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Is He Over Her?
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Posted 23 September 2008 - 09:47 PM
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Posted 23 September 2008 - 09:54 PM
he's not over her.
he used 'interesting' 'as long as she's happy'
if he was over her, it'll be more along the lines of 'oh that's great, I'm happy for her'
T_T
They show sadness, awkwardness, forced happiness.
They say things like what he had said too =/
he used 'interesting' 'as long as she's happy'
if he was over her, it'll be more along the lines of 'oh that's great, I'm happy for her'
T_T
They show sadness, awkwardness, forced happiness.
They say things like what he had said too =/
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Posted 23 September 2008 - 09:57 PM
They get sad if they hear about that person with people of opposite sex. Especially if .. yeah. What you said.
Try bringing it up again, see if he either:
Asks alot of questions
Or seems to be down. Maybe ask in person you can see facial expressions. If he looks down or looks away then that;s a hint. Like he doesn't want you to see the pain in his eyes?
Try bringing it up again, see if he either:
Asks alot of questions
Or seems to be down. Maybe ask in person you can see facial expressions. If he looks down or looks away then that;s a hint. Like he doesn't want you to see the pain in his eyes?
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Posted 23 September 2008 - 09:57 PM
Yep, I would have to agree with mintcracker. He's not over that girl that he likes yet. If he's "happy" for her, then should he be happy too?I mean.. yeah, you'll miss your friends but you shouldn't be THAT sad since you have other friends too.
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Posted 23 September 2008 - 10:03 PM
yeah i shouldve TALKED TO HIM ABOUT THIS IN PERSON.
sosososo stupid >.<
eh whatever, i guess.
well i guess they were best friends, but i think you guys are right, unfortunately ._.
replying to sarang..
(it won't let me quote yours for somereason, so yeah..)
after, he was telling me how he doesn't feel like he has any close friends. so idk, the girl was like... his closestclosest friend. IDKIDK. this sucks
sosososo stupid >.<
eh whatever, i guess.
well i guess they were best friends, but i think you guys are right, unfortunately ._.
replying to sarang..
(it won't let me quote yours for somereason, so yeah..)
after, he was telling me how he doesn't feel like he has any close friends. so idk, the girl was like... his closestclosest friend. IDKIDK. this sucks
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Posted 23 September 2008 - 10:11 PM
When someone is not over another person, they are either bummed out about it, or they pretend that they don't care.
In this situation, the guy is definitely not over her. If he only liked her as a friend, he would have probably said something like, "Really? Who? Tell me the details! =)"
In this situation, the guy is definitely not over her. If he only liked her as a friend, he would have probably said something like, "Really? Who? Tell me the details! =)"
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Posted 24 September 2008 - 11:32 PM
He might of still liked her. Doesnt matter right? She's not coming back soon, and shes in love with someone else. Trust me, guys get over it easily. Does he flirt with you? Why don't you try making a move? He probably get over it quicker when someone new shows up.
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Posted 25 September 2008 - 12:13 AM
"As long as she's happy" should have brought up the red flag. 
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Posted 25 September 2008 - 10:39 AM
Maybe he's just upset that she moved on completely before him?
Seing as she already has someone before him whilst he has no one?
I dunno I'm like that when my ex invited me to his birthday I didn't wanna go, not because I'm not over him, but because when I see him with another girl it makes me feel bad knowing I have no one, while he does?
Kinda immature but.. bleh. I know for sure though that I'm over him.
Seing as she already has someone before him whilst he has no one?
I dunno I'm like that when my ex invited me to his birthday I didn't wanna go, not because I'm not over him, but because when I see him with another girl it makes me feel bad knowing I have no one, while he does?
Kinda immature but.. bleh. I know for sure though that I'm over him.
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Posted 25 September 2008 - 11:24 AM
Yeah, he's totally not over her.
Whenever I bring up this girl to my guy bestfriend, he's either like "oh cool I guess" and changes the subject
or he pretends like he's not listening, lol.
Just give him some time, he'll get over her and eventually maybe even fall for you.
Whenever I bring up this girl to my guy bestfriend, he's either like "oh cool I guess" and changes the subject
or he pretends like he's not listening, lol.
Just give him some time, he'll get over her and eventually maybe even fall for you.
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Posted 25 September 2008 - 04:46 PM
I doubt he's over her.
That pretty much says it all.
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"Well, that's interesting.. as long as she's happy"
That pretty much says it all.
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Posted 25 September 2008 - 05:00 PM
Sometimes it's obvious to tell that the person is sad, and sometimes it's not.
Whenever my ex's name or something that reminds me of him comes up,
i try really hard to smile and turn away, pretending like i didn't hear anything
or i try to talk about the subject like it means nothing to me.
I fool most of my friends this way, but deep down, i'm still not over him yet.
And your friend defintely sounds like he's not quite over her either.
All you can do is wait til he is or talk with him about it and try to help him heal.
Whenever my ex's name or something that reminds me of him comes up,
i try really hard to smile and turn away, pretending like i didn't hear anything
or i try to talk about the subject like it means nothing to me.
I fool most of my friends this way, but deep down, i'm still not over him yet.
And your friend defintely sounds like he's not quite over her either.
All you can do is wait til he is or talk with him about it and try to help him heal.
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Posted 25 September 2008 - 05:40 PM
you just ask them out
and if they say they arent ready
you have your answer :]
dont wait, ughh i hate waiting!
and if they say they arent ready
you have your answer :]
dont wait, ughh i hate waiting!
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Posted 25 September 2008 - 05:55 PM
QUOTE (Inspector @ Sep 25 2008, 12:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
He might of still liked her. Doesnt matter right? She's not coming back soon, and shes in love with someone else. Trust me, guys get over it easily. Does he flirt with you? Why don't you try making a move? He probably get over it quicker when someone new shows up.
yeah, he flirts with me a lot, which was why i was so *sad, dissapointed* when I realized he might not have been 100% over her because i thought he liked me. I guess i'll try to show more interest (=
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Posted 25 September 2008 - 08:18 PM
Well he flirts with you. Thats a good sign. I dont know him, so I cant tell you if he likes you or not but be direct. Let him know your intentions. And if he don't have the same intentions, then now you can move on right? How old you guys just happen to be now?
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Posted 25 September 2008 - 09:58 PM
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we're hs seniors, so 16-17.
so these 'relationships' are nothing serious, hahah.
we're hs seniors, so 16-17.
so these 'relationships' are nothing serious, hahah.
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Posted 25 September 2008 - 10:39 PM
Trust me, he will be over her soon. Hes probably over her NOW. Let him know you're interested, and you'll see if he is interested or not.
My friend and his gf been dating since grade 9. He's now 24, and shes 23. They are married with a 1 year old. Sometimes I don't know wheter to be happy or sad for him.
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so these 'relationships' are nothing serious, hahah
My friend and his gf been dating since grade 9. He's now 24, and shes 23. They are married with a 1 year old. Sometimes I don't know wheter to be happy or sad for him.
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