Do You Think It's Weird To Compliment Someone Like This?
#1
Posted 23 September 2008 - 11:08 AM
Would you think it's weird if your close guy friend calls you pretty and beautiful when you deny that you are?
Would you think it's weird if your close guy friend randomly gave you a hug?
Yeah... cause I don't want to hold back compliments when I really mean 'em and just wanted to make sure if it's weird or anything
cause I really do think my friend that's a girl is really pretty and beautiful even though we're just friends. Would she get the wrong idea?
same with the other questions
#2
Posted 23 September 2008 - 11:11 AM
Not sure about the rest, but when you say something, you need to be behind your intentions 100% or you'll just come off weird or creepy, even. If you're nervous, it will show.
#3
Posted 23 September 2008 - 11:13 AM
Not sure about the rest, but when you say something, you need to be behind your intentions 100% or you'll just come off weird or creepy, even. If you're nervous, it will show.
yeah i just want to give a genuine compliment
eh im not nervous, just dunno if its alright to say it or not lol
cause im not interested in them at all, just good looking friends thats all
and i want to make them happier!
#6
Posted 23 September 2008 - 11:35 AM
the reason im wondering this is cause my close friend that's a girl is having a hard time right now and i just want to make her reallly happy
she keeps telling of the little things she loves
such as a younger person keeps telling her she's pretty and he randomly gave her a hug
but im her OLDER friend
so im thinkin itd be really weird if an older guy did that, people or HER might get the wrong idea :/
cause i have no GF right now and the other younger guy has one
#7
Posted 23 September 2008 - 11:41 AM
unless the person is thinkin of you as something else :0
If youre friends, it should be natural.
Girlfriend or no gf.
a hug is...
++if she's down, she'd understand
#8
Posted 23 September 2008 - 11:50 AM
No i don't think it's weird when a close guy friend tells me i'm pretty when i deny it.
No, hugs are good...I think they show a girl that he cares.
If you genuinely think this girl is pretty, don't hold back your compliments...if she's having a hard time with something, let her know you're there and give her a hug of comfort. I think all girls need a guy friend like that!

#9
Posted 23 September 2008 - 03:51 PM
#10
Posted 23 September 2008 - 03:54 PM
1. Oh. Ok. So how was your day? [this is every other day, a normal day]
2. YEAH! I KNOW I AM! [this is when I actually do my hair, and wear a cute outfit]
#11
Posted 23 September 2008 - 04:04 PM
I love it when guys tell me that I look pretty or cute or whatever.
And especially when they say it really randomly.
I have a really close guy friend who does that sometimes and it makes my heart melt.
I don't have a crush on him and I know he doesnt either because he's told me who he likes but
when he compliments me out of nowhere, it really does make me feels special.
For example, this morning I was on the bus and I always sit on the seat across from him with my best friend
and I was sitting there and he just goes, "____, look isn't Yeon so pretty?!"
and that made me feel so special and just made my day ^^
And I love getting hugs from guys ^^
Sometimes, all a girl wants is a sweet guy.
I have another friend who goes on the bus with me and sometimes he just hugs me when I get on the bus
and it makes me really happy ^^
I love it, I think it's flattering.
#12
Posted 23 September 2008 - 04:38 PM
Usually , when a close friend says I'm pretty or cute , it gets .. awkward !
#13
Posted 23 September 2008 - 04:38 PM
As for the hug; it's normal for friends to hug so it's not a big deal.
If you don't want her to get the wrong idea, don't do things that'll give her the wrong idea... telling her that she's pretty might be one of it.
#14
Posted 23 September 2008 - 04:42 PM
#15
Posted 23 September 2008 - 04:41 PM
#16
Posted 23 September 2008 - 04:48 PM
sometimes
Would you think it's weird if your close guy friend calls you pretty and beautiful when you deny that you are?
yes. unless im close to him
Would you think it's weird if your close guy friend randomly gave you a hug?
no. cause he's close but if it was a normal guy friend then maybe. >__<
#17
Posted 23 September 2008 - 05:31 PM
sometimes
Would you think it's weird if your close guy friend calls you pretty and beautiful when you deny that you are?
no >.>
Would you think it's weird if your close guy friend randomly gave you a hug?
i dont mind hugs xD
#18
Posted 23 September 2008 - 06:41 PM
no, its cute. :]
Would you think it's weird if your close guy friend calls you pretty and beautiful when you deny that you are?
no i dont. its nice. shows they care in a way. thats what i think
Would you think it's weird if your close guy friend randomly gave you a hug?
once every now and then. :] its okay but too often. O__O it gets weird.. .___. unless its a daily hug thing.
#19
Posted 23 September 2008 - 06:50 PM
I never thought of it as an odd thing.. it's kinda normal in my high school for friends to do that.
I mean CMONN random hugs rock<3
Life is too slow but it passes too quickly
#20
Posted 23 September 2008 - 06:59 PM
Yes, it's weird. but it'd make me feel good.
Would you think it's weird if your close guy friend calls you pretty and beautiful when you deny that you are?
No. My friends are very sweet and they do it all the time. <3
Would you think it's weird if your close guy friend randomly gave you a hug?
....This is a compliment? Or... are you asking if it's just weird? Either way, no. It's not weird. I love hugs, from guys or girls.
Anyhoo, everything's a matter of habit. If you start off like that, it might be weird. But after a while, she'd get used to it & she won't find it weird. (:


























