[xsmileforme]

my friend asked me about this & i truthfully don't know:
guys, would you rather be rejected by the girl you ask to your senior prom? or would you rather go even if the girl is just a distant friend.
people do go as just friends, right? but if a girl accepts, does the guy automatically assume it's more than friends?

thanks for the help(:

[ShadowMax76]

i'd rather have a go and get rejected.

rather than not have a go. and never know.

_ but . that's all bark. -sigh-

[xsmileforme]

you misread.
i mean, would you rather be rejected or go with someone who considers you only as a friend.
i personally don't see anything wrong with going as friends. but do guys usually interpret going to homecoming as more than friends?

[ShadowMax76]

=.=' wth...
rejected AND not go? you mean?

[xsmileforme]

..i guess so.
so i assume you'd rather go with some girl.

[coffee]

i'm not sure what you're asking, but no, guys do not always automatically assume that it's more than friends. depends on the guy i guess. i don't think it should be assumed though.

[bubblemilk_tea]

i would just go as friends. anyway, if you go as friends, it'll probably be more fun since no pressure!(= AND at least you have a date!

[MaryMagdalin]

people usually go as friends
so if some guy asks me, I would assume its not b/c he`s interested.
sigh......... high school....... i actually never went to a homecoming all 4 years
although i got asked. stupid parents haha

[xsmileforme]

i would just go as friends. anyway, if you go as friends, it'll probably be more fun since no pressure!(= AND at least you have a date!

haha. i agree with you. can be so carefree!

[___a]

I don't think I'm going... haha. But if a friend asks me, I might consider it.

[OMGitzYOU]

talking about homecoming... x_X;;

I'm going to be taking a disaster class at American Red Cross :3 that day

[big332]

nothing wrong with going just as friends. i had an awesome time at my sr. prom and i haven't even talked to my date since :\

[xsmileforme]

nothing wrong with going just as friends. i had an awesome time at my sr. prom and i haven't even talked to my date since :\

but wasn't it awkward during the dance? like, not knowing them that well.

[big332]

it wasn't awkward at all. in fact, we only met 2-3 times ever before prom (we were hooked up by friends, i originally planned on asking two other girls but other guys got to them first -.-).

it helped that her best friend was my friends' date, but we had a fun time.

[xsmileforme]

aw that's cool. but you guys had no feeling's for each other, right?
because he likes me but i'm indifferent. & i'm just scared that's gonna prevent us from having a good time. it doesn't help that he's super shy.

[lilatlbabishorti]

well...i doubt my bf will ask me to come to his homecoming even though some of his friends were asking me if i am gonna go..but if im not asked its like going to a strange party ==

so im not going.....and its no surprise if he didnt ask anyway...*goes to her corner* *mumbles..* he never ask me to go anywhere......*uses her finger to draw on the floor* .-.

[小甜密]

As a friend is fun! haha
Just don't do the cliche thing at the end of the night. ahem!!

[smiile]

go with a friend you are close to and can have fun with.
just dont go with a guy your not comfortable with and have a awkward time.

[xsmileforme]

go with a friend you are close to and can have fun with.
just dont go with a guy your not comfortable with and have a awkward time.

that's the thing. he's a senior. so would it be better to reject him?

[brown eye smile]

just ask

who cares what he think

you worry to much

go live a little and enjoy homecoming

have fun!