[Tenshi-Tenshi]

My bf and I have been with each other a while. I think I love him, this might sound kinda dumb, but it's in the air. like the feeling is different. I can just feel it. But other ppl are telling me that what i'm feeling isn't love. Then all these thoughts start drowning me, making me wonder if what i'm feeling is just attachment. How do u guys deal with these kind of things? Especially when you're the type that tends to listen to what others say too much.

[dontstopdamusiq]

i kno exactly what u mean, i get so influenced by what other say-- well my friends. but heres the thing, i dont think they are saying these things to hurt u they jus don't want to get infatuated and get all in the clouds and then have a huge fall u kno? i also think that if ur TRULY in love, then u wouldn't care what others say.

[Tenshi-Tenshi]

thanks...i know what u mean by how they just don't wanna see me get hurt...
so far i haven't been listening to them but there r times where i still think about it
and start questioning him.

[dontstopdamusiq]

only time will tell... jus give it more time =)

[predator]

I know what you mean too. A lot of my guy friends tell me that if they were me, they would've left my boyfriend a long time ago. Forget what they say. Cause their opinion doesn't really matter.

[angels.disguise]

just tell them to shut up lol.
don't let them tell you what you
are or aren't feeling

[ShadowMax76]

=.=' it's like the problem of people tryin' to pair you up with someone you liked.

not sure how to solve it without looking like a manic.

_ opinions mean nothing if you know the facts.
ya might do good to talk to him.

[heheimawesome]

Don't talk to people about it then. When they say "oh its not love. its just attachment" just change the topic.