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Am I Overreacting? Exbf asking for present back years later ...
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Posted 15 September 2008 - 09:49 AM
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Posted 15 September 2008 - 09:55 AM
Your ex bf needs to get a damn life... and get a damn better gift than a re-gift for his new gf.
That's' pretty pathetic don't you think? You can either tell him your threw it out (if you had already did) or just hand it to him (if you find it).
There's no point of keeping a gift like that, too much clutter in your room.
Sure it may be sentimental, but.. would you keep something like that for 20 years???
Don't sweat over ex-bf drama. not worth it.
That's' pretty pathetic don't you think? You can either tell him your threw it out (if you had already did) or just hand it to him (if you find it).
There's no point of keeping a gift like that, too much clutter in your room.
Sure it may be sentimental, but.. would you keep something like that for 20 years???
Don't sweat over ex-bf drama. not worth it.
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Posted 15 September 2008 - 10:02 AM
You arnt overreacting. As a guy, all the gifts that I gave to my exs, i knew either they threw it out or kept it after our relationship ended. But I wont expect to get it back nor would I have the guts to ask for the gift back unless she wants to get rid of it and give it to me. Even then if she give it back to me, I wont gift it someone else. It is one of those unwritten rules where your not suppose to regift a gift that was given to you. Cus the thought behind is very selfish and cheap and other bad traits that others might look down on you for.
All in all, hes an john teshing retard. >_> Seems to me he has yet to mature and learn how the world works.
All in all, hes an john teshing retard. >_> Seems to me he has yet to mature and learn how the world works.
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Posted 15 September 2008 - 10:33 AM
cant he just get a new badge instead of recycling this one?
what would his current gf think " gee thanks i can'tbelive you dropped it off with yroeu ex of 5 years a few years back and now its mine yay!!!"
o_o she'd probably be pissed
what would his current gf think " gee thanks i can'tbelive you dropped it off with yroeu ex of 5 years a few years back and now its mine yay!!!"
o_o she'd probably be pissed
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Posted 15 September 2008 - 10:45 AM
Yeahhh, if I was his girlfriend, I wouldn't want a gift that he gave to his ex-gf. Wtf is he thinking? It feels like a freakin' hand-me-down or something.
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Posted 15 September 2008 - 02:09 PM
well i don't think his current gf will know that he gave it to u previously.
but i think it's weird that he's asking back for it now..
if u threw it out just say it didn't mean anything to u after u guys broke up so u threw it out but if u found it .. then just give it back lol
but i think it's weird that he's asking back for it now..
if u threw it out just say it didn't mean anything to u after u guys broke up so u threw it out but if u found it .. then just give it back lol
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Posted 15 September 2008 - 03:48 PM
No, you are not overreacting, your exbf sounds like an idiot >.< Anyway, if you find the badge just give it back to him or don't bother even looking for it and tell him you already threw it out awhile ago. I don't even know why he would want it back, lol.
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Posted 15 September 2008 - 05:54 PM
his messing with your mind try to control and effect your mental state. shouldnt worry about people like that its like fly brush them off but they still come back you need a squatter or a fly spray to get rid of them, in human term i think its just ur attitude should confront yourself and tell yourself that you will no longer worry about anyone but yourself, thats all you should care about. you come first.
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Posted 15 September 2008 - 07:49 PM
oh my gawd. guys are extremely immature 
yeah, dont bother looking for it and just tell him you threw it out. hes not even worth ur time if he's going to be such a baby about it
yeah, dont bother looking for it and just tell him you threw it out. hes not even worth ur time if he's going to be such a baby about it
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Posted 15 September 2008 - 08:49 PM
that is just soooo random and O_o that he asks for a present back from 5 years ago .. lol.....?
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Posted 15 September 2008 - 08:56 PM
you should carve on the inside of the jacket with your name or something if you find it...so then when he gives it to her, she'll know > > and you left a little mark heh.
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Posted 15 September 2008 - 09:05 PM
just let it go- look for it & when you find it, return it to him. if you can't find it, let him know that it's been so long
since you've even thought about his present & you honestly have no clue where it is. the way he acted is annoying
& i'm sure it hurts your pride to know that your ex-boyfriend thinks you're jealous (i would feel the same!)
but he doesn't mean that much to you now so you should just let it go & not think much of the situation. (:
since you've even thought about his present & you honestly have no clue where it is. the way he acted is annoying
& i'm sure it hurts your pride to know that your ex-boyfriend thinks you're jealous (i would feel the same!)
but he doesn't mean that much to you now so you should just let it go & not think much of the situation. (:
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Posted 15 September 2008 - 09:10 PM
QUOTE (nubbie @ Sep 16 2008, 11:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
oh my gawd. guys are extremely immature yeah, dont bother looking for it and just tell him you threw it out. hes not even worth ur time if he's going to be such a baby about it
yeah, dont bother looking for it and just tell him you threw it out. hes not even worth ur time if he's going to be such a baby about itthat wuz a pretty bold statement ...
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Posted 15 September 2008 - 11:54 PM
pretti lame of ur ex to do that
pretti petty n immature
if u have no probvs givin it bak
just give it bak..
he prob wants to get some sort of reaction out of u
dont give him the satisfaction
pretti petty n immature
if u have no probvs givin it bak
just give it bak..
he prob wants to get some sort of reaction out of u
dont give him the satisfaction
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Posted 16 September 2008 - 12:09 AM
He sounds like an ass. Just give him the badge back to shut him up.
I know it's yours, but I can bet you have no real interest in the badge.
I mean, what would a girl find so interesting about an NYPD badge, lol?
But seriously, just give his piece of crap badge back. =)
Means less memories of that ass in your house. <3
I know it's yours, but I can bet you have no real interest in the badge.
I mean, what would a girl find so interesting about an NYPD badge, lol?
But seriously, just give his piece of crap badge back. =)
Means less memories of that ass in your house. <3
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