[mimii]

edit: hi guys! i'm so happppyy! i fouund out who my bus boy is. harr he's a freshman like me.
anddd he's in my one of class. shows how much i pay attention in class

There's this asian guy that takes the same bus as I do. I saw him about like two weeks ago because I started taking the bus, since parking is such a hassle cause of limited space. I usually take the same bus with him going to the downtown area. About a week ago, I've sat across from him and I guess I was kind of staring at him...but not really. When he looked up, I kept the eye-contact then looked somewhere else and I caught him smiling. he gets off two bus stops before me and I guess he transfers to another bus.

Last week I took the same bus with him again, and I sat on the back. He was looking for a seat and I was not staring at him, but he looked at me and kind of smiled. When he was getting off the bus, I had this urge to just like... get off and see where he's going. Sounds stalker-ish right?!

I have never seen him around campus. I have a slight crush on him but I don't know how to approach him without feeling too stalkerish. Even today, I took a different bus and I didn't ride the same bus with him.
He was at the bus stop, sitting and eating a sandwich, (he looked so cute) anyways! The bus windows aren't tinted, but I swear I saw him staring at me because I was sitting next to the window .

How do I approach the guy without freaking him out? I mean he looks like a real nice guy, and I want to be friends with him

Don't know if it made any sense or whatever >_<

[versep]

drop a book for him to pick up...
opened to the page with a note inside it
reading "lets go get BUBBLETEA " hahahaha

i dunno ==

he probably wont be freaked out if you just start
greeting him regularly (since u 2 see each other often)

[mimii]

drop a book for him to pick up...
opened to the page with a note inside it
reading "lets go get BUBBLETEA " hahahaha

i dunno ==

he probably wont be freaked out if you just start
greeting him regularly (since u 2 see each other often)

LMAO! That's such a good idea. Hahaha, I think he's part of the reason that I keep taking the bus when I can bring my car x_x

But... what if he has a girlfrieend ? I would like to "holla" at him.

[versep]

LMAO! That's such a good idea. Hahaha, I think he's part of the reason that I keep taking the bus when I can bring my car x_x

But... what if he has a girlfrieend ? I would like to "holla" at him.

hahaha is it? lol

anyways.

ive learned that having a crush on someone doesnt
necessarily mean that he/she is girl/boyfriend material
for you. getting to know him/her is the first step, and you
will either find yourself falling through the cliff of "love" or
turn to the "just friends" side of the spectrum.

start greeting him, and if he greets back, maybe he will
approach you and you can bring up a little get-together,
maybe for a quick drink between classes... or do lunch.
start light and... cross your fingers when you pop the
question if you're still interested. lol. i dont think hes
the first-move type... otherwise he shouldve talked to you
already...

[eigengrau.]

LOL AW, this is so cute <3

Welll, he smiles at you, so why not smile back?

Bring your courage out and sit next to him! Or across again, LOL.
Maybe see if he's like.. listening to his iPod or reading a book and strike
a conversation about the song on his iPod.. or something, AHHAAH <3.

Good luck~ ;D

[bumpngrind]

Sit next to him one day.

If a girl did that to me I would feel like "oh wow all right well this will probably go somewhere".

Trust me, guys like it when you make the first move. It takes the pressure off them.

[versep]

Sit next to him one day.

If a girl did that to me I would feel like "oh wow all right well this will probably go somewhere".

Trust me, guys like it when you make the first move. It takes the pressure off them.

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[mimii]

You guys make it sound so easy.

I'll give it a shot next time. Maybe drink like a frap first so I can get hyper.

It's scary thoughh T___T I can't even smile back or look at him in the eye when he's looking.

I get that shy. Blehh

When I take the bus with him again, or I see him around campus.

...I'll make sure to say hi to him and SMILE

[WildSevenGirl]

I agree with everyone up there. xD A smile or a wave really can't hurt. xD
Or when you guys are still waiting for the bus you could be like, "D< omg. It's late. D: Do you know when the next bus comes?"

g'luck.

