[babiixswt]

I'm so confused right now.
So, I've been going out with this amazing, cute guy since the beginning of September,
and things have been going by wonderfully lately! I mean, no we haven't kissed or anything
like that, but we held hands at the movie theatre, hug on a daily basis, etc. Your typical,
childish high school relationship. Wait, maybe I shouldn't say that. Anyways, it's been
quite weird lately. Since, he always 'fake' smiles during the one class I have with him and I KNOW
something is bothering him, because he's usually all giggly and laughing and such and such.
So, I ask him "Awe, what's wrong? Why are you so upset?" And all he says is "It's nothing."
And then, I'm like 'are you tired or something?' and then he's like 'no'. And then, I ask again,
because he's SO quiet, 'aw why are you so quiet today?' and then he's like 'its cause i'm tired'.
and then i'm like 'i thought you said your not tired!' and then he just slightly smiles...
I honestly don't know whats wrong with him. As his girlfriend, I wanna be with him and help him.
But he just won't respond and tell me what's wrong. Please don't say he needs space and such.
Because I honestly do NOT think that is the case. This sort of thing CONSTANTLY happens.
He just won't tell me the reason why, whenever he's feeling down.

ALSO, when we held hands at the movies and such and such. (it was really cute).
I expected us to be holding hands and school and whatever, but we STILL don't, which is
really weird. And I tried holding hands, but he just won't respond.

I don't know what to do.
I just hope he opens up to me... </3 without ALWAYS telling me 'nothings wrong'
because I KNOW there is something up.
Sigh.

[Nerdy]

lol, I remember those days. Sometimes a guy wants to be in his little cave. This might be a bit much, but I know you're his gf and you care as to what's up, but try to ease up on the questions--he might snap for no reason, which is dumb, but it happens. Sometimes a guy doesn't want to tell whatever his problem is to the person that matters most.

As for why he doesn't like to get physical, I'm not sure why. Sounds like he's being unreasonably stubborn.

His problems can be simple and he could be making a big deal out of nothing, since you guys are in high school--or, he could be having troubles at home that he doesn't want to talk about.

All I know is that I would nitpick about the dumbest things when I was his age and I would lash out at people for trying to help. Could be what he's going through.

[msPAHUA]

How cute!. The early jitters of a new relationships

As for his problem - for the most part don't bug him about it. I guess, all you can really do is just be there for him. Maybe he's not ready to tell you cause guys have a lot of pride - if you know what I mean. Just tell him, that whenever he's ready to talk - you'll be there for whatever reason he needs.

The fact that your just there with him is what means the most. Good luck.

[ShadowMax76]

he needs time to laugh it off with his mates.

_ what's bothering him, neh.. we all have tempers. and sometimes it just comes because we haven't been angry in a while. consider it strong of him to fake a smile . but i hope you at least feel a little fear of what it might be..

[vintageballad]

Maybe I'm just interpreting this wrong, but am I the only one (so far) that thinks he's lost interest?

[[K]Jae]

Maybe I'm just interpreting this wrong, but am I the only one (so far) that thinks he's lost interest?

I think so too...theres a possibility he has lost interest.
You should give him some space and if that doesn't work then maybe have a talk with him to sort things out.

[!L0VE]

o_o how long has this been going on? lol
you should just stop talking to him until he says something then.
i mean, if he still wants to be with you, he'll come & talk to you.
if he doesn't, he'll talk to you..but it'll only be about breaking up XD

[GOOMBA]

Maybe I'm just interpreting this wrong, but am I the only one (so far) that thinks he's lost interest?

Nope, you're not the only one.

[monrada]

Lol i hate when i'm feeling down and then people ask again and again, "what's wrong, are you okay??"
Makes me more aggravated/upset if anything else :/

Not saying you shouldn't care about your boyfriend, but maybe giving him his space when he doesn't feel like talking is the better option instead of trying to fix the situation all the time.

Because what is bothering him might in fact be you caring too much.

[ANYOTHERDAY]

Well if i were you, I wouldnt be here posting this up, and be on the phone with him right now telling him off.

[koneee]

Well, maybe something serious happened and he just doesn't want to let you know.
So maybe the only best thing to do is say, "Hey, I don't know what's wrong but I'm worried about you, if you need someone to talk to I will be here when you're ready." and just give him some time.

?? It's worth a shot.

[TammyHoang]

That's pretty selfish of him to not tell his girlfriend whats going on, when she's really worried about him.
I say just talk to him normally like you always do, don't ask him 'whats wrong' or anything. Maybe he just wants to forget about whatevers going on with him.

[--joyful.]

my health and safety teacher used to ALWAYS say
COMMUNICATION IS KEY.

you're his girlfriend, try to let him know that you want to know everything and anything, just don't try to completely FORCE it out of him because that will just make him very annoyed.

Maybe your boyfriend just isn't used to PDA or something,
that's respectable, my bf understands it when I'm shy,
so you should too, besides it has only been a couple weeks, give it some time.

[Villian]

you worry too much

let him be a guy gosh

and if he doesnt wanna tell you

then ignore him, simple as that

the more needy and caring you act

the more he act like a little wussy