[fallen*angel*]

i know there're good poor guys out there. unfortunately, i dated 2 of them in the past at seperate times... one was my first love; one wasnot. at the beginning, they talked sweet things, making me think they loved me true love. and i was a big believer of true love. i never cared they are poor at all.... i loved them & treated them well. but sadly, both of them turned out to be a very bad person, i found out they lied and cheated on me, taking me for granted and taking money from me. not only that...they both still didnot pay back me the money that i lent them....thousands of dollars.
but i never wanted to ask them to pay back because i feel disgusted to even talk to them again. i don't really care about the money lost but the point is..how horrible they are.


from these two horrible experience...i feel really scared to date poor guys ever again...


my present boyfriend is a son of very wealthy family ...millionaire-class.........but he treats me like princess and never cheats on me.
he is the reason why i know exactly how a boyfriend should treat a girlfriend. and i learned how stupid i was in the past to date those two horrible guys.

i really feel regreted to ever date those two bad poor guys ... they gave me a horrible feeling...until now.

i really wish for them to know about my new wealthy boyfriend...who respects me and loves me and never takes me for granted.

thank you for reading.

[mintcracker]

wtf I'm sorry but guys cheat, and it doesn't matter what kinda of economic status they are in.


Rich guys cheat all the time. And based on your post, you must be pretty young lol, therefore quite naive, so just a lesson of advice:

Don't go lending so much to your bfs, you COULD say no. and you could mention that it's a loan. Don't be afraid.

[fallen*angel*]

wtf I'm sorry but guys cheat, and it doesn't matter what kinda of economic status they are in.


Rich guys cheat all the time. And based on your post, you must be pretty young lol, therefore quite naive, so just a lesson of advice:

Don't go lending so much to your bfs, you COULD say no. and you could mention that it's a loan. Don't be afraid.

yes, i was stupid to believe their sweet words. and they said they needed money ...i lent to them; they both said they would pay me back but they never did...

[runintoluck]

That's just unfortunate. Then again, everyone's different. One's wealth usually shouldn't reflect their character. At least you're better off now.

[fallen*angel*]

That's just unfortunate. Then again, everyone's different. One's wealth usually shouldn't reflect their character. At least you're better off now.

yes, thank you.
i am very better off now, you're right.
but i have been scared in my heart... by those two bad experiences. ..because one of them was my first love.
i hope time will make me totally forget that i ever knew those two bad guys, not to mention, stupid enough to love them, believing in their sweet talk/words...
i still feel disgusted of them ....until now... and everytime i remember, i still feel sick about it.

[FFDk]

Wow for the first time iDK what to say. Sorry about ur bad experience with Poor Guys AKA bad guy that take u for granted.

[fallen*angel*]

Wow for the first time iDK what to say. Sorry about ur bad experience with Poor Guys AKA bad guy that take u for granted.

thank you very much for your supportive of me. thank a lot.

[viper2788]

i dont think its just "poor" guys you should avoid... its grimey people who dont pay back in general. i mean a thousand bucks is a good amount of money to be lending... and i wouldnt borrow that much from my gf anyway. i hate borrowing money in general.. esp from girls as i find it degrading.

i do believe a couple should be in a similar economical status. rich and poor just have unavoidable gaps.

[hunny]

Sigh, i think they might be so poor that they need to cheat on girls because of their money..
glad for u that u found a wealthy bf that treats u real good now, TREASURE HIM!

[HtyPotter]

One piece of advice: Don't LEND money to friends or family. Sooner or later, it won't end well. First of all, it's kinda illegal unless you charge interest, but second, you're putting your relationship at risk. If someone asks for money, GIVE them a smaller amount of money that you can spare, but as a GIFT, not a loan. For example, if a friends asks for a $1000 loan, say "I can only spare this $200 to help you out, but don't worry about paying me back." Trust me, you'll lose less money that way.

[terrorist]

wow honestly i feel like crap being poor.
i'm a poor guy and i would never steal money from anybody.
i just can't believe how you can generalize like that.

even when im poor i buy my friends food and clothing sometimes.
i really hope you think differently in the future.

[fallen*angel*]

thank you everyone for your comments. yes, i've learned hard lessons for sure. it has been scarred my heart very badly. for a while i was to scared to date anyone...


but gladly, i finally found someone who treats me right....and he teaches/shows me how a gentleman should treat their girlfriend right.


i know they are plenty of guys who are poor but have class & wouldnot do horrible things to their girlfriends. unfortunately, i've never met them. those two bad experiences are like two bad allergic reactions to certain foods that you would feel scared & sick to your stomatch just to look at them...& you'll never touch them again. i must admit i was too naive to believe in their sweet talk/love words.

hope everyone understand my points... & feelings...i am not saying all poor guys are like those two horrible guys. please understand me.


thank you very much for all the comments.





and to this: please don't feel bad for being poor. if you don't take advantage of anyone & take their money, you're a nice person & deserve respect.

wow honestly i feel like crap being poor.
i'm a poor guy and i would never steal money from anybody.
i just can't believe how you can generalize like that.

even when im poor i buy my friends food and clothing sometimes.
i really hope you think differently in the future.

[PoooBear]

wtf I'm sorry but guys cheat, and it doesn't matter what kinda of economic status they are in.


