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#1 User is offline   rainbowcolored 

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 07:51 AM

uhh, a friend told me i can ask in here so.. sweatingbullets.gif

well...okay...what does it mean when...a guy who loves to bug you just for the fun of it suddenly goes acting like your invisible?

well, last term, we were together in all our classes....it was really fun since a lot of our breaks were spent together...and that got us to be really close to with each other...
but not like in a "more than friends" relationship. you know, it was just STRICTLY friendship.
he would often tickle me, bug me, annoy me, stay random, out-of-the blue things and questions.
most of the times, words that come out of his mouth are just blah but i still laugh at them.
well...aside from that, he'd often talk to me...text, ym...if we were not face to face or in school or something like that.
lol. okay, so by this point....everyone would be thinking, i like him? well, honestly, yeah, sort of.
as much as i said it was strictly friendship, it's hard to not force those feelings when all of that has been happening.
but sadly, this term, things have changed as the days go by.
he began to be quiet around me...just around me.
and he isn't bugging me anymore like before.
no text, ym comes only as often like twice or thrice.
and only when it's school-related stuff...not like all the random-ness before.
we'd talk about random stuff sometimes...SOMETIMES. but then it wouldn't be as long like before when we'd stay up late just chatting
well...i'm just really bothered why he's acting like this since i seriously have no clue...at all.
what do you guys think? hahaha. or am i just being paranoid and imagining things?
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#2 User is offline   Nerdy 

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Posted 23 September 2008 - 08:38 AM

Is there anything you've left out? If he's felt something more than friendship and has felt a sense of rejection from you in one way or another, he's probably found other ways to spend his time. Seems like he liked you in ways more than you liked him.
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Posted 23 September 2008 - 09:09 AM

sometimes people change. It might not be a bigger mystery than that.
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Posted 24 September 2008 - 08:16 AM

thanks for your replies.. ^^

well, for an update..
i didn't do anything today, like talk to him..
but then, he started poking me and everything again, just like before..
then he im-ed me awhile back.. :|
idk now, i'm confused.. :|


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Posted 24 September 2008 - 05:56 PM

I went through this too.. It's completely up to them and I wouldn't TRY to make things back to normal and just let things take its course. I had a friend like this too and after he went to HK, we stopped talking. When we did, it was never fun like before, but instead he only messaged me and talked like THAT only when he wanted me to introduce him to some cute girl.

The guy I knew only started doing that when he meet all those "gangstery" people who stay out late and drink bbt at 3 AM and drive around their cars at 100 km/h on empty highways. =='' Seemed like he thought that he was too good to talk to me or something. Hopefully its not the same with your friend.


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