[!Lei]

girls these days are brought up on a diet of feminist magazines, encouraging them to forfeit love/children for a career, encouraging them that serial monogamy is acceptable to them and that a life as a mum in suburbia is not what they want. By the time they realise that it actually IS what they want, it's often too late.

"I define a feminist as a self-empowering woman.."
Linda Chapman

I'm curious to know your opinions...Guys' opinions preferred, but girls' opinions are okay as long as you don't get defensive.

Would you prefer a traditional girl, or the "modern" one?
Does it intimidate guys, or does the idea of an "independent" woman appeal to them?

Sorry if this has been discussed already, I can't find the thread.
If this is in the wrong place, please feel free to move.

[KAITOU KID.]

You know, to be honest, I think I'd prefer the traditional one more.
That said, I have nothing against "modern" ones either, and am not really intimidated or anything.

I just think it's simpler the way it's been, without having to think of workarounds for who's gonna be looking after the kids while so&so etc.
Ehh.

I'm good with both in the end, lul.
But feminists =/= modern woman. Most of em take it way too far.
They spout on about being equal, yet still want guys to propose; bar fights being attacks against women, etcetc XDD

[ulat_bulu]

I'm good with both in the end, lul.
But feminists =/= modern woman. Most of em take it way too far.
They spout on about being equal, yet still want guys to propose; bar fights being attacks against women, etcetc XDD

LOL yeah that's what my mother and my father always fight about
I myself as a woman, doesn't understand that "why women always talk about being equal with men, yet they still want a compensation. Like... If a couple lives in a house, one day, the roof is broken. Women sure want men to repair it. Why? Women said that they are equal to men. But why?"

I want to ask that question with my mom, but I'm afraid that she would freak out

[!Lei]

You know, to be honest, I think I'd prefer the traditional one more.
That said, I have nothing against "modern" ones either, and am not really intimidated or anything.

I just think it's simpler the way it's been, without having to think of workarounds for who's gonna be looking after the kids while so&so etc.
Ehh.

I'm good with both in the end, lul.
But feminists =/= modern woman. Most of em take it way too far.
They spout on about being equal, yet still want guys to propose; bar fights being attacks against women, etcetc XDD

That's why I put quotation marks on the word "modern".
And yes, it was simpler, the way it was in the past.
But I've heard some guys actually prefer girls to be independent like that...or liberated like that. Some think it's a major turn on, BUT-
In the end, most of them are too shy to approach them rofl.

LOL yeah that's what my mother and my father always fight about
I myself as a woman, doesn't understand that "why women always talk about being equal with men, yet they still want a compensation. Like... If a couple lives in a house, one day, the roof is broken. Women sure want men to repair it. Why? Women said that they are equal to men. But why?"

I want to ask that question with my mom, but I'm afraid that she would freak out

Yeah... The law used to be less harsh with women, like lesser punishment, and women actually want equal rights with that?
They should take advantage of that

[LK.]

Power to the woman !!

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[mr. lovely]

(kinda offtopic)

you know that "if a guy hits you" thread?
yeah. girls can hit guys. but guys can't hit girls.
yet, girls and guys should be equal.

i totally understand.