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#1 User is offline   Leo the Lion 

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 09:31 PM

It is quite evident that I have become a home-wrecker. It's like a game to me.

So I had intentions to mess with this chick that had a boyfriend, and so I did. She broke up with her boyfriend recently and now she is trying real hard to get at me. However, I don't want her; I won the game, and now I'm done with it. She seems quite persistent and is already clinging on to me as if I'm her boyfriend. She doesn't even want me hanging out with other girls. Hahahaha, what a joke! I am tied down to no one.

That's not all, though. I'd like to get at her friend, who also happens to have a boyfriend.

Is this some mental problem? Am I craving for attention? What is it? Or perhaps I just want to hear the insults from everyone after reading what I wrote?

Perhaps it is that I'm trying to find a companion that understands me, that plays the game I do. I know there are a lot of guys out there that play this game. However, most of them won't admit it.

I don't really tell anyone that I know personally my business, because it would obviously ruin my "game".
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Posted 30 September 2008 - 09:37 PM

QUOTE (Leo the Lion @ Oct 1 2008, 12:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It is quite evident that I have become a home-wrecker. It's like a game to me.

So I had intentions to mess with this chick that had a boyfriend, and so I did. She broke up with her boyfriend recently and now she is trying real hard to get at me. However, I don't want her; I won the game, and now I'm done with it. She seems quite persistent and is already clinging on to me as if I'm her boyfriend. She doesn't even want me hanging out with other girls. Hahahaha, what a joke! I am tied down to no one.

That's not all, though. I'd like to get at her friend, who also happens to have a boyfriend.

Is this some mental problem? Am I craving for attention? What is it? Or perhaps I just want to hear the insults from everyone after reading what I wrote?

Perhaps it is that I'm trying to find a companion that understands me, that plays the game I do. I know there are a lot of guys out there that play this game. However, most of them won't admit it.

I don't really tell anyone that I know personally my business, because it would obviously ruin my "game".


Sounds like a korean drama I watched.
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#3 User is offline   unforgettable_misses 

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 09:42 PM

you just like the chase.
its a challenge. lol

although iunno if it would be a good idea if you went for her friend afterwards hahaha
I like like you...
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#4 User is offline   Lilaaa 

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 09:42 PM

Just a tip .. be cautious if you're into playing "the game" too much and be ready for consequences. One day you might actually start liking a girl and have her play with your heart in the end. Karma's a B*tch, really. But anyways, if I were you I'd just be straight forward with her and be like, Chick I'm not looking to be tied down or anything. what we had was fun but I think it's best for both of us to move on from that.
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#5 User is offline   Leo the Lion 

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 09:46 PM

Hello Lilaaa,
I have been crushed before, too many times at that. Karma is indeed what you say it is, but I'm not the one receiving it this time.


And of course it's not a good idea to get at her friend. I like things to get tough.

I'm not a nice guy, I will admit that. I have a mask.
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Posted 30 September 2008 - 09:47 PM

Looks like all your threads are veiled brags about how good you are with women. Just an observation.
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Posted 30 September 2008 - 09:49 PM

QUOTE (Nerdy @ Oct 1 2008, 12:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Looks like all your threads are veiled brags about how good you are with women. Just an observation.

Indeed, good sir. I tried to get a guy to let go of his ex girlfriend one time. I told him about what I do. He freaked and said I shouldn't be doing any of this. Of course that is what any normal person would say.

What I am trying to do is show that it is easy, but men fear the one thing that they want most- women.
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Posted 30 September 2008 - 09:52 PM

^
^ yeah, I noticed that too.


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Posted 30 September 2008 - 09:56 PM

uh-oh..I think you need to change..sorry for the term if it is offensive to you...but..you might get the worst karma if you will not stop "your game"....

You'll always be a part of me...i’m part of you indefinitely....
don’t you know you can’t escape me....
oh darlin cause you’ll always be my baby...


Will be on a hiatus...so sorryy...:(
soo busy at school....plz.DON"T take me off your pm list..:(
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Posted 30 September 2008 - 09:57 PM

ok so what was the point of all that may i ask?

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#11 User is offline   Leo the Lion 

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 10:02 PM

QUOTE (MaryMagdalin @ Oct 1 2008, 12:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ok so what was the point of all that may i ask?

Good question. The answer- I don't know. I'm trying to figure it out...

Sorry, my friends. I will try to change for the better, but not until after this weekend. I promise to you all, I will be a new man, a better one.

I have caught my eye on a certain girl and things are going well so far. She's cute and she's patient. I like that. I like her.
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Posted 30 September 2008 - 10:02 PM

QUOTE (Leo the Lion @ Oct 1 2008, 12:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
What I am trying to do is show that it is easy, but men fear the one thing that they want most- women.


