[YUNMii.]

I'll just go straight to the point lol.
This is what he does:
- Calls me "love", "boo", "hun", "honey", "sexy", "wifey", etc.
- Says we're "married" (hence the 'wifey', and threatens a "divorce" whenever I tease him - I call him hubby)
- Tries to say Hi to me whenever we see each other.
- Says "i love you" to me often & whenever I tell me I love him, he says I love you too wifey, etc.
- Worries about me whenever something goes wrong.
- Etc~

Simple, right?

Yet - The thing is, when I indirectly asked him out (don't ask), he rejected me.
And he does know I like him, lol. So we're basically close friends who act like a couple, yet he doesn't want us to be together.
Help? x__x I'm seriously confused.

I guess I should go in more detail.

He never ever did this until a while after he broke up with his gf.
After, things just started going out of control.
He instantly started sweet talking to me and doing all of that stuff.
Before, when he was still with his ex, and we were still close friends, he never did this.
Then BAM. They broke up, and he starts all of this up.
And as far as I know, he doesn't do this with other girls.
And he's the more serious/committed type. I wouldn't see him as a player in any way.

=
More confusion.

Blahh.

& Thanks for all the replies so far guys :]

[Harbl]

He's stuck in the closet. Help him find his way out.

[yamaki_LOVE]

Maybee he just wants you to fall for hym & don't wanna be boyfriend or girlfriend .

& maybee he just wants someone there with hym or for hym also maybee cause he's being a good friend??

Idk sorry for no help well kynda

[heheimawesome]

To him it's all fun and games. All jokes.
Maybe hes too shy and didnt understand your indirect way?

[YUNMii.]

To him it's all fun and games. All jokes.
Maybe hes too shy and didnt understand your indirect way?

He's not the type to joke around with that stuff
& I'm sure he knows it was a confession and he told me he doesn't want to ruin our friendship.
But then again, he keeps talking to me as if we were a couple. :\

[Tarik]

oh, you are the one owning 90% of the posts in that one thread about cute messages, right?

haha, anyway.. i think you should wait a bit (just give him some time), then ask him out - but directly - then depending, on his answer, you will be really really happy, or you will have ask him, why he doesn't want a relationship and so on.. basicly you'd just have to tell him the things you told us in this thread now.. (like you two always acting like a couple and things)

hope the best for you =)

[private]

if he doesnt want u move on with ur life..find someone that like u back and want to be with u

[YUNMii.]

^ Ahh. Good advice. Maybe someday~
But it's not as easy as it sounds. And it's not what I'm asking for atm ^^;

oh, you are the one owning 90% of the posts in that one thread about cute messages, right?

haha, anyway.. i think you should wait a bit (just give him some time), then ask him out - but directly - then depending, on his answer, you will be really really happy, or you will have ask him, why he doesn't want a relationship and so on.. basicly you'd just have to tell him the things you told us in this thread now.. (like you two always acting like a couple and things)

hope the best for you =)

LOL. Yeess I am x] Hahahaa.
Which proves my point basically. He's too sweet. :x

& That's actually a good idea.
Thank youu<3

[WildSevenGirl]

HES CHEATING.

IF HE DOESNT CALLS YOU BY YOUR REAL NAME THEN

HE CALLS YOU SOME NICK NAMES TO MAKE SURE HE DOESN'T GET

ALL THE GIRLS HES GOING OUT WITH NAMES WRONG.

LOL, I HAVE TO SAY. I LOL AT "It'S A TRAP." XDD

But, they're not together. They're friends that act like a couple.

Anyh00, back to what I was gonna say.

Well, you said he's not one to joke about stuff like this, but yet he's rejected you on your indirect offer to go out.

o_o So he's probably confused.

D: Try to talk to him about it. It may sound hard and all, but I had a similar situation like this, but I ended up feeling much better after talking to him about it.

[lovejyk]

UGH, don't waste your time on him. Obviously, he just wants to keep you on a chain just so he can have someone that he can call wifey or whatever. He's probably not into you enough to actually go out with you but he's comfortable with what you guys already have and he's in no rush to change anything.

[DAJUNG.]

He's gay.





LOL, ok no, he just fears the wrath of the scary llama warlords. D:
Confront him about it? He can't keep manipulating your emotions like that.

[thesisoflove]

WELL.
maybe hes treating you like a food chain?
something to eat on.. i guess o_o flirt with i assume?

maybe hes just confused :S

i think you should talk to him about it, confront him.. ask him why he calls you these names.. o_o ...

[KEYS2MYHEART_<3]

HAH. I knew a guy like that once. It didn't turn out too pretty, unfortunately.

I'm pretty sure he's either afraid of commitment, or as someone put it, doesn't want to be 'labeled', because he's not sure of how he feels, and wants an easy out if he's not really committed to you. One day, he'll be so nice and sweet, and the next, it's like you don't even know each other. In other words, a coward. I don't know you, or the guy, but I'm really tempted to just say 'WHAT A JERK!' However, since I don't know you, maybe you guys will work out and everything will be great. Just... don't count on it, sorry.

[msupky]

Tell him you want a divorce.

[vikkay]

He's stuck in the closet. Help him find his way out.

^ROFL

[Flicksityy]

ROFL
I tried this like over 5 to 6 times with different guys.
The guys still call me hun, wifey, sexy, darl, sweetie blah blah
And we say we'll have kids, fly to my house to have sex right away, plan our wedding...

But it's all a joke, well I take it as a joke.

Most people know that I joke around alot, so we get comfortable with such convos and don't find it weird.

Are you sure you're getting the right message?

But like, this is kinda the opposite, because I've never asked them out :S

Usually they do, but like it doesn't exactly mean that they like you.

It's just a teenager thing D:

Sometimes they don't really mean it ROFL

[FFDk]

Friend Zone or Maybe somethign else

[heheimawesome]

HES JOKING! I SAID IT BEFORE ILL SAY IT AGAIN!

[YeonCouture]

Mayeb he just thinks of you as just a friend.
I have a really close guy friend who's just like this.
I tell him that I love him, because I truly do, and he tells me that too.
I'm just not IN love with him.
He tells me that we're gonna get married one day and when I say
stupid things that he thinks is cute, he asks me if I'll marry him.
He's always complimenting me telling me that I'm pretty, or that I'm the "perfect girl" to him.
But we're just friends, thats it.
I don't have a crush on him and I know that he doesn't have a crush on me.

Try finding out how he is with other girls.
If being close to girls like that is just his personality, then you know that you're not all that special [not being mean, just saying that he does it with everyone, so he doesnt passionately mean it]

[blue_wishesx3]

maybe he does like you but has something else going on in his life instead?

that similar situation is happening to me now and neither of us can go farther
becuase of my insecurities and also his ex?

you should talk to him about it ><