[xsmileforme]

So i like this guy, who just happens to be the friend of a guy friend. The thing is, things are really awkward between my guy friend & i because i suspect that he feels more for me than he should.

the thing is, i avoid approaching them altogether because it just becomes awkward with the two of them together. i can tell that they're really close friends, but then they also seem sso different.

so my question is, is there a way to test the waters, to see if the guy might be genuinely interested, before getting to know him? i mean, do guys usually like the same type of girl?

i just don't want to plunge too fast into it because one wrong move can make it all go wrong..

[CKalvin]

So i like this guy, who just happens to be the friend of a guy friend. The thing is, things are really awkward between my guy friend & i because i suspect that he feels more for me than he should.

the thing is, i avoid approaching them altogether because it just becomes awkward with the two of them together. i can tell that they're really close friends, but then they also seem sso different.

so my question is, is there a way to test the waters, to see if the guy might be genuinely interested, before getting to know him? i mean, do guys usually like the same type of girl?

i just don't want to plunge too fast into it because one wrong move can make it all go wrong..

wow. this is not a good situation to be in, thats fo sho.

first things first, get the guy that you think likes you cleared up. If somehow you find out that he does like you definitely, then jst take a step back. Chasing his mate will only infuriate him.

"do guys usually like the same type of girl?"

wth is that asking?

[Deafz]

I'm telling you from experience, this isn't looking good. If your friend does like you, it's likely his friend won't. I could be wrong.
One option would be, tell your friend you like his friend. Ask him to get you guys together.
This way, he knows that you like his friend, which should make him back down. Also, you might get to know that other guy better since your friend can help you.

[heaven_chang_girl]

yeah..i had the same problem..like right now..that is happening..except the the "just friend" guy knows that his friend likes me
im just ignoring it..because i am more of a careless person..and i dont want to deal with anything..so i just go on with whatever

[angeliquelle]

You're in a really tricky situation
His friend is likely to back off your guy friend already likes you
I doubt many friends would mess up a friendship over a girl, even if he does already like you

i think your best bet if to politely put if out there that you're not interested in your guy friend that way
then his friend might have a chance

[xsmileforme]

"do guys usually like the same type of girl?"

wth is that asking?

oh, i meant guys who are friends. i mean, i've heard of girls liking the same guy as their friends do. but does that apply to guys?

thanks, everyone. i knew this was a tricky situation. just needed some opinions.

[sokky]

It will kick you in the back one day, sort things out as soon as you can, cant just let things go, friendship will be strained either way.