Rich guys cheat all the time. And based on your post, you must be pretty young lol, therefore quite naive, so just a lesson of advice:

Don't go lending so much to your bfs, you COULD say no. and you could mention that it's a loan. Don't be afraid.

^ Agreed!

Guys cheat. No matter what. You just have to find the guy that doesn't and the one that treasures you.
I don't think being rich or poor has anything to do with why they cheat or not because that's generalizing!
Maybe you just found some bad guys that happen to be poor and nice guy that happen to be rich. It's all about the guy, not his economic status. and Why would lend SO much money to a BOYFRIEND, not worth it. I would never lend that much money to my boyfriend, maybe a little but never a lot (probably cause I'm a broke teenager XD) Hell, I'd never lend that much money to my husband, but even then we'd be together so it wouldn't matter. So take this as lesson learned, don't let people take advantage of you. Ever.
I hope your relationship goes good but you shouldn't generalize people by their economic status because their are good people who are poor and bad people who are rich (ever heard of Politicians? ), and vise versa.

If I were you, I would have handed those poor guys a credit card application or a job application and say "get your own money"

[arianna90]

not everybody is like that. hehehe.
dont lend people money unless you really know and trust them.
but i guess i understand
u were blinded. LOL.
dont be afraid of dating poor guys
some guys who r not wealthy are the nicest people.
i guess u just got unlucky.

[Meenuh]

lol. wow. i can relate to you 100%. only my bf never cheated on me or anything. he just ended up borrowing money from me and i've yet to see it. i don't feel disgusted that i want to talk to him though. i want to talk to him so i can beat him to a pulp and ask him why he is the way he is? i seriously don't understand how people can be so nonchalant about borrowing money.

john teshing lazyasses need to get off THEIR ass and DO something if they need money.

my current boyfriend isn't poor but i know he doesn't have much. he's not rich but he still treats me very well and i'm so so so thankful i broke up with the last retard i was with. i still want my money though. if i ever see him ... i'm going to tackle his ass and pummel him. i'm looking for an emote thats angry enough for my emotions but i can't find one ... so i'll use this one. >:O

i know my ex boyfriend's intentions weren't to get money from me but ... he's a loser.

wtf I'm sorry but guys cheat, and it doesn't matter what kinda of economic status they are in.


Rich guys cheat all the time. And based on your post, you must be pretty young lol, therefore quite naive, so just a lesson of advice:

Don't go lending so much to your bfs, you COULD say no. and you could mention that it's a loan. Don't be afraid.

i highly doubt she's YOUNG if she's old enough to lend out THOUSANDS of dollars and you can't call her naive. you don't know the relationship she was in. i'm sure the guys made it 100% believable. is it naive for her to trust in someone she's supposed to be in a relationship with?

[MaryMagdalin]

wow honestly i feel like crap being poor.
i'm a poor guy and i would never steal money from anybody.
i just can't believe how you can generalize like that.

even when im poor i buy my friends food and clothing sometimes.
i really hope you think differently in the future.

yup........................
you cant just say all poor guys are like that.

and rich guys do cheat
my bf comes from a millionaire class too
but he`s cheated on his ex.


and dont ever lend your bf thousands of dollars....
thats just dumb

[mintcracker]

lol. wow. i can relate to you 100%. only my bf never cheated on me or anything. he just ended up borrowing money from me and i've yet to see it. i don't feel disgusted that i want to talk to him though. i want to talk to him so i can beat him to a pulp and ask him why he is the way he is? i seriously don't understand how people can be so nonchalant about borrowing money.

john teshing lazyasses need to get off THEIR ass and DO something if they need money.

my current boyfriend isn't poor but i know he doesn't have much. he's not rich but he still treats me very well and i'm so so so thankful i broke up with the last retard i was with. i still want my money though. if i ever see him ... i'm going to tackle his ass and pummel him. i'm looking for an emote thats angry enough for my emotions but i can't find one ... so i'll use this one. >:O

i know my ex boyfriend's intentions weren't to get money from me but ... he's a loser.



i highly doubt she's YOUNG if she's old enough to lend out THOUSANDS of dollars and you can't call her naive. you don't know the relationship she was in. i'm sure the guys made it 100% believable. is it naive for her to trust in someone she's supposed to be in a relationship with?

Um actually, it was more her lack of grammar that gave me this impression of her age. =/

I may not know the relationship she was in, but I do know, that if my S/O wanted to borrow THOUSANDS of dollars, I wouldn't just lend it to him just like that. =/ Call me cynical or whatever, but I know where to draw the line.

I would consider lending alot to a long term bf, but it seems her relationship with those two guys weren't long term ones. Well that's the impression I'm getting.

[`123]

well, think on the bright side, you got your current wealthy, oh so truthful, never will cheat, best of all mankind boyfriend right now.

who cares about those two poor guys who wanted you for money?

[yannie]

mm.. i know i'm in no position to judge the guys that you're with/been with. but since this is your current, you probably wouldn't know that he's not cheating on you or going to cheat on you right? its bad to just classify people by the 2 bad experiences you had. everyone is different and basically you're limiting your choice right now. I don't think poor guys make bad boyfriends at all, i'm sure there are guys out there that are not wealthy but LOVES his gf/family. well..this is just my opinion. don't yell at me if you don't like what i said. =/

[vietboy90]

Having money or money can really change a person..