Are you sure its not fear but envy or hatred that men have?
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#13 User is offline   Leo the Lion 

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Posted 30 September 2008 - 10:04 PM

QUOTE (shirotaka @ Oct 1 2008, 01:02 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Are you sure its not fear but envy or hatred that men have?

Your mother brought you into this world. It is only natural that you love women, for they bring you life. I can't see how you(guys in general) can hate women. Envy? Men have a higher social status in life. Envy can't be the answer.
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Posted 30 September 2008 - 10:19 PM

QUOTE (Leo the Lion @ Oct 1 2008, 01:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Your mother brought you into this world. It is only natural that you love women, for they bring you life. I can't see how you(guys in general) can hate women. Envy? Men have a higher social status in life. Envy can't be the answer.


Why would I fear my mother? She brought me into this life and she should deserve to take me out too right? I shouldn't fear it more that I should embrace it. Also, not everyone is on par with you about loving women. Not all mothers that bring you into this world brought you well. Abusive, psychotic, etc mothers, all they did was bring you into a world of pain. If you can thank someone for bringing you discontent than I'm fine with that. So apparently, fear isn't the answer as well.
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Posted 01 October 2008 - 02:33 AM

this may not be relevant.. but when's your bday? noticed leo...
so i'm sure you know about leos?

well anyway.. the way i see it
it stems from a deep insecurity..
or maybe it is all just for fun
it is for your ego.

and you will run your game
even when you do meet a girl you fancy
you will take her for granted
the more she does for you
the more you will take her for granted
maybe you'll even cheat on her

but when she finally has enough of it and dumps you
and gets a new bf

your ego will be crushed
and suddenly.. she will be your 'love'
you will do anything to get her back

& if you dont... then you will be heartbroken for a long time

but you'll be back playing the game again

just guessing
i'm no psychic

has that happened already?
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Posted 01 October 2008 - 02:37 AM

hope karma bites you hard on the arse sleep.gif
being played is not sth to laugh about
what an ahole. I hope sb shatters you heart sometime in the near distant future.


wait...I think I get it now. It's insecurity and your fear of commitment and being hurt.


Aww I feel sad for you.
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Posted 01 October 2008 - 02:41 AM

You are a guy right?

I won't insult you, but it just seems as though you crave attention and want the world to notice you. You want to know how it feels to get this, to get that. You like challenges. Then? Then you dump them without the slightest thought. How must this chick feel to know that she gave up everything for you, but yet you treat her like crap? What if you somewhat in the process fall in love with a person you played with? Must feel good to know why she won't be willing to love you back, huh?

I'm pretty sure you were wrecked to trigger this personality, but yet you are somewhat punishing some in which may be childhood sweet hearts. Do they need to be punished for the sake of your past?

Okay fine I'm insulting already.

But I advise you to calm down. Honestly. You're going to regret this like crap.
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Posted 01 October 2008 - 05:02 AM

hmmm...
ok, well, sounds more to me like someone has done this to you before eh?
revenge? retaliation?
but whatever it is...i think you've been hurt badly and the little games you choose to play
is a way of self expressing to prove that you're more superior than the others?
to feel powerful about yourself?
you don't care for attention, nor a serious relationship...
you want others to noticed what your capabilities are.
i find your attitude and actions quite sad and cruel, whatever message that you're trying to send...
i hope you don't end up tangling yourself in it.
learn how to forgive and move on. smile.gif
I would never let a woman kick my ass. If she tried something, I'd be like, HEY! You get your b*tch ass back in the kitchen and make me some pie!
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Posted 01 October 2008 - 05:08 AM

u sounds like a big jerk to me....if u are not interested in any gals...dun hooked her up...
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Posted 01 October 2008 - 05:22 AM

Typically homewreckers or like the sterotypical ones are distastful people and depise others having happy relationships because he/she had a bad experince or severely crushed by someone they luved heaps or was played before...The reason they do it is because they believe other aren't worth a happy relationship....they tend to become more extreme as years progress on and end up some like the movie "Phone Booth" which i luv....even maybe even serial killers...

However ur on soompi therefore ur obviously not those sort...ur probably they type that lacks attention...ur probably the type the boasts how independant they are, how carefree and confident you are....which is why u go out getting girls that are already taken....because a) u think ur pro and cool.gif ur a doush...however thats not true...

Your actually a weak fool and lacks, needs and demands attention. Your shallow and a piece of *%^ and u deserve to get ur ass kicked...now apart from that; ur just some immature homo pumping kid that wants to chase girls - if they got a bf there obviously good....so yea tada....

Btw ima hyped on sugar - spare crits..
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