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#1 User is offline   handsomecupcakee 

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Posted 04 October 2008 - 08:44 PM

This happens to me quite often.


Dont you hate it when your friends start to like you , as in developing feelings towards you ?
what do you think about it?
ever experienced it?



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#2 User is offline   abusegirl 

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Posted 04 October 2008 - 08:50 PM

don't you hate it when people make threads asking if you hate when random things happen but they've never happened or you really don't hate it thereby making it impossible to say no without being a mean ass?
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Posted 04 October 2008 - 08:56 PM

WHAT? "its even worse when they're like your brother/sister" ??? O>O
dont you mean "its even worse when they like your brother/ sister..?
because what you wrote is starting to sound like incest...

anyway
yes i hate it when friends start to like you
it usually happens when im too nice, and the person isnt used to it...
they get the wrong idea and start to flirt with you...
its really annoying because im experiencing something like that right now -.=

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Posted 04 October 2008 - 08:58 PM

^i'm pretty sure the OP meant that they're such close friends you think of them as your bro/sis

QUOTE (abusegirl @ Oct 5 2008, 03:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
don't you hate it when people make threads asking if you hate when random things happen but they've never happened or you really don't hate it thereby making it impossible to say no without being a mean ass?

lol (:

but i'm still going to say no. xD
i don't hate it :/
well afaik
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Posted 04 October 2008 - 09:01 PM

huh? ur asking if i hate it when my friends "like me"
uh
of course i would like the fact that "MY FRIENDS LIKE ME!" tongue.gif
haha
wait do u mean like "LIKEY LIKE"
or just "like" sleep.gif
i dont understand the question anymore haha

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Posted 04 October 2008 - 09:06 PM

O_O"
uhmm im so lost

if a friend started liking me and i treated them like a bro hell yeah it'd be weird

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Posted 04 October 2008 - 09:19 PM

that has happened to me.
lol i've dated a guy that i thought of only a brother...
well it didn't work out obviously lol.
there has to be that initial attraction for me
loll mm..?
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Posted 04 October 2008 - 09:59 PM

I dislike it not necessarily hate it. But it does make me feel awkward.
I give them a chance but it's just so awkward! ><
I kind of wish they didn't like me cause I wouldn't be able to bear it if I hurt them.
Makes me kind of scared to be myself in front of people o__o.

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Posted 04 October 2008 - 10:03 PM

I don't like it, but I don't hate it. It is not like I will hate them for looking at me at another way or something.

I have gone through experiences like that before and when that happens, before they confess, I will just treat them like I normally do.
But if they don't confess and keep on living on with false hope, I start sending out signals by saying stuff like, "you're like a brother to me!"
When they confess, I tell them straight out that I only like them as a friend. It is good to be blunt since they will know the truth and it will most likely save your friendship =)

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Posted 04 October 2008 - 10:13 PM

dont you hate when the person you like don't like you and the person whom you don't like, bugging at u even after explaining to him thousands and millions of times no ?
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Posted 05 October 2008 - 12:09 AM

QUOTE (idiotsucks @ Oct 5 2008, 01:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
dont you hate when the person you like don't like you and the person whom you don't like, bugging at u even after explaining to him thousands and millions of times no ?


YESS! SO TRUE man when someone likes you and keeps bugging you.. When a guy likes me and I responded NICELY IN THE BEST WAY THAT I CAN to explain that I am not interested and they just keep going for it, pushing my buttons. I actually pick up when they call but dont tell a single stuff about myself to them. I dont want to make it look like they are special and i will tell thema bout my personal life. ITS SO IRRITATING. What happened to me was that a guy liked me and i made it clear that I wasn't intrested in him but I still spoke with him bc I felt that it was not right to totally ignore his call but just pick up at times and he said once that Its weird how He likes me, and i like him but we arent dating. I was goin to explode from hearing this when I made it clear that I didnt like him.
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Posted 05 October 2008 - 12:31 AM

lol it's not like it's something that occurs on a daily basis. when it does happen, i don't like it, but it's not that big of a deal.
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Posted 05 October 2008 - 12:34 AM

YES IN FACT I HATE IT! That just happened to me about
2 days ago! I didn't like him at all too. He was gonna ask me out (o.O)
He almost did but I RAN AWAY! Shizzles, now I gotta face him on monday (v.v)
Imma tell him straight up that "I DON'T LIKE YOU, SORRY!" So sad for him.
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Posted 05 October 2008 - 02:18 AM

EDIT OUT.

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Posted 05 October 2008 - 04:00 AM

I freaking hate it, and it's so awkward as well... especially when you wanna tell them you're REALLY REALLY not interested and only see them as a friend. I'm still busting my balls trying to figure out how to tell someone that very same thing atm, I mean.. when it's randoms or people you don't know all that well.. IT'S SO much easier cuz frankly I couldn't give two sh*ts about their feelings. With friends though, it's altogether a different matter :/

HORRIBLE. I hate it sooo much when that happens.
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Posted 05 October 2008 - 04:06 AM

I don't hate it but I don't like it either.

I just feel it would be awkward because we're friends. And I don't think that best friends hook up together is a good idea.
Imagine that there would be a break up. I'd lose 1 best friend and that means a lot. sad.gif
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Posted 05 October 2008 - 04:09 AM

QUOTE (abusegirl @ Oct 5 2008, 12:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
don't you hate it when people make threads asking if you hate when random things happen but they've never happened or you really don't hate it thereby making it impossible to say no without being a mean ass?


interesting. don't you hate it when a user posts something irrelevant to the topic?

well, anyways ..
I hate it when I get mixed signals from a guy.

and speaking of which.
it feels weird if a friend likes you. my guy friends aren't my type .. except that friend of his haha

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Posted 05 October 2008 - 05:24 AM

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GreenStuff Posted Today, 04:09 PM
QUOTE (idiotsucks @ Oct 5 2008, 01:13 AM)
dont you hate when the person you like don't like you and the person whom you don't like, bugging at u even after explaining to him thousands and millions of times no ?


YESS! SO TRUE man when someone likes you and keeps bugging you.. When a guy likes me and I responded NICELY IN THE BEST WAY THAT I CAN to explain that I am not interested and they just keep going for it, pushing my buttons. I actually pick up when they call but dont tell a single stuff about myself to them. I dont want to make it look like they are special and i will tell thema bout my personal life. ITS SO IRRITATING. What happened to me was that a guy liked me and i made it clear that I wasn't intrested in him but I still spoke with him bc I felt that it was not right to totally ignore his call but just pick up at times and he said once that Its weird how He likes me, and i like him but we arent dating. I was goin to explode from hearing this when I made it clear that I didnt like him.


. . . . haaa... I'm undergoing the same condition as you. The difference is just that, I don't think that guy really mean to have a serious relationship. He is just desperate to have a gf. How the heck you want me to believe that a guy who know me from a camp last year likes me? Sigh. After I rejected him, he says he will continues.. I'm speechless then. It's all up to him. I do not want to sound mean too.. Just let it be.. Yeah. It's not good to ignore.

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Sigh. It's really sad to know that you can't like someone whom you like? T_T sigh... Very torturing.
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Posted 05 October 2008 - 10:09 AM

QUOTE (vip_gd @ Oct 5 2008, 07:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
interesting. don't you hate it when a user posts something irrelevant to the topic?


ah ah ah....the lady said 'post your own dont you hate when...'

read the actual post asswipe before jumping on people.
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Posted 05 October 2008 - 11:03 AM

QUOTE (abusegirl @ Oct 5 2008, 01:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ah ah ah....he said 'post your own dont you hate when...'

read the actual post asswipe before jumping on people.


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