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i know i DONT fxking OWN them its just how i EXPRESSED IT.
topic says it all.
every guy i practically liked.. she flirted with him.. and thinks its alright and shes taken.. and doesnt last very long in relationships.
THE HELL man. even my ex boyfriend told her he was gonna give up on me and didnt tell me first! and seriously.. i knew my ex boyfriend longer than she did.. >< besides.. he.. sticks with asian girls anyways.. thats just him.
anyways..
i dont want to be her friend anymore, but i just cant tell her because her parents are the nicest people in the world.. but her? shes like.. a total.. whxre. i swear. shes CHANGED SO MUCH within a year.
ALSO. she stole my other best friend`s boyfriend 3 times. and stole my OTHER good friend`s boyfriend who was older than her by 3 years? and my friend and him were together for a year. now she will only say hi to me if she wants too.. resulting me to ignore her..
(everybody practically hates her.. that i know of.. BUT they are friends with her because she has a lot of friends and called herself `popular`). I WANT TO tell her HOW much i hate her.. but she will turn people against me FOR SURE.
last year... i pissed her off.. and you know what she did? she practically flirted with my crush(oh, she knew.. because i thought i could trust her..) again she was taken. .. INFRONT OF me.. and one of my best friend`s.. and her reaction was furious. ><
I SERIOUSLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO...
tell her? or keep it inside me ><
and how can i frikin stop her from flirting with all the guys i like?! ( i think its kinda.. rude.. to flirt with someone else`s crush and they know it right infront of your face... anddd not be single either)
sry.. is this getting confusing.
thanks soompiers >< !
ALSO. she still considers me a friend, but i dont. ><.
another EDIT:
yeah, this morning.. i tripped my way going up the stairs.. and she stood and didnt bother helping me.. and laughed.. ><
maybe i should really break it off wit her.
Friend Changed, I Cant Stand What Shes Doing. EDITED TITLE. have fun. i dont care about harsh comments.
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Posted 21 September 2008 - 07:02 PM
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Posted 21 September 2008 - 07:11 PM
She must be extremely hot. Pics nao!
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Posted 21 September 2008 - 07:16 PM
QUOTE (aznxkaiser @ Sep 21 2008, 08:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
She must be extremely hot. Pics nao!
wow. you`re definately a big help >.>
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Posted 21 September 2008 - 07:25 PM
Dont tell anyone who you like. Instead, act like you like someone, that's a random stranger. Let her flirt with them hahahaha That would make my day there
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Posted 21 September 2008 - 07:27 PM
i had this problem too.
not that extreme but similar.
lol. we hang out in the same grp b/c she learned to chill out on it. but it took her a longgg time. but in a grp, we still don't talk anymore.
i say hang out with other ppl. confront her if you feel like it and if u are uncomfortable.. but sometimes confronting is awkward and hard. so yeah.. i would just hang out with others. and don't tell her who you like. lol. maybe that might help?
not that extreme but similar.
lol. we hang out in the same grp b/c she learned to chill out on it. but it took her a longgg time. but in a grp, we still don't talk anymore.
i say hang out with other ppl. confront her if you feel like it and if u are uncomfortable.. but sometimes confronting is awkward and hard. so yeah.. i would just hang out with others. and don't tell her who you like. lol. maybe that might help?
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Posted 21 September 2008 - 07:28 PM
QUOTE (aznxkaiser @ Sep 21 2008, 10:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
She must be extremely hot. Pics nao!
ahahhaha (l)(l)(l)
yeah, i agree with the poster up ahead,
dont tell anyone who you like. Is she that popular to get people turned against on you?
I was assuming she already had alot of haters for doing that.
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Posted 21 September 2008 - 07:31 PM
don't tell her who you like lol.
or.. u can be evil back and flirt with who SHE likes and steal HER boyfriends. aww man, what a b11tch, just reading this makes me wanna b1tchslap the wh_re acorss the face.
mind my language.
or.. u can be evil back and flirt with who SHE likes and steal HER boyfriends. aww man, what a b11tch, just reading this makes me wanna b1tchslap the wh_re acorss the face.
mind my language.
