[Caroline :)]

Last year there was this guy I kind of just fooled around with (just making out and a little touching on his part only) basically because my hormones were going crazy and it was a total booty call...

but the guy was a creepy person and he thought we were actually in a "relationship". At first I felt bad because he was like a..i guess "fob" so I was like maybe he's a nice kid...uh no.

The first hour he was like "I love you." WHOA what in the world is wrong with him?
Then he's talking about wanting to get married to me so that we must have sex.......wow

So I talked with my friends and after a day and a half I broke it up with him but he was creepy afterwards...
but technically it wasn't even a relationship and whatever so I don't even understand.

after we "broke up" he'd go around telling people lies but people didn't really believe him because he was a TOTAL outcast and people all hated him who knew him beforehand...I was a little late to know (sigh)

Anyways, I regret with all my life that I even met him or knew his name..seriously.
I would give up five years of my life to take that day and a half out of my life.

But yeah, do any of you have a person you regret ever dating, hooking up with, or even meeting?

My case is kinda extreme. He has really droopy features...like the corners of his mouth is pulled down and so are so eyes...and anyone that even looks remotely like him...I get repulsed...

I know that this is really mean and I shouldn't be so hateful but I really don't know how to get rid of this feeling of pure hatred.

I mean I'm not the only one that hates him this much but still...how do I get rid of this pure hatred?

The thought of him just makes me utterly disgusted...I'm such a horrible person...

Or maybe it's a feeling of disgust i feel towards my stupid mistake?

(This was partially just a rant, but yes, do you guys have any big regrets and how do you get rid of it?)

[elperro]

YES! okay during a drunken stupor of many tequila shots, i "did stuff" with a guy i met at a frat party and honestly, i had major beer googles because he's definitely not a looker. and to top it off, he somehow found out my facebook right after our "session" and turned out to be a creep, basically. the lesson of the day is not to drink too much.... it seriously sends your hormones into overdrive and distorts your perceptions, two things that definitely does not go well together.

i see him around campus sometimes but i just pretend i don't see him or recognize him. it's pretty easy to do; you just put this glaze over your eyes and continue walking. or wear sunglasses! but in all seriousness, i wouldn't necesarily say i regretted what happened with this creeper because i learned some valuable things from it. so don't dwell on it and be too harsh on yourself. you're young and you're prone to mistakes. next time just masturbate.

[smiile]

man, i feel for you.
well, you should have made it clear to him you guys were not official.
like it was just a fling, nothing else. go to him and clear it up, if you dont want to, just wait for him to get over it.

and being embarrassed about it is acceptable, but you need to pay for what your hormones have done lol nd be... uh embarrassed about it.
(trust me, i had those why did i do that with that ugly guy/creep moments too...)

[PhunGar]

wow ur case is a tad extreme

and yes i have

lowered my standards a fair few notches

[andybebop]

Shoot, so she while we were "together" she liked some other guy.
Should have seen it coming.
but hey, ha everything happens for a reason.
Two months ago, she goes out with another guy, and guess what?
That guy ended up like mee.

[小甜密]

yes i have. a rebound is a rebound, what can i say?

[Ah Reum]

Yes. Oh my goodness.

This one time at a party, I started talking to this old friend of mine who I haven't talked to in forever. He said he used to like me, and starting making moves. I was all "hell with it, I'm drunk and this boy is freaking cute/hot/sexy/all of the above! We'll forget this ever happened in the morning" and. Well. At first we were in chairs, and then the couch, and then

Anyways, the next morning we definitely had hang overs but we definitely remembered everything. Waking up had to be the most awkward confrontation ever.

And then he thought we were like. something. But weren't, and... in the end, I came out looking like the "hoar"/tramp/slut and he came out looking like the poor, heartbroken boy. And it'd just be REALLY WIERD whenever I saw him around school, which was quite often, because our social spheres mix with each other.


I REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY wish that night didn't happen.
And yes, this is a rant. haha. *sigh*

I sort of know what you mean I guess, except he wasn't clingy at all or anything. I told him flat out that we weren't nything, and he accepted it ... but still, it was really awkward. I think that if we had "remet" or reunited under different circumstances, I might have developed feelings for him, because he's a very nice nice nice person who knows how to treat a lady right (: And he's cute. I SWEAR IM NOT SHALLOW! But yeah. (:

[RE.]

it happens... you'll get used to it

then it be whatever and move on hahah

[Inspector]

That sucks for you. Don't be embarassed though, I'm sure EVERYONE will come across something like that once in their life.



