[onFiRE*]

Thanks for your help everyone :]

This post has been edited by onFiRE*: 19 November 2009 - 03:22 AM

[Daaarian]

Just know its not you thats the problem, its the other girls.

They're rejecting you? You didnt mention any bad things that could have happened so im not going to assume anything. As for other people, maybe you dont have the same interests as them?

[._.]

You're not a loner, just find better friends.

[flyxme.]

you need to find some good friends
.....you have recess? o_o

[Kawakji]

You're not a loner, just find better friends.

Yeah, just seek out new friends. I had a similar situation during my junior year- my old friends just all started giving me the cold shoulder.

So I started hanging out with a bunch of happa ricers! >:3

[cardamine]

you need to find some good friends
.....you have recess? o_o

yea....... why the eff do you have recess??

[lovemelody.]

i dont think its your fault at all,
you just need to find new/better friends.


btw, what grade are you in?
you have recess..? o_o

[Yuenie]

Join a extra curricular club or a sports team at your school and participate. It's an easy way to make friends since you'll all at least have one common interest so that's something to talk about. xD

[onFiRE*]

yea....... why the eff do you have recess??

Um because I do?
I don't know, most high schoolshere have recess, or sometimes called break.
YAY US.

[KimKTN]

I'm in canada

in elementary , they would call the breaks (15 minutes in the morning, 30 at lunch and 15 in the afternoon) recesses.

Highschool, you just call your break - lunch, but some still get used to calling it recess right?


Anyways, my advice - join a club - yearbook, anime, theatre , intermurals , they can't reject you, they can't cause problems and you'll be able to make friends there.

[mintcracker]

gosh this has happened to me too T_T

cos I used to change schools every year, and move to a complete different suburb.


It's hard, but I think you really need to keep trying T___T
I know you wanna give up, those ppl are really making life difficult, but really...it's affecting your school work =/


oh btw, you seem like a really fun person, well I'm reading your fanfic just now, you're funny as. ^^

[missavvy]

U have recesS? lol my high school didnt.. [im from toronto]
anywho, i'd recommend doing your own thing for a while, even if it makes u a "loner".
talk to people in class and stuff, but let your relationships get made themselves.. im not saying dont try, but just dont stress over it. you'll find friends more naturally that way, and this time they wont ditch u or anything, cuz its unforced. i dont even know how i found friends in high school to be honest, and now im in uni and going thru the same thing as u kinda, except i dont know anyone at all. its completely new.. i just hang out randomly with people from time to time. its odd.
high school is fun though, and friends WILL most likely come ur way, just wait it out. focus on school work, socialize [but not desperately]. good luck!

[mintcracker]

^ yah I agree

I'm a loner in uni
I know ppl, but it's like I'm alone most of the time. =/

still not used to it, but find that I'm not as dependant on others as I was before.

In high school, I needed sb to go everywhere with me lol.

[andybebop]

Making friends always take time ha.

[orangesmartie92]

i have recess from 10:26 to 10:38 am. that's like a rather s.hitty 12 minutes to switch your books and eat.

...
but yeah friends come and go.

if you really feel awkward though, try talking to the ones you really miss, and tell them how you feel, and ask them what's going on.
that's seriously something I would do.

friendships last longer when you have a rift in one point during that relationship.

[takashi]

to be honest, just talk to different people. give it a moment so your vibe can tell you how it's liking it. if it just feels awkward, then you know who ever you're talking to isn't right. =] that's what i do. sure that may limit your choice a lot, but sometimes it's better to have fewer friends, who know you very well and will not backstab you, rather than have many friends who have mediocure connections with you.

[lostieee]

Awww I'm feeling you, this is what I'm so freaked out about since I'll be moving to a new school next year. I'm really hoping the people there are nice and friendly enough to get to know me better before leaving me out in things. I'm really active, loud and talkative person so if I don't get the fun I'm supposed to get, I get really upset and depressed.

My best advice to you is continue being approachable to others and I'm sure you'll get rewarded back by people wanting to know you more. They'll eventually find you interesting (nobody's boring in this world) but if not, you should seek out to other people at your school with the same interests as you do instead of trying very hard to fit in doing drugs and stuff.

Have you been contacting your friends from your old school? It'd be great if they still have your back so when it's time for holidays, you can always meetup with them having fun and catching up. I wish you the best of luck on finding new people to befriends with but whatever you do, be yourself and don't try too hard to fit in cuz' that's only hiding the real you instead of bringing your unique personality out.

[thesisoflove]

wah, im starting to experience the same thing.
like i dont wanna just budge myself into cliques.. especially some of them are really good friends with.. then i feel left out.. x_x its like all my friends have ditched me.. literally..
so right now i am finding myself where i can definately fit in and where abouts that i am liked because of who i am.

I'm also in high school ^^.. i am a total loner during break. haha, i just wonder off and find peoples.. >< but at lunch... i intend to hang out with different people so i can experience with new friends.

best of luck to you
it just takes time.

[AL_NT_ATT]

i don't know about you but when i was in high school, i actually preferred being alone during lunch, especially senior year. just pre-occupy yourself with something like reading or studying or homework? i dunno, they don't seem to fit you so let it be, find your own comfort from inside yourself.

[chuchow!]

don't worry. not everyone needs to belong in a group =)
just be nice and welcoming and keep good relationships with others.
if they still act dumb, it's their problem and you are too good for than =D
and remember. its senior year which means.. leaving for college soon!!

-edit.
actually.. college around june of next year.. but no worries!
by then, senior year would have passed by too quickly.
don't worry about others and make sure you find your own happiness.