[t_zzack]

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Sooo, I'm <3 wif this guy, and I can't help but spying out him.
At times I even follow him to his house, and once I'm there I look through every possible window
in hope I could see him in ...uhm ...u know whatta mean ryt

And at school....whenever he's talking to a girl, I feel like EXPlODING!!!
Everytime I'd like to punch in the girls face!!!
I hate it! I can't take it!

Everytime he's out of class (break time or whatever) I stay in the class room and churn in his bag in order to find something which corfirms that he likes ME and not the other girls...............




What do you think??
It is normal or not?


I'm so confused, please help!

[donporkuloin]

That's unhealthy. Talk to the guy at school instead of going to his house. Yes.. you're in stalker mode.

[ibooyou]

Yes... I do believe that's considered stalking. You're quite obsessed with this guy which I'm not sure is quite healthy. And I think that if he finds out you're doing all this, then he'll probably be incredibly creeped out.

[`Star]

I think you may just be crushing..on a higher level. (close to stalking ><; )

One of my best friends is crushing on a guy in class
and she talks about him all the time. She's kind of like you.
She notices when he talks about girls or sees him laughing with
a girl and she gets kind of worked up. She gets really red whenever
he comes by and says 'hey, how are u' but i notice its cause he's just flirty.
Hence, he says it to almost every girl. So..

Though... I don't know! Sometimes I feel she shouldn't be
doing so/feeling so because 1. she dosen't even know the guy
well enough (dosen't even talk with him or anything) so adsfa;lishegd.
But I can't say anything cause she's my friend (:

[t_zzack]

Yess, I know it's unhelahty.
But I just lose the control over myself infront of him.
It's like BAM!!
It's not that I'm feeling great doing this but it just happens! It's like...a habit!!



And it's getting even worse when he's with another girl.
I just can't bear it................

For example...on Tuesday:


Our teacher wanted to change the seating plan...he wanted it goin like 'boy-girl boy-girl boy-girl etc...
So every girl had to sit next to a boy.
We were allowed to choose our seating-partner.
And when I was about to ask him, there was another girl coming up.
And guess what...YES! She asked him...and YES, he said "YESS"!!

OMGfgnsdjkgnskdj I was so freaking angryyyyyy sheeeeeeeeeeeeeesh!!
And the fact that she KNEW that I like him makes me hating her even MORE!
I mean, it was my chance!!! And then..aaaaaaaaaaahggghhhh

[eximius]

You followed him to his house and looked through his windows... how is that NOT stalker-like?

And God FORBID a girl even speak to him! -___-

No. It's not normal. You're an obsessed fangirl.

[PoooBear]

Yeah that's pretty stalker-ish. But talk to the guy! how is ever gonna like you if he doesn't even know you!

[sushiwhore]

" class room and churn in his bag in order to find something which corfirms that he likes ME and not the other girls..............."

wth?



O_O you go through his stuff? and you go to his house O_O how is that not creepy evenif you do fianlly get to actually talk to him omg what would he think of yoreu actions

o_o omg youre 17... i thought you were 11

[crayon851]

Wow so you think this guy is going to be a jerk and say no? Guys aren't as rude and cold blooded as most girls are by the way.

Example,

If a guy asks a girl for her number or asks her to dance at a club, more often than not the guy gets rejected.

If a girl does this to a guy, the guy gladly hands over the number (most of the time) and wouldn't reject the dance.

Why this happens? Who knows.

Now are you actually dating him or "dating" him ? As in you like him and therefore consider him your boyfriend.

[sushiwhore]

^ i think from what shes saying he doesn't know of her exsistance atm....

o_o

[mandi3licious]

Please just talk to him like a normal person. O_O

If you keep this up you'll just be wasting your life. You will look back and regret spending so much time and energy on this dude you barely seem to know.

[t_zzack]

It's not like he doesn't know me.

We sometimes talk to eachother.....okay, let's say we barely talk to eachother.

but he's always with his friends, and that's why I haven't got the courage to talk to him then.



And in class it's like impossible. He sitting on the other end of the classroom.
If I just could sit next to him,....but NO, the girl already asked him!! argh, thinking of it makes me so pissed

[eximius]

Everytime you post some new information, you're seeming worse and worse. >_>

[DAJUNG.]

You need a restraining order.

Sorry, but it's the truth. What kind of person stalks their crush at his house and goes through his personal belongings?! If the situation was reversed and he was doing the things you're doing right now, would you not want him to stay the hell away from you? If you want him to notice you, stick to conversations like normal people. And expecting him to run away shrieking from every girl who approaches him is completely unreasonable. Unless you have a thing for eunuchs.

[crayon851]

You can't be serious...it's like a situation that you see in the movies. I'm starting to think this is a big joke and you're just gauging everyone's opinions and suggestions.

Anyway, just so there is no misunderstanding. I was saying that the guy wouldn't say no to a girl who's just asking to sit next to him. He's probably just being polite. There is also nothing implied by sitting next to him since the teacher wanted it to be boy girl etc.

All you have to do is just "accidentally" bump into him some place and you can start from there. For example, running into him knocking his drink and then offering to buy him another drink. Or you bump into him and try to get him to take you out for a drink. Remember, if you have a drink run into him, but make it seem like it's his fault.

This could actually end up quite well for you. A lot of 'good' relationships happen upon chance meetings.

[lovemelody.]

At times I even follow him to his house, and once I'm there I look through every possible window


Everytime he's out of class (break time or whatever) I stay in the class room and churn in his bag in order to find something which corfirms that he likes ME and not the other girls...............

that, is creepy.



you're 17????
you sound like a 13 year old.

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

You want to know the cold, hard truth? Yes, you are a stalker.

[t_zzack]

Yeah, I'm sorry, but I'm just goin crazy everytime I'm think about that!! ...and again!!

But it's just like that!
Well, he's always talking to other girls......and when I see that, I become a bull!!
It's like someone's stabbing me in my heart!
It hurts seeing that!!

But I can pretty understand that, I mean...he's liked by sooo many girls, he's like a heart breaker!
He's nice to everyone, he's good looking...ahh..


I'm gonna post up a pic of him tomorrow.

[cal023]

yes. you are a stalker.

why not try to talk to him?

if this continues, you really need help. sorry but it's the truth.

[Villian]

that is normal, dont worry about it