I slept with one of my sisters friend because I was drunk at this party. It was her close friend, and apparently she had a crush on me AND it was her first time. When my sister found out she flipped out on me. That was about 3 years ago, and we still arent close as we used to be. I do anything to reverse time.

[MaryMagdalin]

sometimes i wish i didnt hook up with my current bf so fast?
maybe its just cuz we`re having problems and such
and we moved really fast.

besides that i wish i didnt have a fling with this one kid (he was younger)
Im not the heartbreaker type of person
and i dont know why i even tried it
but he liked me and we sort of dated for a month
and then i lost all feelings
and i didnt know what to do so i just avoided him
and I felt really bad and he was really sad..

[hunny]

Yea
I regret hooking this dude, I was just having fun, I’m too young to get married or even into a r/s. I’m just not a serious person. I’m 20 btw. So we’re out for a “date”, but I call it a dinner. Went to eat and watch a movie. He’s so irritating in the movie. I was commenting on how hot is holly valance(whatever her name is); we’re watching the disaster movie. And he went so close beside my ears and whisper “I think you’re hotter” , ew; instead of being happy, I feel disgusted. After the movie, he wants to get close with me. He brought me to the roof top of the shopping mall and we sat there, I was sitting at the edge and he’s so close beside me and I’ve no where else to shift. He then hold my hand and put my head on his chest in such an uncomfortable position. Thinking back, I still feel disgusted. He’s 28 and probably very ready to get into a r/s with me and might propose to me anytime. And the topics and things that he says, just brought me to the hell of boredom.
Luckily he doesn’t know any of my friends thus can’t go around talking crap or untrue stuffs about us. But he still pm me everyday in msn to bother me, I shall block him, but I thought that was not nice.
I swear I’m not gonna go out on a date with him anymore.

And yea, I did regret abt sleeping with another random guy, I was just too attracted to his physical built, not appearance. I was shallow back then. NOT ANYMORE!

[mintcracker]

I have lots of things I regret, but I shall not say cos it's personal. =/


Let's just say, I've realised I can be pretty impulsive =S

[sugarichigo]

he's like my bad addiction. I want to stop going back to him yet i still hope..

[vickstahs]

not really regret..
but it's somethign that my friends have come to know as the "crash and burn" experience
i broke up with my bf and risked it all for a chance with this guy
as it turns out
he only had one agenda on his mind
and when he realised i wasn't willing to give that up to him
he totally turned around to be the biggest prick
and it was so shocking because i always thought he was this sweet funny guy..
turns out i'd been proved wrong.
ha

that's how the cookie crumbles i guess- i learnt from that and moved on...

...afterieggedhishouse
...

kidding
(L)

[meilove]

in 7th grade i fooled around with this guy. totally regretted it. really glad he moved to another state lol
and i've always stayed best friends with my exes but there is only one that i really dislike and don't think i'll ever be friends with him. he's too perverted and still very immature. i don't like to deal with him. ew.

[missavvy]

LMAO!! me and my friends were talking about writing a book for "I wish i never..." which would include people u regret meeting/dating/hooking up with and stuff. lol.. i dont think i REALLY regret a person like yours, which is kinda extreme, but i do know what u mean.
i met this guy and me and my friend were like, yeah hes so hot blah blah blah. i dont wanna go into details, but we go to another party and next thing u know, hes the biggest perv/creeper there is... hooked up with this permiscuous girl. it was gross.
there was this other guy i had beer goggles for. LOL. turned out he was pretty strange too.. :S

[endlessbeauty]

yes!
i still do! i regretted it because he really was a sweet guy, but i wasn't attracted to him in that way. he wasn't the type of guy that i usually go for, but since i knew him for a while i decided to give it a chance. very caring and charming but i just didn't feel right with him. and now he refuses to talk to me.

so yea...i do regret ruining the friendship we had.

[Kanzen]

Yes.

Definitely, yes.

[caramel.coffee&nuts]

I regret going out with my 2nd and 3rd exes. They're such assholes. I also regret liking and fooling around with the last guy I liked. Ugh.

[sweetcream]

Well fooling around is always a mistake.
But yeah, I sort of do regret talking to someone.
It's almost mean to say regret though cause I do care about him.
I just wish sometimes that I could erase all the memories of him, but that would be sad.
I regret approaching him and wanting to be his best friend. haha