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Posted 21 September 2008 - 07:39 PM
wow, how many boyfriends do you have? why do you think you possess them all? let the girl flirt. Maybe you are the one who stole the guys she liked?
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Posted 21 September 2008 - 07:46 PM
QUOTE (riclee86 @ Sep 21 2008, 08:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
wow, how many boyfriends do you have? why do you think you possess them all? let the girl flirt. Maybe you are the one who stole the guys she liked?
i only had one ><
but she stole 3 of my best friend`s.
and no, i am very quiet.. so i would only flirt with the guys I LIKE.
and her taste and my taste are really off.
and problem is.. she flirts with everything.. ><
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Posted 21 September 2008 - 07:47 PM
I agree. dnt tell her who you like!!! And if she say 'hi' jst ignore her, she sounds like a total B***H!!! I cnt believe she can be so low and steals her friends bfs =.=" if she did that she's not worth ur friend, take that and learn from experience and NEVER trust her anymore!!!
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Posted 21 September 2008 - 07:59 PM
I'm guessing you're still in high school?
Give her the facts, straight up. Establish dominance. lol
Give her the facts, straight up. Establish dominance. lol
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Posted 21 September 2008 - 09:36 PM
dont tell her who you like!!
dont tell her your secrets. hahahah
just ignore that b**ch
she must be so deperate that she had to steal her friends' boyfriends and crushes. lame.
dont tell her your secrets. hahahah
just ignore that b**ch
she must be so deperate that she had to steal her friends' boyfriends and crushes. lame.
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Posted 21 September 2008 - 10:43 PM
tell her you like some ugly guys.
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Posted 21 September 2008 - 11:06 PM
i always thought it was "it takes two to tangle" kinda thing.
Always behave like a duck. Keep calm & unruffled on the surface, but paddle like hell underwater.
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Posted 22 September 2008 - 12:47 AM
Yechnically she didn't "steal" because those guys chose to be with her.
Yet I know what you mean, I still can't really call it stealing though.
Just don't talk to her or stay away from her with these kind of situations.
I agree with her_heart.
Yet I know what you mean, I still can't really call it stealing though.
Just don't talk to her or stay away from her with these kind of situations.
I agree with her_heart.
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Posted 22 September 2008 - 12:54 AM
You sound very territorial.
Get over it.
There is no such thing as 'stealing'
You did not buy the guys, nor did you give birth to them.
So you don't 'own' them.
And if you have the guts to post about her in the net, I'm sure you have the guts to tell her face to face.
Who cares about her parents?
If you hate her then tell her, don't start posting about her around the place. You're just acting like her in some way.
And who cares about your crushes, boyfriends, if they fall for her it just proves that you have benefited from this.
That way you won't be with a guy who falls easily for seduction.
My point done.
Get over it.
You sound like a really desperate person over the net, don't act like one in front of her.
It's none of your business if she even flirts with a turtle, why are you do bothered by it?
You're exaggerating.
Maybe you should somewhat get over being two faced and tell her the truth, it doesn't hurt to loose a supposed friend that is described like what you described her as.
Get over it.
There is no such thing as 'stealing'
You did not buy the guys, nor did you give birth to them.
So you don't 'own' them.
And if you have the guts to post about her in the net, I'm sure you have the guts to tell her face to face.
Who cares about her parents?
If you hate her then tell her, don't start posting about her around the place. You're just acting like her in some way.
And who cares about your crushes, boyfriends, if they fall for her it just proves that you have benefited from this.
That way you won't be with a guy who falls easily for seduction.
My point done.
Get over it.
You sound like a really desperate person over the net, don't act like one in front of her.
It's none of your business if she even flirts with a turtle, why are you do bothered by it?
You're exaggerating.
Maybe you should somewhat get over being two faced and tell her the truth, it doesn't hurt to loose a supposed friend that is described like what you described her as.
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Posted 22 September 2008 - 09:26 AM
Do it back to her!
Show her, her own taste of medicine!!!!
>:O hate people lyke that!
