[vingearx0xo]

So people often tell me that i'm a flirt. But you know how Asian people are like. They're touchy with you. And like to have fun ya knowww? But I also find it difficult to stay or becomes friends with girl that don't share similar personality with me. Which resulted with 2 close girl friends. TWOOO WTFF! But don't get me wrong. I have lots of friends. That are mainly boys.




So my dilemma here. Is that the guy I like thinks i'm a SUPER SUPER flirt. He's right though. I know I am one. But I can't help it. It's not like I purposely do it just so I can get attention. No wayyyy. AND EVEN WORSE. My nickname used to be manhandler!!#$#$^&*@ gees hahaha. So this is how the conversation went last night:
Me: What you talking about?
Him: Vickie you're a flirt. Everybody knows that you're a flirt.
Me: Wait everybody? What are you even talking about?
Him: Yes everybodyy. ALLLLL my friends. I'm not even exggrating
Me: So how was your day? (I changed the subject very very quickly)

Anybody else has this problem with being a flirt? Any suggestion?

[Xiaoba1tu]

But you know how Asian people are like. They're touchy with you

Not the ones that I know of.

I think I'm the complete opposite to you. I don't touch anyone unless told to. Maybe on very special circumstances where I am completely comfortable with the other person then I would consider. But it has to be a really good reason why I should touch.

[Kira_Hyuu]

Not quite i had something different...

The reason i become a flirt was i lacked the ability to trust people and thus actually be in like a real relationship; kinda big life changing story but yeah not willing to share; and so yeah i just played people...well like girls...

The real problem for being a flirt was it could never find someone compatiable like when it came down to it...like i mean i'd know all these girls that were stylish and good looks but their all like shallow....like u know ur typical "dumb blonde". Like i mean it was cool how i'd have these trophy girls to like just go out with time to time and hang out at parties but like they were just shallow relations. Like i mean i couldn't find someone to open up to....

The girls that were a bit more mature just like stayed away from me, they like just acted and saw me as a player so yea i tried hard to like persuade that i wasn't that shallow loser they thought...Lol that totally didn't work and it kinda killed my self esteem for a bit but then i just came back but like seriously i felt like mini cooper...but i eventually found someone and life has been forever changed....for now....

[sodaniechea]

lol supposedly when i 'flirt' [i don't realize it] i don't make it obvious, or so people say >_>

[MNLV27]

same here..i got like two best friends that are girls only too...and then i got like mostly guy friends...my boyfriend right now thinks im a total flirt, hes like afraid to let me talk to guys because i might make then like me..lol...my guy friends tell me that im a big tease...seriously though i dont purposely flirt with guys, it jsut happens and thats how i am with people or guys i mean..lol..

[ILuVTiTTiEZ]

Ummm....I always thought that I was just being friendly...

Lol, yeah I totally use that excuss for my flirtatious behavior! =D

[smpilova]

AHAHAH your sooo funny!

changes subject quickly
so.. how was your day?


LMAO

welll i'm kinda the exact opposite..
i'm not quite a flirt.. but i'm like one of theose girls that goes really hard to get.

idk why.. but its probably because all the guys.. are like folllowing you.. and its kinda getting you to think that they are realllly annoying and a creepster >:[

[anjuu62]

I don't think you're FLIRTING LOL.. you're probably just like me, you have a lot of guys friends and barely any (or almost no) girl friends. You treat your guys friends like your girl friends and then boom everyone thinks you're a flirt.

[cambochinkanese]

Yeah, I'm like Xiaoba1tu~
I'm quite the opposite dear. I don't touch people for no reason. It's just not my thing...

[juicebox]

I don't think you're FLIRTING LOL.. you're probably just like me, you have a lot of guys friends and barely any (or almost no) girl friends. You treat your guys friends like your girl friends and then boom everyone thinks you're a flirt.

yes~! exactly~!!!
im not sure if ppl think tht im a flirt, but i do have many guy friends and i do feel tht girls were like extra protective of their boyfriends when i was around (when i was single) which is kind of insulting >_> but i dont flirt purposely =S
and when ppl tell me they think someone is flirting with me i wouldnt even have been able to tell because id think tht they were jus being friendly. genuinely you know? =S so im not relli sure what flirting is supposed to be like.

[Linnsterr]

I think we gonna get along perfectly, cause i only have 3 close girlfriends
& tons of close guyfriends
some girls like being flirt and some don't, well im one of them touchy type.
Im just like you; i love guys. But when theres a guy i like, i kind of chill out with the guys.
Back away from them and just flirt with the guy i like.

hope i made some sense.
but best of luck to you.

[shakki]

wtf
i dont get how flirting works.
i dont even know HOW to flirt.
guess your an expert.
im asian,
i dont touch people...

[anjuu62]

BTW
I find that I click better with girls who have more guy friends like me. IMO they have less jealousy and more of an understanding of guys.. unlike the few who only excessively flirt & squeak their voice ==''

When my bf found out about how I was close with tons of guys before he was... lets say in the least, pissed LOL

Anyways, if its the girls you're worried about I say that MOST of them are jealous that you have a lot of guys to chill with. If its guys... you can explain =/ probably won't work if you already have that image set for them.

[imready]

not really
i think i get a little too close.
then the guys get the wrong idea... and everything gets all complicated.
i dont flirt intentionally, i dont think its flirting if you dont do it intentionally.

[shirotaka]

Though I doubt you if anyone at all will read this I'll still say it. I don't see where the problem is, you shoulda told him, "Its not my fault I know how to handle my men" =P. Seriously, its not your fault all the other girls are shy or just not out going. You're free to talk however and to whoever you want.

[ichikawaii]

i used to think i didnt flirt T_T
then people told me i did -.-
i think flirting is different for every person
XP

[Villian]

there nothing wrong with flirting, it promote world peace

believe it or not

[sokky]

thats right. flirting is second nature, it allows great communication, nothing wrong with that. but to people outside watching it may seem like picking up etc... flirting all good.