[babybuggyY2K]

so since my break up with my very last bf. i moved in with this girlfriend of mine.

all was good. she has a very cute doggy named bebe. i work daytime. she works night time at a bar. we get along.

recently her bf and her have been having a neverending fight. yelling through the windows and him yelling back from outside her window. alright FINE! by the time she comes back from work is the time i wake up so i let them have their way.

but it got out of hands.
she told me she dumped him after a week of the same mini cooper.

it was last week's friday 6am i heard many noises from her room.i thought they were having the same fight. i was getting used to it.then my phone rang . it was the girlfriend that i lived with. she called me and she was crying for help. she told me that she was hiding in the bathroom. it turns out that i noise i hear was glass shattering. her ex boyfriend. broke through the window with his elbows. he freakin rushed to the living room bleeding all over her room and the living room. he crashed the bathroom door opened knowing my friend was in there. she was yelling forhim to leave her alone. and he got pissed over i dont know what but he seemed pretty drunk to me. he grabbed a knife from the kitchen which was next to the bathroom and she was hiding behind me so i was like ... didnt know what to do. i just yelled at him 'what the fck do you want to do?' she made a run and locked herself into my room. he started yelling and stabbing the door.

people from the block called the cops. i didnt know. i just knew the door rang and i opened the door and the cops came. he could've been arrested right there. but my girlfriend just told them to take him to the hospital cause his elbow was bleeding so bad.

i was left there to clean the blood with her.

BUT OMFG i'm so SCARED. i've been noticing that he's been lurking near the house. sometimes i'm even afraid to go home./

cause i yelled at him while he was holding a knife .. since then she;'s been hiding behind me .. she says i'm brave and she's been trying to use me as a sheild.. but the only reason i yelled at him while he was holding a knife in front of my face was because i was fckn scared and didnt know what else i can say or do.. but i'm as scared as hell too....... what should i do. she wont get that bastard arrested.

[kumadana]

wtf!?!?!?!? MOVE OUT!!!!!!!!!!


You shouldn;t live with a crazy roommate because scary stuff like this happens! You could get hurt in the crossfire! Move for your own safety! That is soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo scary!

[jbigdog123]

If she doesn't press charges against him then he'll be back, and this time, it could have even worse ending, possible involving you. So, if I were you, talk to her to get her to press charges, if not, then you need to protect yourself by finding another place to live as soon as possible, it is a very dangerous situation that you are in.

[KiLLAH!]

holy mini cooper o _o
psycho ass boyfriend for sureee..
get a restraining order
or move out.

[eka42]

why would you move out because of this lmao...

ask your roommate about this BF (if this has happened before, if he has a history of domestic violences/abusiveness/felonies) if he appears to be unstable + dangerous confront him and tell him to keep the fights AWAY from your home, and if he bothers any of you at your physical home, tell him you are going to call the cops immediately.

i honestly think he regrets it and was mad drunk/depressed. although it doesn't nearly equate to an excuse for what he did, i don't think it will be a recurring problem.

[baby-swts]

dude you need to move out or get a new roomate and kick her out!!!LOL
that guy is crazy holy holding a knife? what a freak
friggin arrest him and put him in jail!

[小甜密]

You seriously need to talk to your girlfriend about reporting this guy to the police. If she doesn't listen, MAKE HER LISTEN. This doesn't only concern her, it's obviously about your safety too.

[abusegirl]

you have the legal right to request that she moves out now. she's put you in physical danger and no judge will disagree if she takes you to court for wrongful eviction.

if she won't press charges, you can, as a resident of the home and also a victim of his violence, have a restraining order filed. if he comes near the house or you he will be arrested.

i suggest you tell her she needs to handle it before you do because if it continues she'll have to find somewhere else to live.

[imready]

OMG you have guts ><
I'd probably freak out and run out haha, the hell with her.
but yeah
dont get involved in that stuff, move out.

[Poop-Shoop-A-Loop]

okay no offense but why are you guys telling her to ditch her roommate like a ragged doll. her roommate is also her FRIEND. it's kinda messed up to to just ditch her for your own safety.

i mean yes.. her safety is at stake too but her friend needs her also for support.

I'd try to convince your friend to press charges or do SOMETHING like get a restraining order or something. but if she doesn't listen at ALL.. and if you're really scared, you'll probably have to move out cause of the danger you're in also. but at least check up on her, and somehow make sure she's safe too before you decide to move out. but seriously, convince her to press charges~! a knife!? ><;;

[abusegirl]

^ it's nice to think of another friend and all...but friends don't put each other in this kind of danger. Either of them could have been killed because they guy is absolutely nuts.

taking that into consideration...friendship is nice but i'd rather live then try to keep someone who has a nutso ex-bf and is too stupid to provide her own safety around while i hope said nutso ex-bf doesn't kill us both.

in a perfect world, she'll convince her friend to have the mofo in jail. but nothing is perfect and chances are if the chick didn't do it the night of this drama and CONTINUES to HIDE BEHIND the op....she won't do it. she's relying on the op for protection. nice friend. chick needs to move because she has no one's best interest at heart.

[GOJIN]

there's no need to think twice on this.

for your own safety, move out.

and your friend's bf is a psycho...you should seriously consider police action or suggest a restraining order for your friend.

honestly, you need to take action before something more serious happens.

[ITS VIVIAN! =D]

You have to tell your friend/roommate that she has to do something about her boyfriend, or else its gonna happen again and next time, YOU are the one that might get hurt. You have to tell her that you can't protect her at all time, and that she has to take the appropriate action to protect herself as well. (press some charges against the boy)

[lovemelody.]

tell your friend to get a restraining order!!!
http://www.larcc.org/pamphlets/children_fa...ining_order.htm

[aznxkaiser]

Buy bear traps and place them near the windows. Then, if this ever happens again, THWACK! Off with his leg

[furiae]

be extra careful in case if something happens again..

[vickstahs]

wow, i really feel bad for you. i would suggest that you tell her about it and just make her understand where you're coming from. and next time, when he's drunk, grab your girlfriend and both of you's just make a run for it. he sounds a bit pyschodelic, and alchohol does not help the situation. you prolly got lucky this time that nobody got hurt (besides him and his elbow), but if there is a next time, just be really careful.

gl

[simplii_forevah]

MOOOVEEEEEEE OUTTTTTTT ASAP!!!!!!!

[mintcracker]

Let's not ask questions right now, what you need to do is MOVE OUT ASAP, tmrw if you need to

then help convince the frd to get a restraining order. Can't believe she's hiding behind you . That's pretty selfish of her, she's involving you in messed up relationship. She needs to just to to the police and protect herself, otherwise it might be too late next time.

[her_heart]

Buy bear traps and place them near the windows. Then, if this ever happens again, THWACK! Off with his leg

This made me chuckle, very clever though!! Maybe you guys should visit your family for a bit til it dies down and find a new place to live. Can you imagine what he could have done if you weren't there?