[versep]

You guys make it sound so easy.

I'll give it a shot next time. Maybe drink like a frap first so I can get hyper.

It's scary thoughh T___T I can't even smile back or look at him in the eye when he's looking.

I get that shy. Blehh

When I take the bus with him again, or I see him around campus.

...I'll make sure to say hi to him and SMILE

dont be hyper.
hyper girls creep some guys out.
keep it light at first...
light and easy, dont make
the guy feel like ur blowing
it in his face already

[mimii]

dont be hyper.
hyper girls creep some guys out.
keep it light at first...
light and easy, dont make
the guy feel like ur blowing
it in his face already

Haha. you're right.

It's just I have never been the type to approach guys.

Keep it light and easy, I'll take that in mindd .

it is okay to stutter a bit right? hahaha

[versep]

Haha. you're right.

It's just I have never been the type to approach guys.

Keep it light and easy, I'll take that in mindd .

it is okay to stutter a bit right? hahaha

stutter can possibly be a hint
to the guy that you are shy and
is interested in him... for me at least.
but ive had that discussion with friends
and stuttering is cute, just not when its
constantly happening even after
both of you have opened up to eachother.

lol.

[cheerydumdum]

awww how cute. you're lucky that he smiles at you! this cute guy i see on the bus makes it seem like i dont exist.

anyways, sorry...i don't have much advice that other people didn't already say. hmm. you can probably ask him "excuse me. do you happen to know wut time it is? *smile* thank you. " then he'll think you're a pretty nice girl too!

[xLionHeartx]

Dammit, I was hoping this was going to be some cute story about the bus driver.

[e00z]

easiest way to do it if you don't want to straight up introduce yourself out of the blue is by asking a question

for example..when you're sitting next to him, get a piece of paper out to take some notes or something and pretend you don't have a pencil and ask him for one haha. that's an easy one. then thank him and introduce yourself. you can build up your relationship from there

or

if you're ballsy enough, just be like 'is there something on my face, because i've caught you staring at me the last few times i've seen you on this bus'

[mimii]

Dammit, I was hoping this was going to be some cute story about the bus driver.

Eww. From where I lived the bus drivers are OLD . I mean I like old guys if their 2-5 years older.

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I think I'll keep all your advices and do it (:

Teehee. Or just bump into him "accidentally"

The paper without pen might work

[CitrusFlower]

Sit next to him one day.

If a girl did that to me I would feel like "oh wow all right well this will probably go somewhere".

Trust me, guys like it when you make the first move. It takes the pressure off them.

It's hard for the girl also since they have no idea if they feel the same and to save the embarrassment. I'm sure no one wants to make the first move when they don't do anything back.It make an automatic rejection, boy or girl.

I like the suggestion to sit by him. Thats the only way you can get to know him.

[kawaikiss]

Since you've "known" him for only like a couple of bus rides, you should wait a while..
If you approach him too quickly, then he might get freaked out or something.
Everytime you see him on the bus, you should smile at him when you guys have eye contact..
After a while, it'll get more comfortable seeing each other on the bus...and there's your chance!
Sit next to him one day and casually start a conversation.

Well..this is what i would do...hahahah..

[abusegirl]

ah youth....making things much more difficult than it needs to be.

put it like this: he rejects you...will you die? no. move on.

nothing is anywhere near as hard as people make it. and you can't live your life with a fear of rejection or embarrassment because guess what....there's a mini cooperload of it heading your way. That kind of thing happens to people. take it with grace.

now....if you're a bit too shy to say anything...just get off earlier than him one day and on your way off, drop your number in his lap. hen get off and walk away. take your car from now on since you can. if he calls...good. if he doesn't...not meant to be.

[ixLoveXse7en]

aw... sounds like it should be a drama lol it so cute anyways back to the topic i argee with the first guy that posted about the bubble tea. Haha