Ish she pretty? & she's popular? Hmmm
Yeah there's this ex - best friend who turned my bestest friends towards me whom I knew longer than her & they chose her words over mine even my own younger sis`tah too she rather choose friends over family >.< pisssed me off too!!!
& don't tell that girl you lyke someone ooo wait tel her a lie, say you lyke this doode but you don't & lets see if she lyke the guy =D hahaha
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Posted 22 September 2008 - 09:34 AM
QUOTE (Delianna @ Sep 22 2008, 12:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i only had one ><
but she stole 3 of my best friend`s.
and no, i am very quiet.. so i would only flirt with the guys I LIKE.
and her taste and my taste are really off.
and problem is.. she flirts with everything.. ><
but she stole 3 of my best friend`s.
and no, i am very quiet.. so i would only flirt with the guys I LIKE.
and her taste and my taste are really off.
and problem is.. she flirts with everything.. ><
Okay... Now let me ask you some more: do you really think it is actually possible to "flirt with everything" ?
It sounds to me that it is just the way she is, and it is making you think she is flirting with your friends (I could be wrong). In my opinion this is probably one of the factors that makes her so popular...
So my suggestion is: Go talk to her in a friendly manner. Since you know she considers you a friend, just ask her if she likes friend X or Y and if she says no, explain to her that it feels like shes flirting with them (in your opinion of course)...
You may hate her, but your reasons are just wrong if shes not flirting your friends just to hurt you. If shes trying to hurt you, then why bother losing her friendship?
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QUOTE (aznxkaiser @ Sep 21 2008, 10:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
She must be extremely hot. Pics nao!
i won't admit it but i want pics as well
QUOTE (Flicksityy @ Sep 22 2008, 03:54 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You sound very territorial.
Get over it.
There is no such thing as 'stealing'
You did not buy the guys, nor did you give birth to them.
So you don't 'own' them.
And if you have the guts to post about her in the net, I'm sure you have the guts to tell her face to face.
Who cares about her parents?
If you hate her then tell her, don't start posting about her around the place. You're just acting like her in some way.
And who cares about your crushes, boyfriends, if they fall for her it just proves that you have benefited from this.
That way you won't be with a guy who falls easily for seduction.
My point done.
Get over it.
You sound like a really desperate person over the net, don't act like one in front of her.
It's none of your business if she even flirts with a turtle, why are you do bothered by it?
You're exaggerating.
Maybe you should somewhat get over being two faced and tell her the truth, it doesn't hurt to loose a supposed friend that is described like what you described her as.
Get over it.
There is no such thing as 'stealing'
You did not buy the guys, nor did you give birth to them.
So you don't 'own' them.
And if you have the guts to post about her in the net, I'm sure you have the guts to tell her face to face.
Who cares about her parents?
If you hate her then tell her, don't start posting about her around the place. You're just acting like her in some way.
And who cares about your crushes, boyfriends, if they fall for her it just proves that you have benefited from this.
That way you won't be with a guy who falls easily for seduction.
My point done.
Get over it.
You sound like a really desperate person over the net, don't act like one in front of her.
It's none of your business if she even flirts with a turtle, why are you do bothered by it?
You're exaggerating.
Maybe you should somewhat get over being two faced and tell her the truth, it doesn't hurt to loose a supposed friend that is described like what you described her as.
huge rant but i gotta agree as well, tell it to her face, her parents and her are NOT the same person so don't even bring them into the picture. so either forget that she flirts with anything that moves or break all relations with her
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Posted 22 September 2008 - 12:23 PM
If a guy really likes you, then he shouldn't be seduced easily by flirts and beauty.
I can imagine that it's annoying though.
If you have some really good friends, then it shouldn't be a problem is she would put some people against you, so if you would want to, then talk to her. Just be confident.
they're just an army of skanks (sorry, i got that one from mean girls
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Being friends with someone you actually don't like, doesn't really make sense.
I can imagine that it's annoying though.
If you have some really good friends, then it shouldn't be a problem is she would put some people against you, so if you would want to, then talk to her. Just be confident.
they're just an army of skanks (sorry, i got that one from mean girls
)Being friends with someone you actually don't like, doesn't really make sense.
