of people say "time will heal"-- but the truth is, time doesn't heal if u dont do jack about it. i think soon u'll get over it if u truly think about it and figure it out, or i hope u do.. or do u plan to be alone forever?

[colloquy]

Heyy at least you've only experienced it with one gender.... I've lost trust with people in general. D:

[damyoungji]

Heyy at least you've only experienced it with one gender.... I've lost trust with people in general. D:

You're not the only one.

My ex-best friends lied to me, and even stuck up for the biggest jerk I met in my life (he led me on for nine months).

I have been used by guys before, regardless of whether it was a crush or a relationship.

-____-"

[mishELLE]

...you remind me of my friend.
very cornball bordering lame.

[!L0VE]

so, what happened between you & your ex gf happened 1-2 months ago? it's normal to feel this way especially when you're still recovering from what she did to you. its her loss anyways. i'm sure there are plenty girls out there who are faithful. just keep in mind that it's not always rainbows&butterflies when it comes to relationships. soo cheer up & give that girl a call-that is, if you're ready.

[hirotoki]

a month or 2 aint that long
at least u guys didnt exchange vows yet.. lol wouldnt that be worse?
and ps. not all girls are like that

[` T O K Y O]

Whoa, the girl is such a player.
Well, it was your friend's fault too ...

But you shouldn't let just ONE girl ruin your thoughts about all the ones around you.
Not all the girls are like that, it just depends how lucky you are i guess.
They right girl will come, so give them a chance.