[ShadowMax76]

just wanna know what you all do
when you make a new friend
to hint that you're not 'interested' in being more than so.

_ hint. clarify. etc. w/e floats your boat.





+ you know me. i don't make serious posts. o_O' make a 'White Chicks' reference if ya want. :] LOL.

[!L0VE]

if i talk to them in person, i don't TRY to make them laugh or i don't playfully hit them
or i don't, you know, flirt. I also talk about guys that i like in front of them. like,
"whoaa, he's hot dude."

& on aim or myspace or whatever lol, i just type casually. i don't write things like,
"keep warm <3" or "you're so cute hahahaha~!"

LOL..

[abusegirl]

you dont.

you'll come across as too damn arrogant. then you will fail to have friends.

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

You just be friends. You don't call anymore than you need to and you don't ask them out all the time.

[7thprincess]

Honestly, you say(lie) that you have a s/o. I think that is the only plausible way.

Or you can be an ass, and just tell them straight up you aren't attracted to them. But you dont want to get slapped, right?

[MaryMagdalin]

i uh keep to myself.
no flirting.
or i mention a bf.

[ShadowMax76]

it's not for me. o_O" i'd be lucky if one girl fell my way. and being slapped is the least of my worries. >>'

-ahem- i'm jus' curious about the lengths people go . or don 't. to avoid hooking up a heart. [to pull out the hook and throw back.]

i reckon there are some people who don't even know they're flirting. :/

[chifuni]

Don't flirt. If I don't like them at all, I would be really cold and ignore them, give them the glare.
That seems to get the point across.

[duykato]

Simple, I don't call and my conversations with her are no more then 10 words long with the modification of "Hey I gotta go bye."

[iota]

you dont.

you'll come across as too damn arrogant. then you will fail to have friends.

Yeah ... just act how you normally would around your friends.

Maybe just make sure you're not saying stuff that could make it seem like you're interested in her/him.

[simple*love]

Don't flirt. If I don't like them at all, I would be really cold and ignore them, give them the glare.
That seems to get the point across.

I agreeeee

[ShadowFoX]

Cold shoulder. Glare at them if they even come close to you.

Problem solved.

[ShadowMax76]

o_O' hm... a new problem to the solution:

if you still want to be friends with them, even good friends ?

or is that not possible? :/ cuz that might be torture to keep them close even if they fell for ya ? D:

[xAzumi]

Hmm..

I don't want to hurt his feelings or see him cry.
Usually guy put up a front and tried to be tough.

If I can sense that he like me more than friends, I just shrugged it iff and continued to be friends.
Would I give up someone because he like me?
I don't want to lose a real friend.

Also, time would change. You would never know when you would soon become attracted to the person.

I talk to everyone the same way, I always make lame jokes, make them cracked up with my dolphin laugh- yes that how my friend describes it.
So he would noticed that he being treated to everyone I talk to.

Oh, I got this from my best friend, I will used it.

When you approach him/ or her to say hello or hi, say

"Hi FRIEND, how are you today"